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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Minorities can be powerful you know. |
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There are really smart Chinese in the deep South of the USA. Why are they there? They needed Chinese to blast tunnels for the railroads. They bought in Chinese workers who knew how to work with explosives. Most Americans didn't the skills or training required. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: I wonder if not being able to mask is costing me |
BTDT |
Posted: Yesterday, 11:21 pm
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Do you have a job right now? It is hard to get a job if you don't have one. I know a lady with excellent qualifications that took an entry level data entry job after raising some kids. She is now one of the top ten employees in pay. |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Earning money online |
BTDT |
Posted: Yesterday, 2:10 pm
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I just had an idea today! How about data migration from an old website to a new one! There may not be a simple way for a business to get their old content transferred to a new one. Someone could do that from home! There may be hundreds of thousands of links and documents to move. Somone with autism ... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Just began understanding myself as autistic |
BTDT |
Posted: 15 May 2024, 5:31 pm
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Welcome! I told my wife I as transgender before we got married but we still got together for 15 years until she passed from ALS. She was convinced I had autism but these days I think it is because my hard wired body language is female rather than male. The mismatch is gone now that I present female!... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: Am I Transgender, Non-binary, or just a Femboy? |
BTDT |
Posted: 14 May 2024, 11:49 am
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Replies: 26 Views: 11,684
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Part of the confusion is conflating gender with sexuality. It may be less confusing to separate the two.
Most folks agree that a woman can be attracted to men. Heterosexual. Woman can be attracted to other women. Lesbian. Woman can be attracted to both men and women. Bisexual. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Autism and Sanrio |
BTDT |
Posted: 14 May 2024, 8:42 am
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Replies: 7 Views: 626
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Forum: Off the Wall: Forum Games, Quizzes, Roleplaying, etc. Topic: A-Z of Plants |
BTDT |
Posted: 13 May 2024, 8:42 am
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: What DON'T you like to smell? |
BTDT |
Posted: 13 May 2024, 5:36 am
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Replies: 67 Views: 1,907
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Burning food in the kitchen. |
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Forum: News and Current Events Topic: Incoming! geomagnetic storm this weekend 5/10/24 |
BTDT |
Posted: 13 May 2024, 5:35 am
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Too cloudy to see it. When the clouds went away it seemed pretty dark as I saw a lot of stars but no aurora. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Autism and Sanrio |
BTDT |
Posted: 11 May 2024, 8:01 pm
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I have a Hello Kitty pair of scissors that I use all the time for cutting up food. I also have Hellow Kitty two surfboard clips that I used when I had cats. They would pull towels off the racks so I bought the clips to make it harder for them to do that! That is all I can remember. I have a lot of s... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: My therapist thinks I can just learn social cues... |
BTDT |
Posted: 10 May 2024, 12:32 pm
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Like many here, I often found it awkward to socialize for decades. But, I discovered when I changed my gender presentation from male to female, I could do things automatically and the other person would respond without confusion. Could I have been learning the wrong gender clues? Maybe my appearance... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: My therapist thinks I can just learn social cues... |
BTDT |
Posted: 10 May 2024, 5:23 am
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I posit there is a hard wired friend or foe routine hard wired into humans. It is very useful to know whether someone you meet is a friend or foe without thinking about it. IFF Indentification Friend or Foe was developed during WW2 for aircraft. You don't want to shoot down your own airplanes. There... |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: Advice: Printers for artists |
BTDT |
Posted: 09 May 2024, 12:14 pm
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An issue is having the proper print driver for your printer. I've recall having a Canon printer that didn't work for a while until they finally provided a driver for my semi-old operating system. Similarly, I have an old Nikon D70 camera. They have RAW software, but only for Win 10 and 11, so I boug... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: Is it hopeless on dating sites? |
BTDT |
Posted: 09 May 2024, 8:44 am
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I think dating sites only work for a few. They may be more useful if you are looking for something specific and are willing to start a long distance relationship and move to someplace new. Or live in a big city with a huge dating pool like Phiilly, Boston, or NYC. But not a smaller city like Hartfor... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: America is a nightmare |
BTDT |
Posted: 07 May 2024, 11:32 pm
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Hi Harmonie,
Welcome to New England!
It is very LGBTQ+ friendly where I live. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: so stressed need some support |
BTDT |
Posted: 07 May 2024, 1:45 pm
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Replies: 2 Views: 653
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Have you considered rooming with an elderly guy that could use come assistance keeping the place up? Or maybe someone who is lonely and just needs someone to listen to him? |
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