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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Relationship with AS Gf |
| orangesun |
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Posted: 02 Feb 2010, 10:42 am
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| Those were the times that I knew and could really feel her love (when she waved her arms). Here is the situation now though: Everything is fine - in the sense that she can make eye contact and she can talk to me about ANYTHING (partly because she has a trouble keeping her mouth shut haha, and party... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Relationship with AS Gf |
| orangesun |
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Posted: 29 Jan 2010, 9:49 am
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Replies: 24
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| Thanks for all your input guys, I really appreciate it. I guess its helped me a bit in figuring things out. But its weird, because we haven't talked for 3 days, and I don't know, I sort of resorted to not initiating contact because I always did it. My friend has AS as well (guy) and I asked him abou... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Relationship with AS Gf |
| orangesun |
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Posted: 26 Jan 2010, 8:45 am
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Replies: 24
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| Hi guys, I am so glad that I am gotten responses somewhat :) Thanks for the encouragement, to be honest, it almost brought a tear to my eye when some of you complimented me and stuff. But I guess, its just a bit weird now, cause Savannah, she was in the same situation - except she only realized she ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Long term relationship with an aspie |
| orangesun |
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Posted: 24 Jan 2010, 10:32 am
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| Hi guys, As some of you might recognize, I'm back again. Last time I posted here I think I was with my gf for about 7 months, and now, we have been together for a year (just over). There is just a few questions I need to ask - I'm not sure if this is a dating or AS matter, but I thought you guys mig... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: relationship with as |
| orangesun |
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Posted: 17 Oct 2009, 10:38 am
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| hi, im having really bad troubles right now in our relationship, i think my AS gf might be cheating on me, and she has been going to parties with some of my other friends. last night she told me that she didnt know what she was feeling or what she wanted and that i should just be supporting her and ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Top advice for someone in a relationship with an aspie? |
| orangesun |
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Posted: 13 Oct 2009, 9:09 am
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Replies: 7
Views: 2,003
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I'm keeping an eye out on this as well!
Well, just to add on - What kind of traits/qualities would you need to show to make them feel loved? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Relationship with AS Gf |
| orangesun |
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Posted: 13 Oct 2009, 2:35 am
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Replies: 24
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| Thankyou kissmyarrrtichoke, Apera and Dark_Red_Beloved for your support, it has made me feel a bit better knowing that I am not completely deviating from track. I love her so much, and even though my dad is a bit judgemental of her - I love her for the way she is. Well, the thing is, I am very blind... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to get to gf's feelings. |
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Posted: 13 Oct 2009, 2:27 am
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Replies: 6
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| Thanks, I have asked her straightforward, and she has been unable to give me an answer - well one I would understand anyway. I have asked her it before and she has felt like she has had pressure put onto her and has been very confused. I know actions speak louder than words, but sometimes I like hea... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: my friend's crush |
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Posted: 12 Oct 2009, 9:09 am
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Replies: 4
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Deleted - convinced my friend joined the forum.  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to get to gf's feelings. |
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Posted: 12 Oct 2009, 8:44 am
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| Hi, Im just wondering how would you get to the root of what your AS gf is feeling for you. Recently ive been feeling a bit insecure with our relationship, and i have asked her how she feels about me (because within the 10 month period, she has only said i love you once, during our 7 months lol) and ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Relationship with AS Gf |
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Posted: 12 Oct 2009, 8:37 am
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| hi, im just wondering. in a relationship with an AS, what can you do to make her feel loved and make her attracted to you? and how would you know if you are making her feel loved? im 17, and shes 16 because we've been together for 10 months now, and, ive just noticed that every time i say something ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspies in a Longterm Relationship |
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Posted: 28 Jul 2009, 5:49 am
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Replies: 12
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| Hey, I was just wondering, what goes through the head of an aspie, when they are developing a long term relationship with a NT person. Do they start losing interest? Do they start becoming more comfortable (as in, more independent), do they move you down the priority list? Cause I'm just a bit confu... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie Partner + Aspie Friend |
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Posted: 23 Jul 2009, 7:00 am
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| Hi Guys, It's me again... Anyway, ive been going out with my AS gf for nearly 7 months now. and basically, things have been rocky, but right now things are patching up a bit. cutting the crap - i have a friend (male) who has AS as well, who is the same age i am. my gf is 15 turning 16 very soon, and... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My Girlfriend has AS new topic |
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Posted: 09 Jul 2009, 5:58 am
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Replies: 16
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| To be honest, I have wanted to die for just a bit of reciprocation, but I assume it is a trait some Aspie's have - They need a reason to why they do things, and they do things to their own accord I had similar issues with my last girlfriend as you are having now, only i was in your girlfriends posi... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My Girlfriend has AS new topic |
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Posted: 09 Jul 2009, 12:35 am
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Replies: 16
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| god, i dont know, i know im wrong in all this, but is it wrong of me to expect just a little bit in return for what i give? Sorry but how are you in the wrong? Of course you should expect some kind of reciprocation and reassurance, it's something everyone needs. Don't beat yourself up in that way m... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My Girlfriend has AS new topic |
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Posted: 08 Jul 2009, 11:15 pm
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Replies: 16
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| Ok thanks for your input michjo, I understand everything you say. Its just I havent really felt anything compelling these past 6 months. Its just been this week when I absolutely went overload about feelings. I'll do my best to just be happy and fun. I think i'm sensing and she is as well what I am ... |
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