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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Seemed to scare my cousin's friend off |
| Shebakoby |
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Posted: 06 Mar 2015, 4:56 am
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Replies: 16
Views: 1,690
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| you could probably ask your cousin what the deal is with this chick, (like has this girl been talking trash about you behind your back?) if you want to make sure you didn't do anything wrong, but that's about it. How well do you get along with your cousin anyway? Maybe cousin was telling tales out ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Relationship Advice Please |
| Shebakoby |
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Posted: 04 Mar 2015, 5:28 am
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Replies: 6
Views: 832
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| skype can call actual phones. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Seemed to scare my cousin's friend off |
| Shebakoby |
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Posted: 04 Mar 2015, 3:43 am
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Replies: 16
Views: 1,690
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| you could probably ask your cousin what the deal is with this chick, (like has this girl been talking trash about you behind your back?) if you want to make sure you didn't do anything wrong, but that's about it. How well do you get along with your cousin anyway? Maybe cousin was telling tales out o... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Forever Alone |
| Shebakoby |
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Posted: 25 Feb 2015, 7:16 pm
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Replies: 24
Views: 4,180
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| @ Shebakoby Yup, I told them I am Autistic. Didn't matter. Never did matter, no one cares if I have Autism, if I faux pas even a tiny bit, I get thrown out. They didn't tell me 'what' I did wrong, they hinted at it, and I don't understand what they were 'specifically' hinting at. What they were hin... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Discussion: Autism and Polyamory |
| Shebakoby |
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Posted: 25 Feb 2015, 7:07 pm
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Replies: 47
Views: 3,297
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| I'm not even wanted by one (IRL), being wanted by many (or wanting many) just doesn't compute. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: At what age did you have your first kiss? |
| Shebakoby |
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Posted: 24 Feb 2015, 6:56 am
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Replies: 79
Views: 4,683
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can't have a first kiss when there's literally nobody to kiss  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dating and delayed processing, feeling hurt a lot |
| Shebakoby |
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Posted: 24 Feb 2015, 6:54 am
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Replies: 4
Views: 709
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| I've got somewhat of an opposite problem: I can't sometimes process what I'm saying and later on I realize something I said could be taken the wrong way (and more than likely was) because of the ambiguous nature of language. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Will I be alone forever? |
| Shebakoby |
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Posted: 24 Feb 2015, 6:52 am
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Replies: 16
Views: 5,382
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| I am having such a tough time right now. I feel so alone. I'm 31 years old, and everyone I know is married with families. I want that so bad. I'm a single mom, but I want a husband and more kids and the whole nine yards. I've tried the online dating thing...wow that was a joke. One guy was a comple... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Forever Alone |
| Shebakoby |
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Posted: 24 Feb 2015, 6:43 am
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Replies: 24
Views: 4,180
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| Therapists are completely useless if they do not have any specialization in dealing with adults with autism. Invariably they begin talking in circles because they don't know what to do even if they don't know you're autistic. Group therapy usually has a therapist running it. Did you ask the person r... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: How strong is your need of having the "second half"? |
| Shebakoby |
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Posted: 24 Feb 2015, 12:00 am
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Replies: 29
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I don't know. Sometimes I wonder what it would be like, but then I think about all the things I'd have to take into account.
All I know is there's not a guy out there (at present) who knows me In Real Life who needs me as their "second half". |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Girl gives me e-mail address but doesn't respond to e-mail |
| Shebakoby |
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Posted: 23 Feb 2015, 11:47 pm
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Replies: 14
Views: 3,048
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| either she doesn't check her email, or she did the equivalent of what back in the day was called giving out a fake phone number (or just not answering the phone). |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Do aspies never grow up or mature? |
| Shebakoby |
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Posted: 16 Feb 2015, 3:02 am
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Replies: 42
Views: 5,322
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| I have never experienced that magical sudden change that supposedly indicates transition into adulthood. You know, the supposedly requisite disinterest in all things even remotely looking like they are intended for children, from toys, stuffed animals, and certain TV shows (particularly cartoons). |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: How do go about being friends with someone with Asperger's? |
| Shebakoby |
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Posted: 16 Feb 2015, 2:49 am
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Replies: 85
Views: 5,229
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| I met this guy who has Asperger's I enjoy talking to him but there is conflict. Sometimes I'll ask him how he's feeling and he doesn't like to express emotions. He says that he finds our conversations uninteresting and told me to read about Asperger's and High Functioning Autism. How can someone wh... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Is any one else afraid to have there pitcher taken? |
| Shebakoby |
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Posted: 16 Feb 2015, 2:44 am
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Replies: 11
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| I'm not afraid to have my picture taken; however I dislike "formal" picture-taking, as I consider it unnecessarily time-consuming and boring. Particularly if several people want pictures of a group all organized and standing, in succession. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Facing a Betrayal of sorts |
| Shebakoby |
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Posted: 16 Feb 2015, 2:41 am
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Replies: 16
Views: 1,639
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| I would certainly count this as some *sort* of betrayal, however maybe she thinks you are the traitor. guys and gals being friends at all anyway doesn't compute. Obviously she's afraid you'd developed feelings for her; maybe the BF felt threatened romantically. In any case I am of the firm belief th... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Confused. Is this domestic abuse or not? |
| Shebakoby |
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Posted: 16 Feb 2015, 2:12 am
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Replies: 53
Views: 4,208
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| did he want you to be homeless so you would come crawling back to him or something? That's awfully fishy. |
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