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Forum: The Haven Topic: Rants |
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| I wish we could. A place where there is nobody living above us, unless it's well soundproofed. But preferably nobody at all above, because I'm more noise-sensitive than most people and after all this stress I'd probably involuntarily be listening out for any bomps and bangs above. I don't choose to ... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Keep grieving for the son I'll never have |
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| I feel that the experience of giving birth is just as painful as those torturing practices they did back in the medieval times. Yes I know the torturing ended in a slow and painful death and childbirth doesn't, but the pain is most likely equal. And as someone who has a low tolerance to pain as it i... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Rants |
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| ^ We live very quietly and aren't the sort to slam doors or have TVs on loud (when I play my keyboard I always play with headphones on because I know the sound can travel through walls and floors very easily). So it's not like we were noisy to start with, because I know we're not. If you were less ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Is it common for aspie to often not fit in? |
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Posted: Yesterday, 7:50 pm
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Duh! 
(Didn't mean that nastily, it's cool to ask, just thought I'd give an obvious answer lol).  |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Rants |
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Posted: Yesterday, 7:42 pm
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| ^ My boyfriend did very politely tell the lady up there (on a very rare occasion that he actually saw one of them) that they are noisy for us, but he said it in the nicest way possible, just to make them aware. She looked nervous and said sorry and nothing else. This was months ago and the noise has... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Being round strangers |
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Posted: Yesterday, 7:15 pm
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| I find I feel more social anxiety around strangers than anyone else. When you're around strangers you can't express yourself, and the unwritten rules are more tense and pressurising. Strangers judge you on the outside without considering what you're feeling, and they stare and judge if you're not a ... |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: I want to analyse your dreams |
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Posted: Yesterday, 6:54 pm
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| If you can expand on one or two of those dreams with more detail or with thoughts and feelings when you have them or when you wake up, it could make for a more in-depth detailed analysis. OK. Being back in high school seems to be the type of dream I have the most. I usually dream of this at least 4... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Your biggest pet peeves when it comes to ASD stereotypes |
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Posted: Yesterday, 6:41 pm
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| My two most hated stereotypes:- 1. Autistic people lack empathy 2. Autistic people are more likely to be school shooters These get me every time. If autistic people lacked empathy while NTs didn't then why are we so misunderstood in this world? Not saying NTs lack empathy and autistics don't. What I... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Rants |
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Posted: Yesterday, 6:33 pm
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Pepe wrote: Joe90 wrote: Kitty? Your avatar is a cute kitty kat. 
Oh right, I thought Rexi had got me confused with the member with Kitty4690. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Rants |
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Posted: Yesterday, 6:06 pm
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Rants |
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Posted: Yesterday, 5:55 pm
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| Do these people work? If not they sound like the sort of people who would deliberately keep you awake all night if they know you have to get up for work so that's why I would be very wary of complaining. I don't know if they work. If they do then they must work from home because they're always home... |
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Forum: WrongPlanet.net discussion Topic: Feedback on the NEW WrongPlanet site. |
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Posted: Yesterday, 4:31 pm
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| If former members have been banned or for grooming, shouldn’t we be allowed to know who they are? Alex’s advice is that we should avoid humiliating banned users by talking about them publicly and in this instance, naming names would likely generate some unwelcome discussion or speculation on who wa... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: My husband finally got covid |
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Posted: Yesterday, 4:24 pm
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| Hopefully he will be fine. It's just like a cold or flu these days (I don't mean before, but now it is). So just look at it as a cold or flu with a bad cough. :) I'm glad to hear he's getting better. It's totally understandable to be worried about him though, because you love him and it's not nice t... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Rants |
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Posted: Yesterday, 11:29 am
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| Joe, I've had my sessions with noisy clods upstairs and I know well how grinding it becomes with the disturbances continuing day and night. It's truly horrible and I feel for you. :heart: Thanks for understanding my side. But... It's a big but... Your landlord has a responsibility to maintain an en... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Rants |
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Posted: Yesterday, 5:54 am
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| I just want the pricks upstairs to f**k off. I have to constantly have earplugs or headphones on now every minute of the day when I'm home. I can't live like this much longer. The stress of it is weighing me down. I get stressed at work because of one person, I get stressed when I'm out because of t... |
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Forum: Computers, Math, Science, and Technology Topic: Google is weird |
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Posted: 25 Mar 2023, 3:45 pm
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| Once I typed the name of a song plus the person who sung it and the word "lyrics" but it never came up in the results, all the other songs that person sung did except the one I was looking for. So I erased her name and just typed the song and the word "lyrics" in and the exact so... |
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