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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: "Boss" makes me cry all day and I can't stop |
| pastafarian |
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Posted: 15 Jul 2014, 5:36 am
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Replies: 15
Views: 3,810
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| Find a quiet place to get a complaint down on paper. Make it all about offering solutions, all calm and professional and reasonable and generous and conscillitaory. But really strong and honest. His bullying behaviour is unacceptable in any work place. And everyone knows he is rotten, so you will be... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Broken Relationship |
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Posted: 27 Nov 2013, 3:07 pm
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Replies: 30
Views: 3,077
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| you sound like a narcissist also. You sing yourself praises but then go ahead an contradict what you have just said about yourself. Being NT is not a blanket permission to be moody or to say things you don't mean or to have anger management issues. You wanted your friend to be grateful for the grea... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Broken Relationship |
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Posted: 26 Nov 2013, 6:50 am
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Replies: 30
Views: 3,077
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| He don't sound like a narcisstic to me. Read a little about narcissim and then come back and tell us yourself f you think he has this personality disorder! And I am not even sure at all sure about him being abusive (I think the jury is out). I can imagine that he is just a confused and very frustrat... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Broken Relationship |
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Posted: 25 Nov 2013, 10:33 am
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Replies: 30
Views: 3,077
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| ..........My partner doesn't understand why I behave the way I do. ..........He knows I have autism but has made no effort to research it. ..........If you say it it means you've thought it and no matter what he says after our fights I believe he meant every word he spitted at me. .........I consta... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Heartbroken :( |
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Posted: 07 Nov 2013, 2:28 pm
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Replies: 54
Views: 10,735
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You are only 31.
Thats a good age to start dating, not to give up. |
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Forum: Television, Film, and Video Topic: Favorite muppet sketch |
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Posted: 30 May 2013, 1:57 am
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Replies: 8
Views: 1,451
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| Anything with Animal in it, drums combusting and chasing "my kind da woo man" |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: 3 new paintings by me |
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Posted: 19 May 2013, 4:18 pm
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Replies: 38
Views: 5,085
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Forum: News and Current Events Topic: Girl gets beaten, arrested for sleeping in class |
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Posted: 14 May 2013, 8:49 am
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Replies: 66
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| I saw a massive police presence in schools when I worked in schools in the states. And metal detectors at school entrances. I still can't get over it. I'd never seen that before. Now we have some dedicated police officers for schools in the UK too. Its so horrible, just so mad and sad. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Can aspie girls answer this about NT females? |
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Posted: 14 May 2013, 8:10 am
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Replies: 20
Views: 4,029
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| For some women, I think it makes them feel like their partner cares about them if he does something for her without directly asking. However, if she asked for whatever it is, she feels like she ordered him to do it and it doesn't count as a caring act. This is what I have deduced from my brother's ... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Timeline of my life...read some... get inspired |
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Posted: 30 Mar 2013, 6:31 pm
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Replies: 3
Views: 1,087
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amazing summary
i cant remember an awful lot of mine, not chronologically like that anyway
good luck with the rest of it  |
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Forum: Television, Film, and Video Topic: OMG! Doctor Who fans, please read this! |
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Posted: 30 Mar 2013, 4:21 pm
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Replies: 8
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| I love Dr Who for many reasons and the Dr/companions relationship is always interesting. But Rose and 10 are the only combination where I have been mesmerised by the love story. Its a spiritual thing that doesn't happen with the others (even if there is huge love, its ordinary love) Rose isn't even ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Would you ever date a fat or obese person? |
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Posted: 30 Mar 2013, 4:13 pm
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Replies: 277
Views: 37,376
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| I've got friends who are deeply, intensely, connected and happy, and they have an incredible sex. Also they are intellectually, emotional and sexually they are thrilled by each other. They are the most amazing couple I have ever met in my life. He is AS and she is NT. He is very skinny and she is a ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Want to get small pet to help cope |
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Posted: 17 Mar 2013, 11:37 am
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Replies: 25
Views: 2,418
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| Rats are awesome, amazingly interactive (snakes are lovely too but they ain't so into you). Rats are clever and loving and funny. They dont ever really settle unless they are tired, but they will come when called and loved to snuggle in your clothes. Two is good, they need each other. Keep them clea... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Answering too quickly=rude and argumentative?!?!? |
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Posted: 17 Mar 2013, 4:58 am
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Replies: 27
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| [quote= And to the poster who asked "what was the question?" -- There was a large envelope with my mother's name on it on the counter next to me.. It had come in the mail I had picked up. She said "What's this?" I simply said "Look at it and find out." She gave me this really dirty look as if I had ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Answering too quickly=rude and argumentative?!?!? |
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Posted: 16 Mar 2013, 5:41 pm
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Replies: 27
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| whirlingmind, I'm sorry that you have understood this as a criticism. It was not. It sounds like you see NT wiring as normal and you are seeing AS wiring as some sort of a deficit. I don't agree. And I really do believe its going against my (NT) evolutionary nature and my brain wiring to make myself... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Answering too quickly=rude and argumentative?!?!? |
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Posted: 16 Mar 2013, 1:43 pm
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Replies: 27
Views: 3,790
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| ...but you imagine how laborious, unnatural and fake it would seem to an Aspie to have to drag out their reply and plaster a fake smile on to make it acceptable to NTs... Something like this is what contributes to our social anxiety and makes us withdraw completely. It's illogical to play pretend w... |
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