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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Would you break up with your boyfriend over this? |
| menintights |
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Posted: 06 Jan 2011, 5:25 pm
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Replies: 62
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| Okay, Alla, we get it: you have a PhD. Your repetitive mention of the fact only makes you look insecure, and your refusal to believe that your PhD just means that you're good at what you study reveals that you're not half as smart you like to believe. But go on, keep using your doctorate as proof th... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do Asperger people dance? |
| menintights |
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Posted: 06 Jan 2011, 4:35 pm
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Replies: 41
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MGTame wrote: I love to dance, but can't do the, 'choreographed' thing.
Shouldn't it be easier than the spontaneous thing? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why is that most people marry within their own race? |
| menintights |
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Posted: 06 Jan 2011, 4:33 pm
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Replies: 112
Views: 25,131
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| Let the countdown to someone eventually saying "I'm not racist, but..." begin. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Any unmarried female aspies 40-55 years old? |
| menintights |
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Posted: 06 Jan 2011, 1:10 am
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Replies: 21
Views: 3,111
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| Most people age 40-55 grew up BEFORE Asperger's diagnosis in children was commonplace. I have had trouble finding a diagnosis, much less therapy. I have never had a romantic relationship. Unless you can say the same thing at my age you have NOT walked a mile in my shoes. I'm also sure that most Asp... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: How much must you make before a decent woman looks at you? |
| menintights |
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Posted: 06 Jan 2011, 12:57 am
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Replies: 45
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$61,017 per person? It doesn't sound right. I would guess the average working person would earn something like $30,000/yr here.
OP probably lives in of those Republican-dominated areas though, where not even an income of $50,000/yr is considered good enough.  |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Being a Radio DJ |
| menintights |
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Posted: 06 Jan 2011, 12:46 am
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Replies: 12
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Take on why males have more trouble.. in general |
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Posted: 05 Jan 2011, 11:15 pm
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Replies: 89
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| I do see women dropping hints more than guys, that's definitely a trait that I can't stand. I am incredibly straight forward and blunt to the point it can lack tact sometimes. (At least in my body language, and flat voice) The only place I ever see women dropping hints and being misunderstood by me... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Have you ever been attracted to comic book characters? |
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Posted: 05 Jan 2011, 6:23 pm
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Replies: 21
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The ones I've liked are in their teens, and it isn't hard to let go of them once I realized that.
Quote: I can't stop thinking about these "guys" who are just ink spots on a page!! !
They're still better than a breathing living human being who turns out to be so one-dimensional, though. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is it easier for aspie women than aspie men? |
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Posted: 05 Jan 2011, 6:10 pm
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Replies: 111
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| A woman has only to be presentable, act decent, and show interest. Pretty sure that's the only thing required of a man, too. :? And actually, a woman is less likely to reject a man based on his appearance alone, so obviously men have it easier than women. Obviously. The man must bear the full brunt... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is it easier for aspie women than aspie men? |
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Posted: 05 Jan 2011, 1:07 pm
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Replies: 111
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| Sure. Pretty ones...in bars.. I'd use the term "hot" instead of "pretty." Guys in bars want girls who are hot, and pretty girls aren't necessarily hot. The pretty-but-not-hot girls they'd put aside until they're ready for marriage under the assumption that these are the ones who'd be more faithful ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I feel positive about the future! |
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Posted: 05 Jan 2011, 10:47 am
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Replies: 11
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bucephalus wrote: Does anyone else have to think this way to get into an upward spiral or does it come naturally?
I don't think it, I just feel it.
My thinking is 100% negative, but when things are looking good they're looking good.  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Am I decent looking? |
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Posted: 05 Jan 2011, 12:46 am
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Replies: 82
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| Edit- I am a little shocked that Chronos can tell my income just from looking at my clothing. I make 12.00 an hour. People who wear scrubs make anything from $10/hr to $70,000/year--anyone who tries to guess how much you make based on the clothes you wear is just stupid. The thing is, Chronos didn'... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Any unmarried female aspies 40-55 years old? |
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Posted: 04 Jan 2011, 11:33 pm
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Replies: 21
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| For starters, there's my aunt. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Am I decent looking? |
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Posted: 04 Jan 2011, 11:31 pm
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Replies: 82
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Anybody else NEVER had a guy interested in you? |
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Posted: 03 Jan 2011, 8:44 pm
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Replies: 14
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| You know, there's a difference between having a guy being interested in you as a person and having a guy thinking you're attractive enough to be worth his time. I can relate to you in the sense that I've never really had guys line up at my door begging me to go out with them, but I've never really c... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Would you break up with your boyfriend over this? |
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Posted: 03 Jan 2011, 2:38 pm
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Replies: 62
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Alla wrote: Boyfriend tried to break the fight and I got angry with him over this and some past hurts.
I don't know what I would do since I can't picture myself in a similar situation, but you probably should break up with him. |
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