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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: ARTICLE: US autism estimate rises to 1 in 68 children |
| cozysweater |
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Posted: 29 Mar 2014, 2:22 am
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,036
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| ^ Or pathologize shyness and awkwardness. |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: American do you like your president (Obama) |
| cozysweater |
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Posted: 29 Mar 2014, 2:02 am
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Replies: 80
Views: 4,915
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| Maybe luan is a libertarian. They usually claim they're not conservative. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: locking up under strong emotions? |
| cozysweater |
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Posted: 22 Mar 2014, 1:34 am
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Replies: 5
Views: 1,037
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| Kissing someone I really like can make me feel like I disappear. Or stop in time. It's hard to explain but apparently the feeling is normal for the situation. Is this what you mean? |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: what are you listening to THIS VERY SECOND? |
| cozysweater |
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Posted: 22 Mar 2014, 1:16 am
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Replies: 66,182
Views: 2,649,849
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[youtube]http://youtube.com/?#/watch?v=D6CWBgLbrD4[/youtube]
This may not work because I'm using a mobile device. |
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Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports Topic: I have no help in life..help!! |
| cozysweater |
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Posted: 22 Mar 2014, 12:55 am
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Replies: 2
Views: 647
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| There are a lot of weight training exercises you can do with just your own body weight. Don't get stuck waiting for the perfect equipment. Google a workout regimen without weights. |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Send an anonymous message to ANYONE in your life |
| cozysweater |
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Posted: 17 Feb 2014, 1:57 am
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Replies: 2,598
Views: 88,077
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| This is so very very petty. I finally find a kind and generous and all-around terrific guy who isn't already taken and who laughs at my jokes and makes me laugh in return, but he also has a mother a lot like mine. I've spent the last 20 years distancing myself from my own mentally ill mother who mak... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: What song are you listening to now? |
| cozysweater |
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Posted: 23 Apr 2013, 11:41 pm
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Replies: 32,470
Views: 1,922,092
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It's a Macklemore Tuesday 
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QK8mJJJvaes[/youtube] |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Words that sound dirty |
| cozysweater |
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Posted: 23 Apr 2013, 11:26 pm
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Replies: 152
Views: 6,779
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Moist
It just sounds dirty  |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: what are you listening to THIS VERY SECOND? |
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Posted: 23 Apr 2013, 11:13 pm
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Replies: 66,182
Views: 2,649,849
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| [youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hghemLKOuDo[/youtube] |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: what are you listening to THIS VERY SECOND? |
| cozysweater |
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Posted: 11 Apr 2013, 12:39 am
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Replies: 66,182
Views: 2,649,849
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| [youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7FmognvrztU[/youtube] |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Feeling Optimistic and Then.... |
| cozysweater |
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Posted: 11 Apr 2013, 12:09 am
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Replies: 1
Views: 771
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| This is the one situation where the cost/benefit of being yourself is skewed in favor of totally-a-benefit. So be yourself because they don't know you and you are probably totally great. And some digital person not liking you at first blush is not hard to get over. But also be interested in what the... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Post something that made you UNHAPPY today. |
| cozysweater |
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Posted: 10 Apr 2013, 11:35 pm
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Replies: 34,485
Views: 1,393,780
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| I think I might have done something wrong with the guy I've been seeing. I'm not exactly sure what it was but he's being kind of short with me in texts today, which... gah! Stupid texting! It's so ripe for misunderstandings! Okay, so maybe it's my imagination, but I miss those cues so easily and I r... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: what is masculinity? (LADIES ONLY) |
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Posted: 10 Apr 2013, 11:23 pm
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Replies: 22
Views: 3,224
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| I've tended to date fairly non-alpha guys for the last... 20 odd years or so, who might fall under the category of "non-standard masculinity". They've all been great guys and they have all the same hangups and ego issues that their more alpha brothers have but with one key difference. If we get jump... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Being direct |
| cozysweater |
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Posted: 10 Apr 2013, 11:11 pm
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,805
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| I would start by making YOUR feelings known first, making it safe for them to answer truthfully! "I think you're a great guy I'd like to know you better / spend more time with you. How about you?" It'll now be safe for them to say they reciprocate... and if they don't, chances are they don't feel t... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: what's it like not having first-order theory of mind |
| cozysweater |
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Posted: 10 Apr 2013, 10:56 pm
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Replies: 27
Views: 4,441
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| What was different about me was that I had to explicitly think about what other people were thinking, like solving a math problem. I didn't automatically take it into account. I'm like that too. Me too. I was reading Sherlock Holmes stories and realised I could try to work out people's intentions a... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: A simple idea to help move on more smoothly: |
| cozysweater |
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Posted: 25 Mar 2013, 12:18 am
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Replies: 50
Views: 5,336
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| Meh. Feelings don't just turn off because you want them to or because you've reasoned through why they "shouldn't" exist. Or because you've "processed". (my absolute least favorite buzzword) You feel what you feel until you don't anymore. Currently, I'm battling a crush on a married coworker. It's ... |
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