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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: Is there any other non-binary people here? |
| Onyxaxe |
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Posted: 23 Mar 2018, 1:16 pm
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Replies: 72
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| @Nonsense: I also think it(gender) is essentially a made up game. If every male in a society were expected to wear skirts and women were expected to wear pants that would be the norm, and if a man in that society wore pants people would probably have some epithet for it that amounts to "fairy&... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: Gay Christian ? |
| Onyxaxe |
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Posted: 15 Mar 2018, 1:08 pm
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Replies: 17
Views: 1,349
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| I don't see how you could accept a god that is flat out against you. It's listed many times in Christian and Catholic beliefs that being gay is a sin. Hell I'm pretty sure it says in the Bible that black people were deformed versions of God's creations. That's pretty messed up. He doesn't. He loves... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: Is there any other non-binary people here? |
| Onyxaxe |
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Posted: 14 Mar 2018, 9:44 pm
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Replies: 72
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| Androgynous female. I've never cared enough to identify as anything else. I come from a science based view on genders and sexes in that everyone is a mixture of both (on a hormonal level that determines the physical state) . Gender norms are societal and I don't care to conform to those, therefore I... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: Lesbians (females), post about your dating experiences |
| Onyxaxe |
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Posted: 14 Mar 2018, 9:25 pm
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,341
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| No luck so far. I've met some nice women through the forums. We just weren't a match. Unfortunately in person there just aren't that many single lesbians in my city and the only way to meet LGTBQ people is in bars or drag shows. I'll go to Gay Pride parade this year. Hopefully that will get me into ... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: Gay Christian ? |
| Onyxaxe |
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Posted: 14 Mar 2018, 9:20 pm
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Replies: 17
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| I'm a Queer Christian. I really think the issue with Homosexuality in the Bible is contextual and relevant to the time at hand. There's the mistranslation theory as well. Having said that I can't just say it's not wrong because I haven't found the scripture to say so. However, I am a Queer Christian... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: What part of your identity was easier for you to accept? |
| Onyxaxe |
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Posted: 17 Jan 2018, 10:28 am
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Replies: 15
Views: 1,318
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| It might help that I've always had a firm understanding of the differences in people and don't care about family or anyone's perspectives. I think that's where people struggle. Expectations, public opinions and such. I've always been different, the how doesn't bother me in these regards. |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: What part of your identity was easier for you to accept? |
| Onyxaxe |
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Posted: 17 Jan 2018, 10:26 am
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Replies: 15
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| Neither. I'm on the absentminded, free willed area of the spectrum. I don't care what labels I accept as long as it helps me to understand myself well enough to avoid hurting others unintentionally. |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Long hair or short? Dreads? |
| Onyxaxe |
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Posted: 06 Jan 2018, 4:38 pm
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Replies: 49
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| To people afraid of hairdressers, just go in tell them what sort of thing you want and they will try and do it as close as they can. I mean you are the customer.... For me, it's not how it looks afterwards that's the problem, it's the actual haircut process. I don't like strangers touching my hair,... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: How important are labels? |
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Posted: 04 Jan 2018, 10:41 pm
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Replies: 11
Views: 489
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| I didn't realise how important labels were to me until last year. I've had gender stereotypes pushed on me all my life so by my late teens/early twenties I decided to give in but I felt fake, like an impostor. Then I realised or admitted to myself I was trans. Because I didn't want any of that expe... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do you believe that Aspergers is a mild form of autism? |
| Onyxaxe |
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Posted: 03 Jan 2018, 2:19 am
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Replies: 51
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| Aspergers is just considered High Functioning Autism now anyway. |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: How important are labels? |
| Onyxaxe |
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Posted: 02 Jan 2018, 7:42 am
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Replies: 11
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| For the record I think Boo is awesome. Just scary in a shocking way |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: How important are labels? |
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Posted: 02 Jan 2018, 7:41 am
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Replies: 11
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| FerrariFan has a good point. Only try and find your label if you want or need one. I don't even like labelling myself as bisexual, because it fluctuates. Sometimes I'm interested in both men and women, sometimes only in women. Besides, it's not anyone elses business who I'm sleeping with anyway. I ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Why are people offended by everything? |
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Posted: 01 Jan 2018, 4:20 am
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Replies: 80
Views: 1,304
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| I've seen those shirts, and I've only seen women wearing them, not men. *shrugs* I can see how one could take offense to it, but to get down to the original topic at hand, yes, SJWs and others who are easily offended are getting bigger, louder, more ignorant, and harder to ignore. I guess they figu... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Why are people offended by everything? |
| Onyxaxe |
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Posted: 31 Dec 2017, 12:33 am
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Replies: 80
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| And I agree that 'PC' and 'SJW' extremists can sometimes go too far. But personally I think women who are facing a life-threatening illness deserve more respect. It comes across as if their lives are only worth saving insofar as they continue to be worthy sex objects, for the ultimate benefit of me... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: "You hit like a girl." |
| Onyxaxe |
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Posted: 30 Dec 2017, 11:13 pm
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Replies: 48
Views: 963
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| New Time: who told you "you hit like a girl"? family member, "friend", acquaintance, enemy? taekwondo instructor? what were you trying to hit? it sounds kind of arrogant that the speaker was so full of himself/herself that he/she felt entitled or even obliged to comment/remark o... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Why are people offended by everything? |
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Posted: 30 Dec 2017, 11:07 pm
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Replies: 80
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| Because life experiences aren't black and white. People that are easily offended to the point of being a pain in the ass have probably been abused and only know how to deal with things they don't like in an over the top manner. To add to it, saying things like save the boobies may make women who ha... |
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