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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Is it weird to greet strangers? |
| Noncon4mist |
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Posted: 23 Oct 2021, 6:19 pm
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Replies: 16
Views: 1,998
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| Whenever I say "hello" or "good afternoon" to a stranger they often act weird about it. Am I not supposed to be doing that? You carry on being friendly. Tis THEY who are weird! Or the comedy answer is... Depends what region you are from. I'm a Northerner (UK) so I do this too. T... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Being Bullied by my Horrible Neighbour |
| Noncon4mist |
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Posted: 16 Oct 2021, 11:48 am
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Replies: 35
Views: 3,115
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| I know this might not be an option for you but have you tried knocking on her door and speaking to her face to face? Sometimes that's all it takes. I had to do it with my next door neighbour who sang really loud at 2am every time he got drunk. I had to tackle him face to face in the end. He wasn't ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Being Bullied by my Horrible Neighbour |
| Noncon4mist |
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Posted: 16 Oct 2021, 11:33 am
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Replies: 35
Views: 3,115
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| lolololzz .. i recognize that situation when calling someone to do their job and they hardly even meant what they are saying . Treating like they owe you money ...loolz ... Same situation here last year .. The local public interaction officer acts the same way last year. But i started to make recor... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Being Bullied by my Horrible Neighbour |
| Noncon4mist |
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Posted: 16 Oct 2021, 11:32 am
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Replies: 35
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Nades wrote: Grass them up to the landlord too.
The Council own the flats. Yes I am trying to, thanks |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Being Bullied by my Horrible Neighbour |
| Noncon4mist |
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Posted: 16 Oct 2021, 11:24 am
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Replies: 35
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| You are 100% entitled to have a clock radio, use a blender and do some handiwork along with other normal everyday things. It's not like you're doing what my upstairs neighbour does, which is do cleaning such as vacuuming all hours of the day, move furniture around at least twice a day and hardly ev... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Being Bullied by my Horrible Neighbour |
| Noncon4mist |
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Posted: 16 Oct 2021, 11:22 am
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Replies: 35
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| I'm wondering if this is council or private let. Doesn't sound like a great place to live and there certainly is a problem with the level of noise that both parties are able to hear. I live on the top floor of a three storey building and the only time My neighbour knocks on the ceiling is when I am... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Being Bullied by my Horrible Neighbour |
| Noncon4mist |
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Posted: 16 Oct 2021, 11:07 am
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Replies: 35
Views: 3,115
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| I am collecting evidence for the police, antisocial behaviour team, the noise pollution and the Tenancy Management people. I do not want to be forced to move out. In my long experience renting (before getting married) I tend to avoid taking a lease in any property where I can hear my neighbors. But... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Being Bullied by my Horrible Neighbour |
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Posted: 16 Oct 2021, 11:01 am
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Replies: 35
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babybird wrote: Have you tried speaking to someone at the citizens advice bureau? They are qualified in law and stuff.
Idk it might help.
I imagine they would say contact the four agencies I have contacted already. But they might have another option I didn't know about, so thank you. I'm open to all offers. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Being Bullied by my Horrible Neighbour |
| Noncon4mist |
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Posted: 15 Oct 2021, 4:03 pm
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Replies: 35
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| Am so sorry the PCSO person cancelled your appt. When a criminal type can possibly muddy the situation between their victim and any kind of legal help you might get they will do it .i have found . Fabrications , outright lies . their techniques are very long and varied . You migh call the PCSO dept... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Being Bullied by my Horrible Neighbour |
| Noncon4mist |
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Posted: 15 Oct 2021, 12:42 pm
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Replies: 35
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| How can they hear you typing? Maybe you should speak to your landlord about soundproofing. Thanks. I've looked into it. The type needed would involve an additional fake floor / ceiling, costing many tens of thousands of pounds. I've live on the top floor for that very reason, I hate anyone living a... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Being Bullied by my Horrible Neighbour |
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Posted: 15 Oct 2021, 10:20 am
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Replies: 35
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| Hi The male PCSO and the woman from the antisocial behaviour team just turned up to the downstairs flat. They stayed for 25 minutes, and my bully did 99% of the talking. No surprise there. I couldn't hear what was said, but from the tone, she was pulling out all the stops to make it sound like they ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Being Bullied by my Horrible Neighbour |
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Posted: 15 Oct 2021, 6:15 am
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Replies: 35
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Joe90 wrote: I'm sorry you're going through this.
Those neighbours of yours must have excellent hearing and no lives.
No they don't. They are obsessed, Thank you Joe90 |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Being Bullied by my Horrible Neighbour |
| Noncon4mist |
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Posted: 15 Oct 2021, 6:14 am
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Replies: 35
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| once bullys start they dont always know when to stop and they will continue making your life miserable even if you dont react or dont show your annoyed they still know it must annoy and will keep doing it anyway the world would be a better place if people didnt bully i can tell ya Thank you Caz72 y... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Being Bullied by my Horrible Neighbour |
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Posted: 15 Oct 2021, 6:13 am
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Replies: 35
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auntblabby wrote: you're welcome, i want you to stay safe around those people, they are dangerous and have no compunctions about anything, they have no limits to their behavior.
Thank you |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Being Bullied by my Horrible Neighbour |
| Noncon4mist |
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Posted: 14 Oct 2021, 7:52 pm
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Replies: 35
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auntblabby wrote: my experience with sociopaths is that unless you are able to establish overwhelming dominance over them, they won't stop. moving may be the least energy-intensive route. lotsa sickos out there.
Thank you auntblabby |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Being Bullied by my Horrible Neighbour |
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Posted: 14 Oct 2021, 7:16 pm
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Replies: 35
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| Wish could offer advise.. other than retalitory measures which might inglame the situation, you sound like the gathering evidence thing is the best course of action. Have been in a similiar situation that was unresolvable . And many people suggested that i move but found , i was so established in t... |
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