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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: How to cope with lonliness, and bad situations? |
| Bimin |
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Posted: 30 Mar 2011, 11:06 pm
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Replies: 2
Views: 1,575
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| I have been back home now for six months , no friends, no dates, no work, on the weekends I think of the life I just lost and how I have to start again in a new place, (after 13 different schools in four states, I graduated college, survived a coma, osteomiolitis, being drugged and robbed, family is... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: DataSage’s Alpha Male Guide to Meeting Women (JULY UPDATE!!) |
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Posted: 24 Mar 2011, 8:30 pm
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Replies: 539
Views: 141,593
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| Being confident and conversationally interested/interesting is great, and very attractive. But I'd advise caution about behaving in ways that are not natural for you - it can be obvious and offputting if it does not come over as natural. For example - I went on a first date several months ago (met ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How young would you go? |
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Posted: 24 Mar 2011, 9:28 am
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Replies: 132
Views: 11,180
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| Whatever the law dictates, in the US age of consent varies from 16-18 state by state (although society has deemed dating a younger women odd, wrong, and turned younger girls off to the idea) I would date someone as old as 34 and I am 26. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Preference for overweight women |
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Posted: 23 Mar 2011, 11:54 pm
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Replies: 300
Views: 20,487
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| Sorry I meant to say .... ****12.079.....% more males in the United States of America within, dating ages (15-44), adaptation is another factor to take into consideration. *** |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Nice Guys and Love, what's your take on the issue |
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Posted: 23 Mar 2011, 11:44 pm
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Replies: 1,242
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| Bimin, it's not prejudice. It's looking for the ONE person that you want to spend the rest of your life with, and if you know that there are things you wouldn't like then it's not worth it to spend the time hanging out with the guy and getting his hopes up. Women have less time to waste in getting ... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: recreational drugs |
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Posted: 23 Mar 2011, 5:27 pm
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Replies: 33
Views: 4,740
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| You should only use recreational drugs (marijuana, alcohol) for medical purposes, especially during developmental stages and years. You don't want to inhibit your growth, mental or physical. I agree used for anxiety, it is really helpful. The more you take care of yourself in your younger years the ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: "Checking out" women while talking to them |
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Posted: 23 Mar 2011, 5:15 pm
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Replies: 63
Views: 9,560
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| To a degree I think it is a primordial response, we have to look at the people we are talking to, men are more visual, in most cases our higher thinking kicks in and tells us to look someone in the face or eyes, some men can do this or are respectful enough to do this quickly rather than later, some... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Preference for overweight women |
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Posted: 23 Mar 2011, 5:04 pm
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Replies: 300
Views: 20,487
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| According to the 2010 US census, over 1/3 of all Americans are obese or overweight. Considering that there are 12.079.....% more females in the United States of America within, dating ages (15-44), adaptation is another factor to take into consideration. Since the beginning of time there have been m... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Do you find it disgusting when people pick their nose and ea |
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Posted: 23 Mar 2011, 4:16 pm
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Replies: 14
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| Actually it really bothers me especially if I am in a closed setting , IE the car.... it grosses me out and makes my shiver. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Nice Guys and Love, what's your take on the issue |
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Posted: 23 Mar 2011, 2:37 pm
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Replies: 1,242
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| I would argue that America is way more liberal than Europe as a whole, I do not know much about Finland but I would say that on a percentage basis America is way more liberal especially for women. Consider this high rate of divorce, only 50% of women ages 15-40 have children, all over our media the... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Nice Guys and Love, what's your take on the issue |
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Posted: 23 Mar 2011, 1:40 pm
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Replies: 1,242
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| Well how can I quantify my dating history? By number of women I slept with? Number of serious relationships? I am not sure and do not know your dating history either, let’s first determine an accurate and reliable means to quantify and operationally define dating history. If you have enough exes th... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Nice Guys and Love, what's your take on the issue |
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Posted: 22 Mar 2011, 12:19 am
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Replies: 1,242
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| I would argue that America is way more liberal than Europe as a whole, I do not know much about Finland but I would say that on a percentage basis America is way more liberal especially for women. Consider this high rate of divorce, only 50% of women ages 15-40 have children, all over our media ther... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Nice Guys and Love, what's your take on the issue |
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Posted: 21 Mar 2011, 9:26 am
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Replies: 1,242
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| From a female point of view, I see it as very unnecessary to worry about being "too nice" with the ladies. Especially for younger girls/women who are seeking experiences, certain types of men (the "naughty" ones) equal to "fun" and "adventure", but those are generally speaking very different type t... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: "Don't come across as desperate" |
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Posted: 20 Mar 2011, 10:41 am
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Replies: 30
Views: 6,294
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| Actually I think rejection "toughens" you up a bit. Firstly, you learn that it is not the end of the world, and secondly, once you get rejected enough times it kind of brings you back to "reality" - meaning you lower your expectations and as a consequence you lower your anxiety which paradoxically ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: "Don't come across as desperate" |
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Posted: 19 Mar 2011, 10:13 pm
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Replies: 30
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| Different Stroked for Different Folks, If being a virgin and single bothers you that I would advise you to be proactive, make advances on girls, see an escort if necessary... but be proactive. Don't dwell on things, don't think just because you are the proverbial nice guy or extremely moral you will... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I don't want to date pretty girls. |
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Posted: 19 Mar 2011, 2:34 am
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Replies: 62
Views: 8,055
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| A recent study that found that most couples are within a 0-2 point difference of attractiveness range, of course this study was a small subset of the population, it's premise was interesting to me, people date & settle down with people that are of equal attraction. I can think of many examples o... |
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