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Forum: The Haven Topic: Dear "You"...From "Me"-Letters Unsent |
| newbmeister |
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Posted: 02 Oct 2010, 6:40 pm
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| Dear AJB: It's not accurate for you to say I'm "one of [your] best friends." You rarely speak to me and you lie to me -- shouldn't have let K spill your secret. Last time I visited you, you didn't get out of bed to say goodbye, even though your boyfriend did. When I move again this December and put ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Women: How important is ________ to you? |
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Posted: 02 Oct 2010, 5:53 pm
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Replies: 52
Views: 6,028
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| (Some of my answers might come off a bit materialistic; if so, it's because I was married to a man who took advantage of my trusting nature and student loan money. My answers are also targeted toward men in their 20s because I'm 23 and look for potential mates close to my age. I'm a student, so I un... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Affection/accommodation issues... |
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Posted: 02 Oct 2010, 5:22 pm
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Replies: 6
Views: 1,154
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| I appreciate the input, guys, but I'm not really asking whether I should break up with this person -- that's the sort of conclusion I'd have to arrive at entirely on my own. All I really want to know is whether I'm being reasonable in this situation, whether he's being reasonable in this situation, ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Affection/accommodation issues... |
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Posted: 02 Oct 2010, 1:01 pm
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Replies: 6
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| :( I hope things improve for you one way or another; I am divorced, myself, so to an extent I can understand what you're going through. Good luck making some sort of decision, because that's the hardest part... For my own situation, I'd still rather find a way to present the topic in a way that'll m... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Greeting people with hugs?! |
| newbmeister |
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Posted: 02 Oct 2010, 1:52 am
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Replies: 27
Views: 6,664
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| I'm technically NT and HATE HUGS from just about everyone I'm not romantic with... I think I'm in the minority there but most people do not try to hug me, whether because they get some sort of body language vibe from me or they're just not big huggers. The ones that need to hug every time they see y... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Affection/accommodation issues... |
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Posted: 02 Oct 2010, 1:02 am
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Replies: 6
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| Hiya. Female NT with male aspie significant other. Right now the relationship is long-distance, has been for a while, will be for at least another three-or-so months. Right now we text, email, and Skype. Since learning that he's an aspie, my reactions toward his behavior (which previously I took to ... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Hello! |
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Posted: 24 Sep 2010, 3:58 pm
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Replies: 8
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| rmgh: If I minded getting advice I probably wouldn't be here; your input is welcome and appreciated. :) You're right, it can be very difficult at times. We're stuck being far apart until at least January (by which point I'll be free to relocate) but are experimenting with video chat... hopefully tha... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What is your Aspie Quiz score |
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Posted: 23 Sep 2010, 8:06 pm
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Replies: 1,035
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Your Aspie score: 74 of 200
Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 146 of 200
You are very likely neurotypical
Yep. I'm here to learn. |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Hello! |
| newbmeister |
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Posted: 23 Sep 2010, 7:52 pm
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Replies: 15
Views: 1,783
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| Hi, seamonster68. Sounds like you and I are in similar situations! |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Neurotypicals- What do you think about people with Aspergers |
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Posted: 23 Sep 2010, 7:40 pm
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Replies: 54
Views: 11,709
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| In my albeit limited experience, I've found some aspies to be difficult to deal with and others to be really pleasant. There's always something a little off when the conversation gets serious and I need the aspie person to understand where I'm coming from... but honestly, that happens with NTs too. ... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Hello! |
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Posted: 23 Sep 2010, 7:18 pm
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Replies: 8
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Thanks guys! ^_^
And jmnixon95: Maybe not, but I like irony.  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: And People give me crap about this.... |
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Posted: 23 Sep 2010, 6:37 pm
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Replies: 38
Views: 4,890
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| A good personality makes people more attractive, to me... for instance, if the person is initially unattractive but is funny and easy to talk to, their looks will start seeming more average. Likewise, attractive people who are stupid jerks start looking repellent. I've never technically 'dated,' and... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Saying hello... |
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Posted: 23 Sep 2010, 12:49 pm
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Replies: 10
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| Hi. |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Hello! |
| newbmeister |
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Posted: 23 Sep 2010, 12:40 pm
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Replies: 8
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| Hi everyone! I found my way to this site through one of many articles on aspie/NT relationships. I strongly suspect that my significant other is an aspie, since he has just about all of the typical traits and a psychiatrist also suggested a few years ago that he might be an aspie (I don't think ther... |
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