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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie males are notorious for putting themselves down. |
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Posted: 12 Dec 2011, 11:05 pm
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| I am an Aspie who has suffered from social phobia, extreme social anxiety, depression and avoidance personality disorder. I know better than most that life can be one big mess without friends and a steady job. I’ve always loved doing something productive rather than being stuck at home with the four... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie males are notorious for putting themselves down. |
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Posted: 12 Dec 2011, 9:33 pm
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| Many Aspies fail to launch and move out from their parents home. They find it hard to live and function independently on their own. People in their 20s, 30s and even in their 40s may still live at home with their parents. Aspies are typically late developers and they are too attached to their parent... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Mr Nice Guys |
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Posted: 12 Dec 2011, 10:18 am
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Replies: 144
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Nice guys usually finish last in this cruel world.
Nice guys can easily be taken advantage of by others. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: How to find new friends?? |
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Posted: 12 Dec 2011, 10:16 am
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We live in a selfish divided world where most people are only in it for themselves. It is very hard to make friends when you have no friends. Aspies often fit in the category of having no friends.
How do you make friends when you have no friends? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie males are notorious for putting themselves down. |
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Posted: 12 Dec 2011, 10:00 am
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| I have extreme social phobia, extreme social anxiety and paranoia. Avoidance seems to be my best method of coping with things. I avoid experiencing more anxiety inducing experiences by simply staying inside my house most of the day. Any interaction with people makes me feel agitated and feels like a... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie males are notorious for putting themselves down. |
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Posted: 12 Dec 2011, 9:34 am
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| Females are attracted to guys with confidence, good self esteem and sense of humour. Aspie males usually have low confidence, low self esteem due to past issues and they tend to take life too seriously and may not understand jokes. Anyway I am guilty of constantly putting myself down because I have ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why I've ended up alone and am likely to remain that way. |
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Posted: 12 Dec 2011, 9:28 am
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Replies: 35
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| Sweetleaf you are not in such a bad situation you are still only 22 and you are a female. Females under 30 years old usually have a better chance than most males at finding a partner in regards to both online and offline dating markets. Females under 30 are in hot demand, over 30 it is a different s... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Mr Nice Guys |
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Posted: 12 Dec 2011, 8:54 am
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| Nice guys are pigeon holed as friends by most females they meet. The females see the guys as weak and they can manipulate and use the guys until either the guy gives up or another guy replaces him as a close male friend she can rely upon. Females empowered by Margaret Thatcher and other man eating p... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Mr Nice Guys |
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Posted: 12 Dec 2011, 8:42 am
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| Most females assume that guys are only after sex without any strings attached. It could also be fair for males to assume that most modern women are feminists with power suits who want to be powerful man eaters like Margaret Thatcher or Oprah Winfrey and other strong powerful female leaders. "Once a ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Mr Nice Guys |
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Posted: 12 Dec 2011, 3:24 am
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easy way to avoid rejection is to never ask them out.
online rejection is far easier to deal with than being rejected in person |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Mr Nice Guys |
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Posted: 12 Dec 2011, 1:18 am
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| girls/women are full of double speak and contradictions. they say one thing and mean the exact opposite. just be friends is just another way of saying they want nothing to do with you. women say and do everything based on their emotions. men are less emotional and are far more logical than women. wh... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: How to find new friends?? |
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Posted: 11 Dec 2011, 2:39 am
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| I am only looking for chat friends. I am too anxious about meeting new people. I just do not have the confidence or communication skills to effectively talk to people. I am socially isolated, have extreme anxiety and complex psychological issues. The keyboard is my main means of communicating with t... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Mr Nice Guys |
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Posted: 10 Dec 2011, 9:26 am
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| The nice guy gets rejected by most women. It has nothing to do with his lack of confidence, poor communication skills and low self esteem. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: I feel like I have no place in this world. |
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Posted: 08 Dec 2011, 3:22 am
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Replies: 8
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| I feel like I have no place in this world. I have extreme social phobia, extreme social anxiety and socially isolated. I feel like a victim who has been persecuted by society. I am losing hope that my life may turn around for the better in the future. Are there any other Aspies out there who are in... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Mr Nice Guys |
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Posted: 08 Dec 2011, 2:21 am
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| The problem is, he lacks confidence, money, and charisma, so he's basically a weak person How does lacking confidence, money and charisma make you a weak person?!? There is absolutely no evidence/proof to the claim that less confidence, less money and less charisma = weak person. Nice guys usually ... |
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Forum: Bipolar, Tourettes, Schizophrenia, and other Psychological Conditions Topic: Personal insults. |
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Posted: 08 Dec 2011, 2:12 am
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Replies: 18
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wow a lot of people have self esteem, personality and confidence issues.
internal criticism, self loathing/self hatred.
an individual is often his/her own worst enemy. |
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