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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Anal Sex |
Rodland |
Posted: 19 Sep 2020, 2:09 pm
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Replies: 41 Views: 903
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I'm thinking about it every day, but I have no possibility to try it with another person. In the heterosexual context I tend to associate anal sex to the deeper levels of love where there's lots of trust and intimacy (but yes, it's not really so). |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Anyone terrified of being alone for the rest of their life? |
Rodland |
Posted: 05 Sep 2020, 4:05 pm
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Replies: 249 Views: 8,077
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trust me, there are far FAR worse things than being alone. [..] almost nothing more alone-feeling than being trapped with a totally dissimilar and unsympathetic person. Trust me, there are things much more worse than being trapped with a totally dissimilar and unsympathetic person. You could be a p... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: There's a person who claims others are abusing her |
Rodland |
Posted: 25 Jul 2020, 11:31 am
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Replies: 8 Views: 935
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Wow, I feel sorry for you. 8O. I don't know where you learned how to be cold and dismissive towards other people who you don't know. Whoever taught you those values is wrong. You are now dismissive towards me. Being interested in other people's problems is not a sign of coldness. First, just be car... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: There's a person who claims others are abusing her |
Rodland |
Posted: 23 Jul 2020, 6:10 am
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Replies: 8 Views: 935
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I've been following a feed of one person for years. She seems to be sympathetic, smart and all that but she also claims all the people around her are "toxic" and are "abusing" her. She never describes further what this "abuse" is or what is actually happening. I don't b... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I Talked To A Bunch Of Girls, This Is What I Learned. |
Rodland |
Posted: 09 Jul 2020, 4:28 pm
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Replies: 75 Views: 2,676
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Also throughout four years, iv'e asked Depending on how you go about asking women out, your chances of getting a yes might be the equivalent of finding a shiny Pokemon with Pokerus, which is why I don't recommend trying to find a date on Tinder unless you're really good looking. Your chances of get... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Zodiac Signs and Aspie |
Rodland |
Posted: 08 Jun 2020, 5:13 pm
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Replies: 26 Views: 1,504
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Astrology is pretty boring. I'd rather set up a date with a real witch (if rationalists are not available). |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Is this possible? |
Rodland |
Posted: 28 Jan 2020, 6:05 pm
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Replies: 2 Views: 207
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Quote: Do I have SPD or not?
Especially since you've been diagnosed being on the spectrum, your experiences with scents and that recent experience with noise (assuming more such experiences follow) seem to suggest you have. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do you drink\consume alcohol despite being autistic? |
Rodland |
Posted: 12 Jan 2020, 12:34 pm
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Replies: 30 Views: 1,354
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I think I'm making a big mistake since I don't drink. Drinking would probably help me to socialize. Perhaps crucially. But I still don't feel like drinking. I've always hated alcohol and what it causes. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Aspie males: were you bullied by females (as an adult)? |
Rodland |
Posted: 22 Nov 2019, 6:47 pm
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Replies: 7 Views: 699
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Yes, kindness and clumsiness may be a combo that provokes such malicious behavior in some people. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Post a love song |
Rodland |
Posted: 18 Nov 2019, 1:32 pm
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Replies: 1,606 Views: 130,697
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This one is a bit more liquid Parliament - (You're A Fish And I'm A) Water Sign
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: How is it that some atheists are good people? |
Rodland |
Posted: 13 Nov 2019, 2:53 am
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Replies: 400 Views: 8,211
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Agnosticism: there's no way to tell if God exists. Atheism: God doesn't exist. These definitions are pretty non-useful because atheism is here a sort of extreme position. There is no way to prove that pink unicorns do not exist etc. And it is not the definition that people identifying as atheists u... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Freetime? |
Rodland |
Posted: 12 Nov 2019, 5:25 am
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Replies: 8 Views: 383
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I tend to impose a self-conceived timetable also on my freetime. My freetime activities are mostly rather demanding hobbies and similar to my studies but I feel I have to spend a lot of time with them and I find it really difficult to give me some "genuine freetime" and go somewhere where ... |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: How is it that some atheists are good people? |
Rodland |
Posted: 08 Nov 2019, 3:26 pm
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Replies: 400 Views: 8,211
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Quote: I have - agnosticism, admitting that you do not know. It's intellectually consistent, requires no faith and is perfectly rational. Atheism is none of these things.
How do you define agnosticism and atheism? Their most common definitions seem to be overlapping. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do all autistic individuals watch anime? |
Rodland |
Posted: 13 Oct 2019, 9:18 am
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Replies: 69 Views: 2,111
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I like anime aesthetics to some extent but I practically don't watch any TV series and seldom even movies. Watching series or movies does not seem to suit for my brain very well. It probably has to do with my short attention span. |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Post a youtube video |
Rodland |
Posted: 11 Oct 2019, 7:47 am
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Replies: 2,072 Views: 212,131
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https://tinyurl.com/y538tq9l
A cartoon (around 20 minutes long) drawn in 80s computer game style featuring animal characters as computer freaks. I feel some of those animals may be on the spectrum. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: I cannot enjoy sex workers - what to do |
Rodland |
Posted: 25 Sep 2019, 9:03 am
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Replies: 22 Views: 328
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That said, the most important sex organ is the brain. And while it is possible that your mind does not enjoy sex with a sex worker, it is also possible you just haven't found the right one yet. Thanks, this felt helpful. I've thought that it's possible that sensations related to the presence of oth... |
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