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 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: I can't be "just friends" with males and it is ruining me

Posted: 30 Mar 2020, 1:53 am 

Replies: 10
Views: 645

But what do I do if I wanted a chance? Mostly, just be you. Partly, if you feel he hasn't gotten the hint, or you haven't brought it up directly, you might want to do so, but... Edit: and hes having a minor surgery next week and if I'm not sick he wants me to be the person that is with him at the h...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Marriage and Name Changes

Posted: 16 Mar 2013, 4:37 am 

Replies: 37
Views: 3,572

Male. Change my surname? No constraint; I'm not particularly attached. Insist on my partner changing his or hers? As a preference I would prefer that didn't happen. It's of minimal importance to me one way or the other though. Here's a fun extra that might be interesting: male children keeping the f...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Do you ever feel like a bit of a throwback?

Posted: 12 Mar 2013, 4:55 pm 

Replies: 9
Views: 1,116

I'm just curious if I'm fairly alone in this little eccentricity or whether others out there might feel the same. I often feel rather lonely in this, and I think it contributes to my sense of isolation. I think us old-style folks are fairly uncommon. I often feel I was born either 1400 years early ...

 Forum: Parents' Discussion   Topic: No connection between us

Posted: 10 Mar 2013, 5:33 pm 

Replies: 20
Views: 2,708

I'm not a parent, I'm (obviously) just someone else's child.

I don't think there's a rational explanation for any of this behavior, let alone all of it. From what little I have so far, my assessment: this behavior is consistent with that of a fuck-up.

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: What do men want?

Posted: 10 Mar 2013, 5:23 pm 

Replies: 707
Views: 32,220

In the interest of giving this thread a do-over... I'm in my 30s and had some questions. Disclaimer: I'm in my 30s and may have answers that reflect no sense of values, or even reality, other than my own For you men, do you like women who like to drink and like to see them get drunk? No problem when...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: had an epiphany.

 Post subject: Re: had an epiphany.
Posted: 10 Mar 2013, 5:05 pm 

Replies: 38
Views: 4,185

But it finally dawned on me on my way home that after all these years of assuming people just didn't like me or were purposefully being mean to me... (snip) ...It's no wonder I have such a hard time finding friends and relationships.. practically all the places that exist to meet people are places ...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Coming Out

Posted: 02 Mar 2013, 4:00 pm 

Replies: 5
Views: 863

@Ria1989, if you dropped all of that onto your friend without previously mentioning that you found her remarks hurtful, this may have been a little abrupt. On the other hand, if you felt there was no way to raise the subject because of circumstances, then this is possibly one of the better possibili...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: I think someone sexually assaulted my brother.

Posted: 02 Mar 2013, 7:49 am 

Replies: 18
Views: 3,239

If a person goes to the police to report himself or herself being victimized, whether it's sexual assault, domestic violence, threatening behavior by someone or some other situation, there can be this awkward dynamic in which the police officer is seemingly telling the steps involved in making a re...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: I can't even hate myself...

Posted: 24 Feb 2013, 6:25 am 

Replies: 8
Views: 1,098

I hate this question. I've gotten to coping by responding with a question: "what are you actually asking?" When they persist in failing to reveal their motivations, I fall back to "what do you want?" It's rude, but frankly for most people to ask this question is a terrible imposition on one's person...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: topics of conversations...I still don't get why I am wrong

Posted: 19 Feb 2013, 4:38 pm 

Replies: 22
Views: 5,461

I think I'm with the other replies: it does not seem that your neighbors are paragons of accepted behavior themselves.

I second the kill-them-with-kindness suggestion, better known as "reply with honey with the slightest hint of urine"

 Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion   Topic: Icelandic MP claims porn shield is unworkable

Posted: 17 Feb 2013, 2:44 am 

Replies: 19
Views: 2,121

RFC 3514

Note the datestamp on this RFC.

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Married with kids - sensory overload / distraction

Posted: 16 Feb 2013, 8:04 am 

Replies: 6
Views: 962

She knows, but she forgets. It all gets confused when we get hit with surprise weekend activities / work, or if my kid doesn't take a nap that we were banking on. At the end of the day, I don't think NTs can relate to how critical it is to our ability to function, so it just gets deprioritized. Do ...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: MMO: Disliking other players

Posted: 16 Feb 2013, 7:59 am 

Replies: 6
Views: 1,038

These players never communicated with me nor do I make my irritation by their presence known. I feel like this lack of communication is part of it like "Did I ask you for help?" Does anybody else feel like this? In games where it's mattered (e.g. experience solely to the kill striker) I've been car...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Is it creepy?

 Post subject: Re: Is it creepy?
Posted: 16 Feb 2013, 7:52 am 

Replies: 16
Views: 1,848

For a single guy to join a Meetup group/large university class for salsa dance/any dance lessons without bringing a girl along (because it seems like he is deliberately trying to hook up -- which I'm not. I'm actually trying to do it for body awareness/NVLD). Just not sure. Some might wonder, but w...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: What's Attractive?

 Post subject: Re: What's Attractive?
Posted: 16 Feb 2013, 7:12 am 

Replies: 37
Views: 5,166

I'm an authority on what I myself find attractive in another person, at this moment. I'm less authoritative for anyone else, anywhere else, anytime else. I'd say what is 'attractive' varies, different people find different things attractive.......also I don't get this talk of 'lesser' females or 'le...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: How many of you have a driver's license?

Posted: 14 Feb 2013, 5:33 pm 

Replies: 53
Views: 7,113

Full license at 17 years of age.
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