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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Married to man with asperger's and need some help here! |
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Posted: 22 Feb 2011, 12:20 am
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| I know from the other side of a coin, being AS married to an NT wife, what you may consider as "talking etc" could well be interpreted as continual attacks by him, so the defence mechanism is to withdraw. You say you have to remind him to show affection, do you show affection witout being prompted? ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How Do I Get Laid? |
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Posted: 23 Dec 2010, 8:03 pm
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Replies: 124
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| One good way to get your hopes up for "getting laid" is to not start threads asking how to get laid. I do wonder how many females feel about this question being made, or would feel if they eventually found out. Spot on! No girl is going to want to get with a guy who's posting threads asking how to ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How Do I Get Laid? |
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Posted: 21 Dec 2010, 7:51 am
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Replies: 124
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| Dude you're 17, what the hell is your rush? |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Bone marrow is linked to autism? |
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Posted: 20 Dec 2010, 9:36 pm
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Replies: 24
Views: 3,356
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| Breathing causes cancer! Every person who has died of Cancer has had to breathe at some point. |
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Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports Topic: The Sport/motorsport of remote control auto racing |
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Posted: 20 Dec 2010, 6:53 am
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Replies: 462
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| Just had another race meet myself, VTA we set a rule no quicker than 24 second laps (far more flexible) managed to get my car sitting around 24.2 / 24.3 second laps all day with some decent consistancy so ran away with all 3 racers after a TQ :) Using a Plymouth Cuda shell, and was learning my new r... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Love making question |
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Posted: 20 Dec 2010, 6:48 am
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Replies: 22
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| If you have no intention of mating then you have no business trying to secure the devotion of a mate. Why waste his time when he could be seeking a real mate instead? You want a father, not a lover. No one is under any obligation to babysit you, and ultimately you're just wasting this guy's life wi... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Highly functioning aspergers syndrome? |
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Posted: 20 Dec 2010, 6:30 am
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Replies: 8
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| Saying "high functioning" aspergers is a catch phrase ppl use to make themselves feel better. I mean have you ever heard of a "high functioning" cold? You either have it or you don't I know some people with "low IQ's" by the obligatory test who I think are brilliant in what they do. But I have an IQ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I have a slight problem |
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Posted: 20 Dec 2010, 2:49 am
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Replies: 15
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It's an anticipation thing, ever watch American Pie? Same scenario.
As you progress in your relationship, it'll subside, first girlfriend, you're talking 24 years of sexual tension you've built up. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Why do Ntypicals not want us to work? |
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Posted: 20 Dec 2010, 1:20 am
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Replies: 62
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| Are NT's discriminating against AS? I doubt it, I think they are picking up of, from what is apparant from this forum, a LOT of self pity and anger at the world which is creating a belief that there is someone to blame. I'm diagnosed AS, I have worked since I was 15, and am now a Senior Accountant. ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The Marriage Question |
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Posted: 20 Dec 2010, 1:04 am
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Replies: 6
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| IMO anyone who believes Marriage doesn't change things is sadly mistaken. It changes a lot of things, the whole dynamic of the relationship is altered, neither party can simply walk away now, inlaws start taking you as more than a passing fancy etc etc. It almost sounds like you want sympathy from h... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Help me save our Aspie relationship |
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Posted: 17 Dec 2010, 1:31 am
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Replies: 17
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| I'm sorry I can't see his problem, and I'm a "male aspie". My wife had an abusive relationship before me, and I didn't share any of the feelings you're describing. My reaction was I wanted to throttle the bastard, but that was also based on my belief that a guy should never physically abuse a girl I... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Need your reassurance to ask girl out |
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Posted: 16 Dec 2010, 9:11 pm
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Replies: 22
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| Go for it. Even the worst rejection she could possibly give you is nowhere near the torture you're inflicting on yourself with this indicision and what if's. Although instead of the note, make idle conversation, ask her name, interests etc, then ask her for her email, while she's writing it down, th... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Rate this Date? |
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Posted: 14 Dec 2010, 7:47 pm
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Replies: 11
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| I'll give it a 6.5/10 Sticking points: 1. You're already talking in "she could be a good friend" mode. 2. She went on about her ex, she hasn't moved on as yet, so probably isn't ready for a relationship. Rebound sex? Perhaps, if you were comfortable with that. As for follow up calling. 1-2 days = Cl... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Special interest in financing/bills? |
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Posted: 14 Dec 2010, 7:30 pm
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Replies: 5
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| I'd say I do, but I'm an accountant, so you'd hope so! |
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Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports Topic: The Sport/motorsport of remote control auto racing |
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Posted: 14 Dec 2010, 12:21 am
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Replies: 462
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Leester wrote: fb5b wrote: Well done, had my racing on the w/end, Qualified 2nd in VTA and won all 3 finals  Awesome! That's Great to hear! What chassis are you running? What body shell?
Running an old Associated TC5 with Plymouth Cuda shell. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: So what exactly IS "rocking" |
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Posted: 13 Dec 2010, 11:28 pm
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Replies: 22
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Also not so good if staying in an onsite cabin and the bed is bolted to the floor boards.
..but I digress  |
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