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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Should I take the plunge????? |
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Posted: 06 Mar 2006, 2:17 am
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| Yes, I have been mates with hime for 4 or 5 years, we have always had a very close fun friendly relationship, he told me about the aspie thing very early on, but he does deal with it extroadinarily well! Recently though he has been a huge support, as I had to deal with a lot of crap of late, which h... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Should I take the plunge????? |
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Posted: 05 Mar 2006, 3:35 am
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| Bland, thankyou for your post... I have always been aware of his aspergers, and have very much understood and loved him for it as a friend, I feel that we have been very close for over 4 years...I just didnt realise the depth of my/his feelings till very recently.. To some extent I have no preconcep... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Should I take the plunge????? |
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Posted: 04 Mar 2006, 1:00 pm
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| Thankyou Triax for your support, I appreciate it very much. I am not prepared to discuss my marital status, or reasons as to why a previous relationship broke down. Bubbles, I am also sorry to hear that you and your son have had an awful experience.... I have been honest with the father of my childr... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Should I take the plunge????? |
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Posted: 04 Mar 2006, 5:29 am
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| Would like to write a reply, but am still a bit stunned by Bubbles' judgement on me.. I may well be childish(maybe thats why I get on with a younger bloke!), and very probably rose tinted, but in my defence that is why I asked the question on tis site. I have some experince with AS/Aspergers before,... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Should I take the plunge????? |
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Posted: 02 Mar 2006, 8:19 pm
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| Thankyou for all your comments..... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Should I take the plunge????? |
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Posted: 02 Mar 2006, 12:47 pm
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Hi
He is mid twenties, hence my concern....All I know is I have never felt this way about someone before, but obviously undersatnding his feelings is more( or less) complicated1!!
Maybe I am too much trouble... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Should I take the plunge????? |
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Posted: 02 Mar 2006, 12:20 pm
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| Hi I have to say that he is very kind, gentle, and affectionate, but yes he does seem to get very stressed.. I then back off, which works very well, but if I am feeling needy then I do struggle... My relationship with him has developed from a very good friendship toits current state only in the last... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Should I take the plunge????? |
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Posted: 01 Mar 2006, 7:15 pm
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| sounds like its tuff with you being asingle mum....what do the kidz think? sorry, new to this forum stiff, so apologies for my typin... The children dont know, although they do know him, adn fell very comfortable with him I think.. He is a very gentle person, and he shares all my interests too(whic... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Should I take the plunge????? |
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Posted: 01 Mar 2006, 7:12 pm
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| Just in reply to my previous post, I have, well in as much that I have completely fallen for my aspie, it is certainly a different relationship, but a very honest one!!!I really do love him more for his aspie ness. He is an amazing guy, although I am sitting by my phone hoping he will call,when I kn... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: um, WTF? Why would this girl be interested in me? |
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Posted: 21 Feb 2006, 4:39 am
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| Hi, Can I just add to this from the girls perpespective, because I have just experienced this a couple of weeks ago.. I have been friendly with an aspie man for about a year, and friends have said that he feels something more, but I too feel "why the /// would he be interested in me!", so wasnt sure... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Should I take the plunge????? |
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Posted: 21 Feb 2006, 4:22 am
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| Thanks for your reply, actually because I had found this site, I had a really frank discussion with Aspie, lasted until the early hours. I am 9 years older than him, he is mid twenties so Im not child snatching!! !!. He is the most kind, loyal, sesitive and honest man I have ever met, and its for th... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Should I take the plunge????? |
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Posted: 20 Feb 2006, 2:53 pm
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| Hi, I am an NT girlie, who has found a truly amazing and wonderful aspie. I have always enjoyed his company very much, adn have found myself falling in love with him,..we share many many things in common, although I am older than him, with children... Am I heading for disaster, or am I being unfair ... |
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