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Forum: The Haven Topic: Extermely depressed, +8 month isolation taking toll |
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Posted: 26 Aug 2016, 3:07 am
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Replies: 154
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| can you go out and take a walk, join a gym, do some cardio exercise. do some jogging. also do some volunteering work. you will have to start all over again your life before drugs and after drugs will be two different things can you get a social worker to help you restart or some deaddiction or rehab... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: West vs East : Relationship and family values. |
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Posted: 24 Aug 2016, 2:52 am
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Replies: 145
Views: 10,266
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| Not sure if this is a West vs East thing or it's just an individual case? my mom was not ready to take care of my son and help me even after childbirth. but i dont see it with other couples here their mom's are willing to help whenever needed. i think in western culture women go on dates after thei... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: West vs East : Relationship and family values. |
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Posted: 23 Aug 2016, 12:49 pm
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Replies: 145
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| but nowadays there are lot of conflict in cities. especially parents dont want to indulge in grandchildren they find it burden they want freedom and dont want to be like servant serving kids first and then grandkids because of this lot of married women are burdened with task of raising kids alone an... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: West vs East : Relationship and family values. |
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Posted: 23 Aug 2016, 12:39 pm
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Replies: 145
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| the thing about not living with parents in old age changes the whole scenario. why would a person marry and have kids when the kids wont be a asset for them in old age. when they cannot play with their grandchildren. i think the whole theory of evolution and family, generation comes to standstill wh... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Are you scared to have a job? |
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Posted: 22 Aug 2016, 1:12 pm
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Replies: 12
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| the thought of a regular job is literally unfathomable to me. literally. my brain short-circuits if i even try to picture it. unskilled or professional, doesn't matter. i'm pathologically resistant against following orders that don't make sense (which is part of every job), i'm unable to work as pa... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I feel useless |
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Posted: 22 Aug 2016, 12:59 pm
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Replies: 11
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i was told before being fired from last job that i shouldnt work i am a liability rather than asset
before that also i was fired and told samething.
people with anxiety are sick and they need serious rest. medications are temporary relief
and suppress for a while thats what i was told by my doctor |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: 39 Years of Regret |
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Posted: 22 Aug 2016, 12:38 pm
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Replies: 8
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| lot of extrovert and sucessful people also have few friends. i know a person who is a lecturer in leading college, she is smart, extrovert, talkative but hardly has close friends. well job a cousin yesterday was saying that lot of people are being laid off in his workplace they are all smart, talent... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Spendthrift Husband |
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Posted: 21 Aug 2016, 6:34 am
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Replies: 21
Views: 1,574
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i think because of tat im getting mood swings and feeling low not able or interested to get out of bed
i will have to check my thyroid levels and take some vitamin D
thanks i will get back to u later |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: I'm not understanding the whole wedding/engagement business |
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Posted: 21 Aug 2016, 6:28 am
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Replies: 36
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| Most people only attend because they "have" to. Spare them and elope! Save the money for a house deposit or at least enjoy it on your honeymoon. A marriage is about 2 people, not all the family and friends and an open bar. this part is true. people attend because they have to....i have st... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Spendthrift Husband |
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Posted: 21 Aug 2016, 5:40 am
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Replies: 21
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i have hypothyroid. Its genetic runs in my family.
the stress and too much thinking might just aggravate my thyroid issues |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: What is the point of living with someone ? |
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Posted: 17 Aug 2016, 2:25 pm
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Replies: 21
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so your issue is that your relationship is not working out.
you are not happy in it and just dragging by and there is no compatability
in that case maybe you should break off as if you are not married
i had arranged marriage and been living with same guy for last 16 years
and  whatever |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: I got a job!! ! |
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Posted: 17 Aug 2016, 1:48 pm
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Replies: 6
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i never get excited or happy now when i get a job
i can feel a strange feeling in my head and it doesnt connect with my heart
but i dont want to deter you..........gud luck |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: My ex messaged me and I snapped on him.... |
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Posted: 17 Aug 2016, 1:03 pm
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This happens with me also. I vent, hurt, yell and then go back to sweet talk and act like a fool.
we need to take firm decision before they take firm ones and dump us.
very few people can take the s**t i deliver |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Spendthrift Husband |
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Posted: 17 Aug 2016, 4:33 am
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Replies: 21
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| thank you for link campin cat i will go through them and let you know whether anything is functional and i actually could earn a penny |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Spendthrift Husband |
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Posted: 17 Aug 2016, 4:31 am
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| Well, there's nothing you can do but to work. But let's be realistic, you have no work experience and you have to be exceptionally fluent in English to be accepted as English teacher. At 38 you will also face agesim in the job market. It would be easier to work in online customer support, large com... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Spendthrift Husband |
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Posted: 16 Aug 2016, 1:13 pm
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Replies: 21
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| i have no support from my family my mom is narcissistic and brother is bully. i had once showed them all credit cards bills and bankruptcy but they blamed me and supported my hubby. Is mother is aware of his spending habits but still she asked him to give them a big loan, his sister calls up when sh... |
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