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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do Aspie breaks work? |
| donkey77 |
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Posted: 07 Jul 2011, 4:32 pm
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| My bf is an aspie and we have been having it rough for a while. I actually almost left last month because of some drama. So, I found some items today, another girl's name written over and over, and some other items that make some of his answers turn into lies, and I'm wondering if we just need a bre... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Aspie wants to give up on life |
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Posted: 20 Jun 2011, 4:55 pm
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Replies: 23
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| Thanks. You know I wish my bf knew that. Sometimes I feel that he is checking out his chances with other girls sometimes to see if he feels anything. Not cheating but entertaining the possibility of another person in his life. Perhaps, he has just given up on himself and at that point there is nothi... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Aspie wants to give up on life |
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Posted: 20 Jun 2011, 9:49 am
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| Well unlike your boyfriend, I've never had a woman who wasn't related to me give two s**ts about me. But really, I'm more depressed because of my inability to find stable employment. How does your bf do in that department? My boyfriend does not do well in the job area. He recently got into some tem... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Aspie wants to give up on life |
| donkey77 |
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Posted: 17 Jun 2011, 5:01 pm
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Replies: 23
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| SadAspy, my boyfriend thinks that he should never have been born too. I love him and like him in every way possible. Keep trying to overcome your depression because you are very important. |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Aspie wants to give up on life |
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Posted: 17 Jun 2011, 12:07 pm
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| I did ask that he start talking to other aspies about it but he pushed the idea away. He is definitely depressed and I think he will keep sinking once I leave. I cant go home and just forget about him. I would be moving two states away and so the likelihood of us getting back together is slim. I fee... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Aspie wants to give up on life |
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Posted: 17 Jun 2011, 11:19 am
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| I have a boyfriend with aspergers. We've been together four years and are now looking at separating. Last night he told me all the things he felt he could never tell me before. He said that he feels like he is flawed, ugly, and of no importance. He said the only reason he has remained alive is becau... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie infatuation could cause break up |
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Posted: 16 Jun 2011, 11:07 am
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Replies: 25
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| We had a hard sex life for a while. I was diagnosed with low thyroid and so I was really lethargic for some time. He took that really hard and thought I was rejecting him. I told him it was because I didn't feel well and it had nothing to do with him. I had gained like 50lbs in 2 years and I have lo... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie infatuation could cause break up |
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Posted: 15 Jun 2011, 11:08 pm
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Replies: 25
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| we talked and he wants to think about not breaking up. I'm making preparations to leave. I'm all alone here and I cant stand this for however many days or weeks he needs. He was very cold to me when we talked. He showed some emotion but he seemed numb for the most part. He thinks we both deserve the... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie infatuation could cause break up |
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Posted: 15 Jun 2011, 4:42 pm
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| I really dont think he is cheating right now(guy and gal dating) but I'm afraid that he will be lead into something one day. He already said that he has abstained from parties because he's afraid of what he may do if a girl hits on him. That he has wanted that affection for so long and isn't getting... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie infatuation could cause break up |
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Posted: 15 Jun 2011, 9:59 am
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Replies: 25
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| Sacrip, I really dont know much about these people. What he tells me is very limited and it worries me. The only things I really know are what I've been able to find online about them. Is it normal for aspies to not talk much about people they like? I get that a lot with him. He gives me very limite... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie infatuation could cause break up |
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Posted: 15 Jun 2011, 3:18 am
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| Thank you. I know I'm not perfect but there are things you just don't do. Yes, he is with both the guy and girl. I feel that I've tried so hard but what can I do if the same effort isn't made. Thanks for the comments, I wanted to make sure this was something he couldn't control before I took it furt... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie infatuation could cause break up |
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Posted: 15 Jun 2011, 1:56 am
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| Part of me thinks he wants a single life because its easier. He's doing things single people do and is fleeing when we are having a rough patch. I remember I had to go to work one time we had a problem and he expected me to stay home and clear it up. But he can leave in the middle of the night for a... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie infatuation could cause break up |
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Posted: 15 Jun 2011, 12:34 am
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| His friends decided to show up in town and they are all on their way for a three hour trip and he is coming back for work by 6:30am (three hours back). I told him that I'm not comfortable with his friends. I also told him that I didn't think taking a trip like this was a good idea. He has been fight... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie infatuation could cause break up |
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Posted: 14 Jun 2011, 4:58 pm
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Replies: 25
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| Thanks for all your thoughts. I have a great deal of thinking to do. Also, they really are in the porn industry, I've seen the pictures sadly and they are kind of well known. I dont mind him having girls for friends but its very easy for him to escape to these people when we are not doing well. Whic... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie infatuation could cause break up |
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Posted: 14 Jun 2011, 9:33 am
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Replies: 25
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| A little history...I have a boyfriend with Aspergers. We've been together four years and we have not had an easy time these last two years. Actually, two years ago is when he told me had high-functioning Aspergers and that is really when our problems started. Communication has been the problem becau... |
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