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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Asperger's and anorexia? |
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Posted: 18 Apr 2012, 9:26 pm
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| Im 29. Im 5"11 120 pounds. Ive never been over 130. I have had trouble since I was a teen. My mom use to get crazy angry with me because I turned vegetarian and I think overall my having Aspergers I was just seen as a disappointment to them. They had the "perfect" life, house, yard they wanted me to... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Aspergers, lack of maturity or both? |
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Posted: 29 Feb 2012, 7:23 pm
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| I recently overheard a conversation between my husband (we are seperated) and his friend. It both hurt and got me thinking and worried. I have been dealing with a lot since September. We seperated because of a deep betrayal on his part and I'm in a rather horrible situation. That I do blame him for ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: How approachable are you? |
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Posted: 06 Aug 2011, 10:13 pm
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Replies: 50
Views: 958
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| Oh goth day sounds fun! Any way I tend to cross my arms and lower my eyes in public. I am certain I look odd. People I don't know frighten me I'm afraid of what they must think and what I may say or how I say it. I beat myself up over stupid things. I also don't trust or like most people. I sometime... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: how do i convince husband to let me work? |
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Posted: 06 Aug 2011, 8:26 pm
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Replies: 17
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| He very much seems think of the roles that way. He has gottwn worse over the past couple years. He will not stop and conside my thoughts and feelings he just does whatever he feels is right. It hurts and half the time if I do say something I get told to shut up. I really would like to see my grandma... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: how do i convince husband to let me work? |
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Posted: 06 Aug 2011, 6:43 pm
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Replies: 17
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| He says he rather I stay at home. We do have animals like I said but they would be looked after but they are his biggest reason for it. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Not really sure the place to put such a question.... |
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Posted: 06 Aug 2011, 6:11 pm
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Replies: 6
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| Yeah the general condition of the animals is good. We rescued the thin horses and proof was given. The issue is they wamt to put my partly blind mare down for the blindness even though she has been that way for 20+ years, my "dangerous horse" is in great health as are all my other animals. We do hav... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: how do i convince husband to let me work? |
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Posted: 06 Aug 2011, 6:00 pm
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Replies: 17
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| I understand that. It would hurt much less at times if he would have just hit me. However it beats living with my parents or my ex. Thet all use my AS as a reason for the controling but its happened all my life. |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: how do i convince husband to let me work? |
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Posted: 06 Aug 2011, 5:05 pm
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| He has never hit me he just is controling. I may have thought of leaving but I have animals that must come first before anything else nor do I have the resorces to leave. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Not really sure the place to put such a question.... |
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Posted: 06 Aug 2011, 4:53 pm
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| I'm in new mexico. Why would they think my having AS would make me unfit to care for the animals? I've held jobs in the area and workd with kids even. And even so I am married so I have my husband around. What could they do? Isn't our moving a good enough sollution? We will be out of their hair. Wou... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: New members welcome! Introduce yourself here. |
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Posted: 06 Aug 2011, 4:33 pm
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| Hi I'm giving out my name but I'm 29 yo female from the southwest. I like to read and rescue animals. I don't have many friends or family but I am married |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: how do i convince husband to let me work? |
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Posted: 06 Aug 2011, 3:56 pm
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| Well he still treats me better then 95% of others have. Am I happy at times. But life isn't perfect. Making him angry isn't going to help me. I thought if I try to ask him another way he wont get angry? I can't just demand money from him or access to it. If I get a job it seems like the most harmles... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: how do i convince husband to let me work? |
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Posted: 06 Aug 2011, 2:07 pm
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| A few months ago I found a good job for two days a week. I was really excited about. Good pay not as much as my husband but it would have helped us. I told my husband and he got so angry he hung up on me. I thought it would make him happy! He had just told me a few weeks prior he didn't think I did ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Aspies and Crime |
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Posted: 06 Aug 2011, 1:24 pm
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Replies: 15
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| I do believe from personal experience that law enforcement over react to aspergers. Why MEDIA. Anything negative regarding well anything makes the news so there for peope with aspergers are seen as ticking time bombs. :cherry: I doubt half of the people that are said to have aspergers in the news ev... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Not really sure the place to put such a question.... |
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Posted: 06 Aug 2011, 1:00 pm
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Replies: 6
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| Ok. I am new but need some support and help. I'll give you a little detail but please understand I'm not entirely comfortable here yet.... We moved to another county about three months ago. Problems poped up 5 days afer moving but we hd no choice but to stay do to a lack of funds. We rescue animals ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Do you think sex is gross?... |
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Posted: 06 Aug 2011, 12:17 pm
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Replies: 94
Views: 2,333
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YES! OMG I truely I believed I was the only person that felt this way! I thought I am some crazy freak! I am not gay I will point that out not that I believe being gay is a bad thing. I just dont care for or like sex. I don't care what others do just as long as I'm left alone.  |
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