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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: NT girl in a new relationship with an Aspie - need advice! |
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Posted: 08 Dec 2009, 4:30 am
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| Thanks all - have a great Xmas and New Year! |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: NT girl in a new relationship with an Aspie - need advice! |
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Posted: 06 Dec 2009, 7:01 pm
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| You make a good point, and it's something I'm not too concerned about given in less than 2 months we'll be in different continents and leading very seperate lives. We were never in touch too often when we were just friends, just ramdomly, and I'm sure it'll soon go back to that. Just better to leave... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: NT girl in a new relationship with an Aspie - need advice! |
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Posted: 05 Dec 2009, 11:56 pm
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Thank you - yes I feel very onfident about this outcome and I have no questions anymore. I'm just ready to move forward and I'm happy to know this special person.
Ha ha I'm almost sad this thread is now over and you've all helped me through this immensly!
Thanks you all once again! ^^ |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: NT girl in a new relationship with an Aspie - need advice! |
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Posted: 05 Dec 2009, 11:33 pm
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| Thanks guys - I'm sure you're wondering right now how it all went! We had our very close talk and it was what I expected it to be - I've learned quite a lot about myself this week, as well as also learning lots about him. He's realized that he does need to be alone for the time being - to work out w... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: NT girl in a new relationship with an Aspie - need advice! |
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Posted: 02 Dec 2009, 7:25 pm
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| Thanks for that! :) I'm waiting patiently for the weekend to come and hearing what more he may have to say. I can't make my mind up right now about everything that's happened so far and am reserving coming to any conclusions - although I've reached several possible conclusions in my head already, I'... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: NT girl in a new relationship with an Aspie - need advice! |
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Posted: 01 Dec 2009, 11:15 pm
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| I think from the start I gave him too much credit, because he had been my friend so long. I've been in relationships in the past where emotional baggage was present, and my natural, nurturing nature has always wanted to stand by such a 'good person' - often leaving me drained and feeling used in the... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: NT girl in a new relationship with an Aspie - need advice! |
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Posted: 01 Dec 2009, 8:09 pm
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| Thanks for your reply DW.....Your reply makes a whole lot of sense and I think the situation I am in now is similar to that of your partner...And we are quite young too, only 26. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: NT girl in a new relationship with an Aspie - need advice! |
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Posted: 01 Dec 2009, 8:06 pm
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| Hey everyone, I think being hopeful and wanting to pursue a relationship with this person at this point, would be rather futile of me. I don't necessarily think all him problems relate to his AS - he seems to have some deeper, darker and unresolved issues he must work on alone that I can't even begi... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: NT girl in a new relationship with an Aspie - need advice! |
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Posted: 01 Dec 2009, 3:00 am
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| He has no idea I joined this forum or researched AS so much for him - too late now eh!? Thank you - I agree with the no further communication until we meet in person and talk Saturday approach. I'm gonna meet with some girlie friends for the next couple of evenings and talk it all out. Really not so... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: NT girl in a new relationship with an Aspie - need advice! |
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Posted: 01 Dec 2009, 1:59 am
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| Thanks your response V - yeah I have to admit I'm still in shock too! His e-mail explains how he feels I'm so right for him and I'm someone he can trust his heart with - but he's concluded recently that he should be with me....Or alone. He feels he needs to be alone to figure himself and his issues ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: NT girl in a new relationship with an Aspie - need advice! |
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Posted: 01 Dec 2009, 1:13 am
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| Well he's responded to my e-mail and as kind as his response was - he's recently realised that he can't open up or be with anyone - and he chose to date me because he believes I am so right for him at that he would eventually open up...But he now knows it's something he needs to work on alone. Well ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: NT girl in a new relationship with an Aspie - need advice! |
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Posted: 30 Nov 2009, 10:19 pm
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| Thank you all for your extremely informative and intelligent comments. To begin with, I was feeling a sense of guilt for blaming certain things on his AS – but reading all your responses have made me feel justified and confirmed my original suspicions. Before reading all your responses (and because ... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Hello to Everyone! |
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Posted: 30 Nov 2009, 6:09 am
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Replies: 10
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: NT girl in a new relationship with an Aspie - need advice! |
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Posted: 30 Nov 2009, 6:07 am
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| Hello all, I apologise in advance for what will probably be a long (and my first real) post! Anyway, I am currently living in South Korea teaching English and I've been here almost 4 years - met my boyfriend 3 years ago and we began dating about 3 months ago. He told me when we started dating that h... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Hello to Everyone! |
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Posted: 30 Nov 2009, 4:49 am
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| Hi everyone! I'm a newbie here in every sense of the word - I'm NT and quite honestly, didn't know much about aspergers until my boyfriend told me a couple of months ago that he has it (one of the main reasons I've began to read up more and decided to join this forum to post my own specific question... |
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