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Forum: WrongPlanet.net discussion Topic: How do I delete my profile? |
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Posted: 08 May 2012, 3:09 pm
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Forum: WrongPlanet.net discussion Topic: How do I delete my profile? |
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Posted: 08 May 2012, 2:13 pm
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| How do I delete my profile? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Objectification ie. Ur no person, Ur an object of critique) |
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Posted: 18 Feb 2012, 10:48 pm
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| Longer to fall in love. Yes, that is a good thing. Got a pill for that? I fall in love regardless! If it's there it's there and if I'm trying to be cool it will creeps up on me and go BOO! he he |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Objectification ie. Ur no person, Ur an object of critique) |
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Posted: 18 Feb 2012, 10:46 pm
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| Oh yes I forgot to say some women do end up with jerks because they are pretty it's true. I think low self esteem does have alot to do with that. If you are a quiet type though you end up with mnaipulators. Bad times. I get really upset when i walk in a club and all the "beautiful" people look at me... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Objectification ie. Ur no person, Ur an object of critique) |
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Posted: 18 Feb 2012, 10:30 pm
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| Yes I guess keep trying really is the only solution, and yes I get misunderstood in other contexts too and is now no surprise to me he he! I think you said something really smart there... "If they are looking for you to mess up then it's a good thing you did". I think that this must be true and I am... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Eligible Odd-Bods! - The Premier Aspergian Singles List |
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Posted: 18 Feb 2012, 10:01 pm
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| English, Female, mid 30s, south of the UK. I'm a Lesbian, and identify as Femme. I like gardening and the comforts of home I am cheerful, kind, artistic, with feminist/human rights/green politics. I also like Scouting and camping and the outdoors in general. I try to find Geocaches too when I can ge... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Objectification ie. Ur no person, Ur an object of critique) |
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Posted: 18 Feb 2012, 8:44 pm
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| Putting many pieces together over a long time is usually how I get to realise the stuff people are up to. I need to know if anyone else has experienced this! I have often (and I mean often) been told that I am beautiful. By lovers and family and friends. Now what I beleive I have been experiencing i... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Advice? Friend likes me, I don't return those feelings. |
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Posted: 27 Jan 2012, 6:42 am
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| And please don't be overly polite or with an overly amount of build-up, for that can come across as an insult, that you think she's weak or something like that. In general, you just want to be matter-of-fact. The relationship has to work for you too. Yes that's right. Infact she can be overly polit... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Advice? Friend likes me, I don't return those feelings. |
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Posted: 25 Jan 2012, 1:50 pm
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| SIDENOTE: I've just realised that what this is called is a "secret crush". She has a secret crush on me. (Although not that secret as she has told our mutual friends) |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Advice? Friend likes me, I don't return those feelings. |
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Posted: 25 Jan 2012, 1:41 pm
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Advice? Friend likes me, I don't return those feelings. |
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Posted: 25 Jan 2012, 1:39 pm
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| I jut read your above reply. Not sure either of them are quite right but they are good ones to build on. Thanks. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Advice? Friend likes me, I don't return those feelings. |
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Posted: 25 Jan 2012, 1:37 pm
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| Yes, it does change the texture of the relationship it's true. I understand what you mean. it's like she has hope I might like her too one day. I must say that some bad head f**k people in her past made her believe that she was a bad person for her feelings. So I reakon there is some PTSD there and ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Advice? Friend likes me, I don't return those feelings. |
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Posted: 25 Jan 2012, 1:16 pm
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Thanks, times two.
Ok. I could start this conversation but seriously I really have no idea what to do say or how to act after that first enquiry.. I need to be walked through this. I also believe that she could react to it in a variety of different ways so I need to be prepared for those too. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Advice? Friend likes me, I don't return those feelings. |
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Posted: 25 Jan 2012, 1:03 pm
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| BTW I just reread your posts and I realise that you were "just saying" which I have just realised isn't you making assumptions at all. Sorry. I only just saw that. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Advice? Friend likes me, I don't return those feelings. |
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Posted: 25 Jan 2012, 1:01 pm
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| What do you suggest I say to her? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Advice? Friend likes me, I don't return those feelings. |
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Posted: 25 Jan 2012, 12:57 pm
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| I feel like reassuring you that I don't ever want to treat her with disrespect. I have empathy for anyone who has a crush on someone who doesn't return their feelings as I myself have had unrequited crushes. In those cases no1 crush encouraged me because he liked the attention and no2 cut me off. Th... |
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