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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Online dating messages |
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Posted: 22 Jun 2018, 1:25 am
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| It's very stressful for a marriage if somebody is laid off from a job. It's stressful on the person laid off. This leads to stress all around. Being laid off with no other source of income is very stressful, indeed. My solution: Don't get married :D And don't have kids. My financial situation remai... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Online dating messages |
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Posted: 17 Jun 2018, 11:02 am
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Replies: 124
Views: 2,724
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| I find this whole correlation to job interviews disturbing and depressing to be frankly honest. It’s sad that it is indeed very true...... but I can’t think of anything less sexy and romantic then a job interview. It speaks to a fundamental flaw in our social dating dynamics. Romance is sparked by ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Online dating messages |
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Posted: 17 Jun 2018, 9:48 am
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| I find this whole correlation to job interviews disturbing and depressing to be frankly honest. It’s sad that it is indeed very true...... but I can’t think of anything less sexy and romantic then a job interview. It speaks to a fundamental flaw in our social dating dynamics. Romance is sparked by c... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I hope this is allowed..... |
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Posted: 17 Jun 2018, 8:59 am
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Replies: 1
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| ....if not delete it. But I saw the sticky threads at the top about the aspergain singles list and it seems this type of thing is encouraged on here. I like the straightforward “hey I’m single, I’m looking, and I can mention that on here” as I believe, especially if you are ASD, that you have to use... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Let’s play...... the dating game, sort of. |
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Posted: 16 Jun 2018, 9:31 pm
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Replies: 28
Views: 1,118
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| I'm like an amalgamation of #1 and #2. Basically, once I feel comfortable around people I become quite extroverted and loud. Plus, sarcastic, cynical, and deadpan humour are all things I'm fond of.' #3 is definitely my least favourite for dating. I just don't approve of people who put personal ambi... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Online dating messages |
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Posted: 16 Jun 2018, 3:47 pm
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| No, never. I've actually had people tell me that it's really weird that I always type with proper grammar, even in chat rooms. Of course, today, everyone types on phones, where they automatically capitalize and spell-check for you (whether it's the correct word or not). I never find out why I was g... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Let’s play...... the dating game, sort of. |
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Posted: 16 Jun 2018, 3:12 pm
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Replies: 28
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| I thought of a fun little game/experiment for us to play. I’m gonna write the personalities and interests of 4 hypothetical people (apply them to the gender you are attracted to) and I want you to pick which 1 you would choose to date. Things like income, family dynamics, looks, etc are taken off th... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My odds |
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Posted: 14 Jun 2018, 10:06 pm
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Replies: 34
Views: 1,483
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| I’m a total weirdo. I’m short. I’m sometimes chubby. I didn’t dress too well when I was younger. I’m on the Spectrum. I didn’t have a car till recently. My job didn’t pay well. I’m a social misfit. Yet I slept with over 30 women, and had quite a few relationships. I attribute this to saying FU to t... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My odds |
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Posted: 14 Jun 2018, 10:04 pm
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Replies: 34
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| I’m a total weirdo. I’m short. I’m sometimes chubby. I didn’t dress too well when I was younger. I’m on the Spectrum. I didn’t have a car till recently. My job didn’t pay well. I’m a social misfit. Yet I slept with over 30 women, and had quite a few relationships. I attribute this to saying FU to t... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My odds |
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Posted: 13 Jun 2018, 5:59 pm
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Replies: 34
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kraftiekortie wrote: A place like Stanford or MIT would be a good place to start
Herbert Hoover married his soulmate. They were both engineering students at Stanford.
rats..... can't do the college thing |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My odds |
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Posted: 13 Jun 2018, 10:39 am
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Replies: 34
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kraftiekortie wrote:
Yep....those women do exist.
Oh my god where lol. That would be love at first science joke for me! |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Extroverted aspie |
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Posted: 13 Jun 2018, 10:33 am
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Replies: 13
Views: 1,625
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| I'm not, but I have meant autistic people who are extroverted. Most of them also seem to be more sensory seeking than avoidant, and still have difficulty in social interactions but initiate them anyway, rather than blocking in themselves like introverted autistic people. Many extroverted autistic p... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Extroverted aspie |
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Posted: 13 Jun 2018, 8:28 am
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Replies: 13
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| Any extroverted aspies out there? What do you think makes you different from most ASD people? I would love to hear how life is different or harder for you because of this. Just looking for some solidarity. I, for the longest time, didn’t even think I was on the spectrum because of my extrovertness. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My odds |
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Posted: 13 Jun 2018, 8:22 am
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Replies: 34
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| I attribute this to saying FU to those who think I’m not viable. Yeah I’ve adopted this attitude as well and even though I’m still rejected quite a bit, I feel I’ve gotten more dates and attention then even a lot of NT guys do. I guess confidence is attractive? Perhaps it helps that I’m an extrover... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My odds |
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Posted: 13 Jun 2018, 12:40 am
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Replies: 34
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| 9. I’m poor and feminist ideas haven’t evolved enough to make this issue irrelevant What makes you think feminist ideas would ever make this irrelevant? Feminism in its modern incarnation is largely self-serving to women (and perhaps people of colour, etc. I doubt simply being poor will ever make i... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My odds |
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Posted: 13 Jun 2018, 12:37 am
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Replies: 34
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| Sure, you're not a mainstream human so your pool of compatible partners will be smaller than for regular humans. But that doesn't mean there's nobody. I'm quite similar to you, when comparing to your list. So "odds are" there are others. Thank you for your kind feedback :) I sure apprecia... |
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