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Forum: News and Current Events Topic: BME women 'twice as likely to be on zero-hours contract as.. |
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| ..... white men. This is sad. Nobody wants to be in insecure work, but it seems racial/gender discrimination is suggested by the statistics mentioned in the article. Only 2.7% of working white men are on zero-hour contracts whilst 5.9% of BME women are on zero-hour contracts. Life is hard enough wit... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My partner ogles other women & it makes me feel unattractive |
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| I'll admit I get jealous pretty easily, because those three idiots damaged my self-esteem and convinced me I wasn't desirable. It's something I don't really voice to my current partner, because I know it's my trauma speaking and not the truth. I was thinking about asking you about whether it affect... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My partner ogles other women & it makes me feel unattractive |
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| My ex told me how unattractive I was, but I never caught him ogling other women. I think that is a red flag too in a relationship, which I guess would be expected of the guy who abused you (I am guessing you are referring to the abusive ex). Yeah, now that I think about it, even though he didn’t og... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My partner ogles other women & it makes me feel unattractive |
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| My XYF would get angry with me for even speaking to other women. She flew into a rage that lasted into the wee hours because I smiled and said, "Thank you" to the woman who served us at a fancy restaurant. She dropped in unexpectedly to my workplace to count the number of women who work... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My partner ogles other women & it makes me feel unattractive |
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| For women: Have you experienced anything like that which is happening/has happened in the below article? Your thoughts and ideas are welcomed, and so are men's, but women's more so for this particular topic! https://i.ibb.co/FgSHZ2G/ogler.jpg An excerpt from the article: "My partner of three y... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My partner ogles other women & it makes me feel unattractive |
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| Oh I forgot to mention, the first dude tried to take me to swingers' clubs. Sometimes we'd go out to a restaurant and there'd be another couple there waiting to meet us, without my foreknowledge or consent. He often hooked up with the man from those couples even though I refused to be with their pa... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My partner ogles other women & it makes me feel unattractive |
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| My other ex kept a huge digital and print photo collection of an unnamed young woman from his past. He used those photos during ... uh, private time with himself. He also had a collection of her things including a monogrammed towel. He never explained exactly who she was, but as far as I could tell... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My partner ogles other women & it makes me feel unattractive |
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TwilightPrincess wrote: My ex told me how unattractive I was, but I never caught him ogling other women.
I think that is a red flag too in a relationship, which I guess would be expected of the guy who abused you (I am guessing you are referring to the abusive ex). |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My partner ogles other women & it makes me feel unattractive |
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| Yes. One of my partners used to squeeze my hand really tight if he saw someone he found attractive, and he'd whisper "Oh my fuckkkking God!! ! ! !" in a type of orgasmic bliss. He admitted what he meant. He used to rank men and women with a rating system. There were code words and code nu... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My partner ogles other women & it makes me feel unattractive |
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| That has never happened to me. It wouldn’t make me feel less attractive, but it would probably make me reconsider the relationship because I don’t perceive that as normal or acceptable behavior. It seems like a major red flag. The women that he’s staring at might not appreciate it either. I hate be... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My partner ogles other women & it makes me feel unattractive |
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| For women: Have you experienced anything like that which is happening/has happened in the below article? Your thoughts and ideas are welcomed, and so are men's, but women's more so for this particular topic! https://i.ibb.co/FgSHZ2G/ogler.jpg An excerpt from the article: "My partner of three y... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: What's on your mind right now? |
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DuckHairback wrote: Bulletin boards on dial-up speed. It's been a real 1998 vibe around here today.
It's painful isn't it?
I think we've all been spoiled since the 56k era. |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: UK passes law to send asylum seekers to Rwanda |
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| Well if that's their only solution to immigration then there's not much hope for anyone The UK is in the toilet. We're literally a little island swimming in a sea of s**t. Why anyone would want to come here at all is a mystery to me Yep! Low wages across all sectors pretty much, compared to better ... |
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Forum: News and Current Events Topic: One man’s experience of a female stalker |
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| I think it's a positive sign that so many women participated in this thread. It would have been concerning if women didn't reply or show interest in the topic at all. In that case, it might have been suggested that women don't believe men's testimony, or that women don't respect men's challenges wi... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: What's on your mind right now? |
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| I just love talking to my dad. I feel like I need to preserve each and every word that he says to me Sometimes I just wanna leave it there and not speak to him again because the last conversation was so perfect and I just wanna hold onto that feeling forever and ever and not have it spoiled But the... |
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Forum: News and Current Events Topic: One man’s experience of a female stalker |
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| I'm sorry to learn of QC's experience as well. That sounds scary and very unsettling. I think some of the challenge with this thread is that the OP post is left open-ended. The article tells the story of a person being stalked and mentions how difficult it is for that person to move forward seeking... |
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