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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Which rejection is more "flexible" |
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Posted: 11 Apr 2006, 10:30 pm
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In a situation where the other person wants to grab at straws and hold on you are better off making it clear you want no contact.
having stalkers is not fun. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Lovers or Best Friends- How do you tell the difference? |
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Posted: 11 Apr 2006, 10:27 pm
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| ...and the day after I make that post my boyfriend kisses me on the cheek. :roll: :lol: It's all those rule xyz, except where [100s of rules here] ones that catch us out aye. eg a friend won't sleep with you, except where he an NT and his friends don't think you're pretty but he does so you two do,... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Do you have a gaydar? |
| EGMaria2004 |
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Posted: 08 Apr 2006, 8:27 am
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Replies: 80 Views: 1,217
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| I don't have a clue. I can't tell at all which leads to really bad situations sometimes. Easier now that i don't date tho. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Drugs the illegal ones |
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Posted: 08 Apr 2006, 8:21 am
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Replies: 55 Views: 1,142
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| Marijuana: Just makes me feel completely spaced out like i'm not really there. Can't even walk straight without falling over. Lost the plot when i smoked too much of it a few times. mushrooms: horrible. Thought the walls had tigers teeth and were trying to eat me. cocaine: got all paranoid and thoug... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: People who have crushes on you- your thoughts and opinions |
| EGMaria2004 |
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Posted: 08 Apr 2006, 8:11 am
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| There's basically been three situations. the first was me just being plain not ready to deal with it. I was just oblivious. then being unable to actually accept that someone i crushed on also crushed on me so it passed me by. I pushed him away cos i couldn't deal with a relationship suddenly appeari... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: dont wanna have AS any more |
| EGMaria2004 |
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Posted: 08 Apr 2006, 8:01 am
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Replies: 9 Views: 2,480
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| I feel exactly the same way Especially with the pressure to be empathic and stuff just cos i'm a girl. All you can do is hold on. You're not alone. I wish I could just not have AS too. I get quite down about it sometimes. finding something to take comfort in can give a bit of peace sometimes. That's... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Anyone have experience with risperdal, depokote or ativavan |
| EGMaria2004 |
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Posted: 08 Apr 2006, 7:55 am
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| I take rispiradal 1mg when i feel i need it. I don't take it daily but i find it very helpful for those days i just have no patience for the world and start to think about doing a school shooting or something. The pill just makes me feel less agitated and impatient. I don't need it most of the time,... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: trying not to stress out |
| EGMaria2004 |
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Posted: 08 Apr 2006, 7:49 am
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| So I am back to studying computer science at university after ending up in a mental instituion for a while. The thing is tho I thought all the people i knew there would have left by now. But some of them haven't. At one point there was a girl in my comp sci class i had a total obcession over, she wa... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Lovers or Best Friends- How do you tell the difference? |
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Posted: 08 Apr 2006, 7:42 am
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| I didn't vote because i don't really know where i fit. I can usually figure out if people are dating or not. But i'm just kind of oblivious and don't really notice. I've been called stuck up because i don't notice people when others say they were "hitting on" me. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Have you ever had a gf/bf? |
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Posted: 08 Apr 2006, 7:38 am
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Replies: 71 Views: 9,645
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| I've had no romantic relationships that i count. I had one just horrible one and one that just didn't really work out. I don't think i'll be dating again any time soon. Just not feeling alone is enough. Complicating things with everything that seems to go with dating never seems to work for me. Espe... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: So how do YOU interpret signals from the pleasing gender? |
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Posted: 15 Oct 2005, 9:52 pm
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| I think i have guys fairly well figured out now, but the trouble is i can't find any I actually like :-( Girls are still evil tho. Because of that i'm finding i'm not as attracted to them as i was. Which of course makes me immediately subject to all that "failed lesbian" crap, which precledes my abi... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Big show offs |
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Posted: 15 Oct 2005, 9:43 pm
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Replies: 35 Views: 4,029
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This is related to the male version of the mate selection algorithm.
Hopefully the human species will grow out of this pathetic activity soon. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: uhh... |
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Posted: 15 Oct 2005, 9:40 pm
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| acting like a jerk is OK. Being stuck up and egotistical is not. If some popular kid comes along and talks to me and acts like she/he's doing me a favour for talking to me this is an egotistical act on his/her part. Don't get me started on all the reasons why i think this way, but the short version ... |
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Forum: Computers, Math, Science, and Technology Topic: Windows XP |
| EGMaria2004 |
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Posted: 15 Oct 2005, 1:21 am
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Replies: 20 Views: 3,905
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| According to me a firewall is something that sits between the computer and the internet, ie it's a difference device / computer. My problem with zone alarm is the same as my problem with windows firewall, or bpf, or whatever the linux kernel packet filter is called: A software firewall can only ever... |
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Forum: Computers, Math, Science, and Technology Topic: Computers and slow speed |
| EGMaria2004 |
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Posted: 15 Oct 2005, 1:10 am
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Replies: 18 Views: 3,318
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| unless you live in new zealand where "DSL" is only twice as fast as a modem. I think with "speed" people really mean GUI responsiveness. So things like inefficent software and fragmented harddrives combined with page thrashing in virtual memory mean the over all user experience of a modern PC may ac... |
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Forum: Computers, Math, Science, and Technology Topic: Bit Torrent, what am i doing wrong? |
| EGMaria2004 |
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Posted: 15 Oct 2005, 1:07 am
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Replies: 8 Views: 2,937
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| I've never been able to get bit torrent to work. I couldn't even download linux with it. That was even after setting the right ports and stuff up. Then I found out my ISP is doing layer 7 traffic shaping of p2p and bittorrent stuff, ie the router actually opens every packet and looks inside it to se... |
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