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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I'm 18 and have never had a Girlfriend |
| Holland1994 |
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Posted: 21 May 2013, 2:35 pm
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Replies: 3
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govanator wrote: I feel Lonely all i can think of or i want in life is a Girlfriend or some sort of relations with a girl. i'm really shy around girls (especially pretty ones) i dont know how to start a conversation i can only talk to girls when i'm drunk and tend to touch them up
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Is it best to keep having AS a secret |
| Holland1994 |
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Posted: 21 May 2013, 2:33 pm
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Replies: 40
Views: 128,715
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Just don't. It may help in the beginning, but eventually it will worn out or people will use it against you.
You should only tell it to people who are very close to you, whom will accept who you are. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I am the XX year old virgin. Add your name to the list. |
| Holland1994 |
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Posted: 01 May 2011, 2:29 pm
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Replies: 837
Views: 175,971
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16 year old virgin, there is plenty of time, and I want the right one, not the sl*t.  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: do you find autistic girls attractive? |
| Holland1994 |
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Posted: 01 May 2011, 2:19 pm
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Replies: 492
Views: 107,528
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| Pfew, I don't think it would work it for me if I was dating an autistic girl. Not because of the looks, but I cannot deal with someone who has the same bad qualities as me. Don't get it wrong, but I need someone who can add something to me and otherwise. It has to be in balance, otherwise it's doome... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Memory |
| Holland1994 |
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Posted: 01 May 2011, 2:12 pm
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Replies: 19
Views: 1,925
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| I have also the same problem with stuff that "disappeared". I simply just forget where I put them. What I think the problem is that the concentration is "away" at that moment when you put your keys on the table for example. At that moment I'm not paying attention and just dreaming/thinking about som... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: The autism social rule book. |
| Holland1994 |
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Posted: 01 May 2011, 2:05 pm
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Replies: 925
Views: 341,418
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| Is there any written literature at all regarding this topic? Well, I've found some e-book which fits your description. It's a survival guide written by Marc Segar and has been published free. And it has more to do with the more subtitle things which has been mentioned here in this topic. To find it... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: eye contact |
| Holland1994 |
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Posted: 08 Feb 2011, 2:11 pm
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Replies: 25
Views: 3,570
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| I know it can really pay off to try the right balance of making eye-contact. I know when I was younger, I mostly looked just slightly away from the person, because eye-contact is really burning. I try when I'm listing to someone, look at him/her two-third of the time when he/her is speaking. I'm mos... |
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Forum: School and College Life Topic: What is your social life in High school like? |
| Holland1994 |
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Posted: 08 Feb 2011, 2:03 pm
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Replies: 45
Views: 21,206
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| I'm trying to be happy for what I have, and if compare it to what I read in the topic, it seems I don't have any reasons to complain. I can get along with quite a few people and have a few good friends, but I don't got invited so much to party's for example. (it's really frustrating for me) But tryi... |
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Forum: School and College Life Topic: Let my school mentor talk with my bullies or beat'em up? |
| Holland1994 |
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Posted: 15 Jan 2011, 2:26 pm
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Replies: 24
Views: 4,963
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| Well, I have also quite a long history with bullies. It's really awful when they are hurting you, and the general advice would be talk to someone you can trust. Though you can fight, it's not recommended. All your anger is building up and up, and vengeance seems so sweet, but it's not worth it. They... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Eye expression test by Simon Baron Cohen |
| Holland1994 |
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Posted: 12 Jan 2011, 1:59 pm
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Replies: 228
Views: 69,173
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| With more rational thinking it's more than easy I suppose, but in real life such as Flying Dutchman mentioned, you just have a glance of a second. You have to decide and anticipate in a flash of a second. Your score: 22 A typical score is in the range 22-30. If you scored over 30, you are very accur... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Aspergers + little bit of alcohol = less anxiety? |
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Posted: 12 Jan 2011, 1:09 pm
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Replies: 55
Views: 2,384
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| Alcohol has a relaxing effect to me, I'm getting more joyful, and better capable of tellings things and some looser. It's also the moment you are drinking that is effecting your mood. If you are depressed, having a hard time, you shouldn't drink it. I'm never drinking when I'm feeling sad or just to... |
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