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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Why do NT's act like they like you, but if you ask them.... |
| johnnydangerous |
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Posted: 11 Mar 2012, 4:46 am
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| but if you ask them to hang out, suddenly they will act "weird" or somehow get out of the situation. I've had so many people who I thought enjoyed my company (at work etc). People who I thought "liked me for who I was" and "liked the fact I was a bit different". Some of these people would even comme... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How do NT social hierarchies work? |
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Posted: 11 Nov 2011, 3:06 pm
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| My understanding of NT social hierarchies is that if an NT meets another NT who is "cool" they will want to "aquire" that person as a friend, even if they don't particularly LIKE that NT person who is "cool". At the same time, lets say an NT meets a person who they ACTUALLY LIKE. But this person doe... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Can someone explain why people dont wanna hang out with me? |
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Posted: 11 Nov 2011, 12:07 pm
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Replies: 22
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| i cant stand the general public, they dont understand how us aspies are and misinterpret our problems then make out we are the problem.....well it's not like we can tell them we have ASD, make an allowance cos that would make them not want to hang out with us even more. One day they should move us ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Can someone explain why people dont wanna hang out with me? |
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Posted: 11 Nov 2011, 12:00 pm
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| Yeah. It's definitely apparent to them whatever the reason may be. One thing is to be aware of your desperation. If you sound too desperate, then that sends up a ref flag that something is wrong with you. Try not to... Well, try. Also, what gender are you targeting? Same sex may be taken okay, but ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Can someone explain why people dont wanna hang out with me? |
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Posted: 11 Nov 2011, 11:26 am
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| I work in a job where I have to deal with the public. I have AS but despite this I enjoy my work, and I enjoy being friendly with people. After getting to know someone, they genuinely seem to like me. But whenever I make a suggestion to hang out, the excuses start rolling. I feel as if I am friendly... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: I'm lonely. |
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Posted: 07 Sep 2011, 2:06 am
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Replies: 4
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| And very depressed. I don't know what to do. Things are not going to get better. I hate everyone. Goodnight. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: When you need help the most, people run the other way. |
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Posted: 28 Aug 2011, 12:44 pm
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| In my experience, people can be counted on for one thing: You can't count on them. Whenever I seem to need someone the most, they run in the other direction. These are people who think of themselves as "good people" too. But to me, they are not. They put THEMSELVES ahead of others. I have always don... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: I hate talking on the phone |
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Posted: 28 Aug 2011, 12:37 pm
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Replies: 44
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| I don't mind writing to people, and while I don't love talking to people in person, it's so much less frightening than calling someone on the phone. Talking on the phone has always been nerve racking for me. Is that just me, or is it common for someone with Aspergers? Talking on the phone is the bi... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: swbluto does not like farm animals |
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Posted: 26 Aug 2011, 7:44 pm
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Replies: 7
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Quote: I can see your impulsiveness has a lot to do with your lack of success.
Hey buddy, I was just curious: How long does it take you to shove the animal in your avatar up your a.ss before you get your rocks off? You people use pipes, right? Clue me in I'm not familiar with your "lifestyle". |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: swbluto does not like farm animals |
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Posted: 26 Aug 2011, 7:40 pm
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| It's ruined my life. I'm super... ...over presumptive and over reactive. Why don't you just shut up if you don't have anything nice to say. Why don't you just accept my honest evaluation, punk? Hey internet tough guy, if you said that to my face you'd be swallowing your teeth right about now. A key... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: swbluto does not like farm animals |
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Posted: 26 Aug 2011, 7:34 pm
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| I'm so sorry this happened to you. People can be flaky and unfair sometimes, and often change their minds. This can be unsettling for you as you are likely most comfortable when things go according to plan. It makes you feel upset and overwhelmed and you may take it personally. However, when she ch... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: swbluto does not like farm animals |
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Posted: 26 Aug 2011, 7:22 pm
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swbluto wrote: johnnydangerous wrote: It's ruined my life. I'm super... ...over presumptive and over reactive.
Thanks Dr. Phil. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: swbluto does not like farm animals |
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Posted: 26 Aug 2011, 5:51 pm
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It's ruined my life. I'm super sure swbluto is a straight man. And he doesn't like farm animals in "that" way.
EDIT: He says I'm over presumtuous. Nevermind, I guess that means he's not...and he does. How sad for him. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Why do some women suddenly bring up that they have a bf? |
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Posted: 26 Aug 2011, 2:30 pm
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Adamantus wrote: But I don't think you should be glad people laughed at her honestly.
Why not? Whatever her reason for mentioning her boyfriend was, it was stupid and she shouldn't have done it. Maybe after a little humiliation, she'll wise up. But I doubt it. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Why do some women suddenly bring up that they have a bf? |
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Posted: 26 Aug 2011, 12:52 pm
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| Well johnnydangerous...that really sucks man. I never had this type of experience before, but it just seems really frustrating. Once again Knifey I completely understand and agree with your post and I know that in many situations an AS can show subtle signs of being interested in a woman, but in my... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Why do some women suddenly bring up that they have a bf? |
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Posted: 26 Aug 2011, 12:29 pm
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| Yes, it does sound like something that would be said in pickup settings, where girls feel the need to make the point of saying they have a boyfriend. If they don't say they are lesbians, that is. It's upsetting because it makes the assumption you are hitting on them. Exactly. It makes you feel like... |
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