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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Questions for aspie men/ men with aspie traits. |
| sunflowerpip |
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Posted: 03 Aug 2011, 7:26 am
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Replies: 16
Views: 7,619
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| Hmm. Have you only just started to worry after your friend pointed these things out? Although other people's opinions can be helpful and insightful...if you have only started worrying because of their thoughts, then perhaps there could be nothing wrong. (Unless you have other reasons to believe it i... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What to consider when living with your partner? |
| sunflowerpip |
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Posted: 06 Jul 2011, 5:33 am
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,373
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| I apologise in advance for this really long wall of text x.x;; :? I once had this arrangement. It did not work out. I lived with my then boyfriend in his house, along with his mother, his father, his nephew, and his 2 brothers. His whole family were horrible slobs and I spent a lot of time cleaning ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What to consider when living with your partner? |
| sunflowerpip |
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Posted: 05 Jul 2011, 4:53 pm
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,373
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| In a couple of weeks time I shall be moving out to live with my AS boyfriend. It's quite a stressful/exciting/emotional time XD But anyway...what things should be considered when you live with your partner? - in general. I'm not really talking about things like who pays which bills etc and those typ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Boyfriend is stuck in his own world |
| sunflowerpip |
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Posted: 15 Jun 2011, 6:08 am
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Replies: 21
Views: 5,615
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| Intense and obscure interests are part of AS traits. My boyfriend also discusses his interests in-depth with me, and it can be hard to get him to calm down or change the subject for a while. I take interest in the conversation and either contribute or else acknowledge what he's saying and try and le... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Moving out is causing job issues... |
| sunflowerpip |
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Posted: 15 Jun 2011, 5:10 am
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Replies: 1
Views: 614
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| I've been on an Apprenticeship scheme in Business Admin since February this year. I'm employed by local government and they offer a wide range of placements. The first placement I went to was ideal in terms of the atmosphere, but the workload didn't suit me at all and would make me very panicky. So ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Where Can I Learn about Aspergers and Intimacy/Marriage? |
| sunflowerpip |
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Posted: 12 Jun 2011, 6:09 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 2,675
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| I'd also like to see what books/resources people would recommend as I find a lot of resources on AS in relationships can be very negative or judgemental, and fails to offer positive, constructive, helpful advice to NT partners. I could be looking at the wrong online resources and amazon reviews thou... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Seeing the Doctors with Depression |
| sunflowerpip |
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Posted: 08 Jun 2011, 5:41 am
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Replies: 1
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| I don't know where to post this at all, but I thought I may as well let it out somewhere? For the past 4 years I have strange on/off stress/depression and erratic moods and all sorts. I only have vague ideas as to where my reaction to negativity and stress comes from, but it always results in extrem... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Any NT loners out there? |
| sunflowerpip |
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Posted: 06 Jun 2011, 4:00 pm
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Replies: 7
Views: 2,130
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| NTs are most definitely not guaranteed a love life. Love and relationships can be very troublesome and full of issues for everyone, just different views, experiences, personalities, circumstances etc mean that these problems can vary and be dealt with in a wide variety of ways. There's a load of obs... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do I tell my boyfriend I have HFA/AS? |
| sunflowerpip |
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Posted: 02 Jun 2011, 12:40 pm
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Replies: 30
Views: 4,901
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| I'm in a long-distance relationship, not as long a distance as yours, but hopefully I can help somehow, even a little? Opinions are good and all, but only if they are helpful and constructive, so I'd do as nostromo suggests and ignore any comments made about what constitutes as a relationship and wh... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Questions about you |
| sunflowerpip |
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Posted: 11 Apr 2011, 3:00 pm
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Replies: 5,809
Views: 1,304,079
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| What is your first name? I have two different names actually - my friends know me as Pip Age: 19 Location: Cheshire, UK Hobbies and Interests: Writing, cosplay, watching movies/anime, reading. Interested in gadgets and technology, cats, chocolate, and discussing deep spiritual subjects and science. ... |
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