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 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Struggling NT

Ellie88
Posted: 26 Nov 2011, 3:14 pm 

Replies: 43
Views: 5,735
Thanks, Frances. Actually, you were pretty kind. And you are right about a lot of things. I think that my depression is more likely the biggest problem. He wants me to find another way of dealing with it other than meds. That's not likely to happen. We have been instructed to take a personality test...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Struggling NT

Ellie88
Posted: 24 Nov 2011, 8:31 pm 

Replies: 43
Views: 5,735
My take on the whole thing is ultimately how important it is to marry someone who has friends. My husband has none and Thanksgiving is very difficult with just the two of us. (My children haven't even called.) I will talk to them about that on another day! I believe it is important for both people t...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Struggling NT

Ellie88
 Post subject: Re: Struggling NT
Posted: 13 Nov 2011, 3:05 pm 

Replies: 43
Views: 5,735
OP, I'm sorry you're having such a hard time, and I'm sorry you've been given such a hard time. Look, there are some hard truths you have to face. None of us here are qualified to diagnose your husband. That said, lots of lots of Aspies are self-diagnosed, and accept their Aspieness without ever ge...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Struggling NT

Ellie88
Posted: 11 Nov 2011, 4:29 pm 

Replies: 43
Views: 5,735
You NT women come here to justify your divorce or why you'd divorce. Do what you really want (which is divorce) and spare us the drama stories. I resent this. I did not tell you every tidbit of our story, but I have always made excuses for him. I have always supported him and I think that is why he...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Struggling NT

Ellie88
Posted: 10 Nov 2011, 6:40 pm 

Replies: 43
Views: 5,735
It sounds like you got married to someone who you thought you could change *into* someone you love; it does not sound like you married someone you love. Now that you realize he is who he is you seem to be resentful of it. Did you get married with the idea that he was going to change into someone el...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Struggling NT

Ellie88
 Post subject: Struggling NT
Posted: 08 Nov 2011, 9:45 pm 

Replies: 43
Views: 5,735
I am married to a business man who I suspect has AS. He doesn't want to do the testing for it, saying, if he is AS, "what then?". I don't know what harm can come to him if he is diagnosed with it. I don't want the diagnosis just to say that (my therapist) was right. No, I need relief from his behavi...

 Forum: WrongPlanet.net discussion   Topic: How do I search on this site?

Ellie88
Posted: 08 Nov 2011, 9:20 pm 

Replies: 8
Views: 2,601
I am lost. I would like to access a thread for NT spouses. Is there a way to search for that on this site?

 Forum: Adult Autism Issues   Topic: New members welcome! Introduce yourself here.

Ellie88
Posted: 07 Nov 2011, 8:14 pm 

Replies: 881
Views: 18,699
Hello all. I am new to forums, but I need support to deal with my hubby. Do I post my story here or on another thread? :?
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