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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspergian Singles List 2.0? |
| thisischris |
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Posted: 12 Nov 2015, 7:55 am
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| Not sure how to type this all out, and I don't want to copy one of my dating profiles so I'll do my best lol. My name is Chris. I'm 36 years old. ADD, Aspergers, clinical depression and anxiety. 6 feet tall and around 300 pounds. I live in Springfield, Oregon and though I prefer to stay local, I try... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Desperately need help with relationship advice! |
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Posted: 04 Mar 2015, 1:16 am
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Replies: 7 Views: 857
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| I don't know if I can change things. I want to change. I want things to work between us. I just have so many other things going on here like with work, and health issues that's it's like I'm juggling several things at once. I find it hard to be in my life here and try to have a relationship with som... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Desperately need help with relationship advice! |
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Posted: 03 Mar 2015, 8:44 pm
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| Thank you so much. I really needed that last reply. What I meant about leaving here was that when I was down there with her, I wasn't stressed or worried about the things I normally stress and worry about, I was living in the moment and it was nice. I understand there are some things I can't run awa... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Desperately need help with relationship advice! |
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Posted: 03 Mar 2015, 3:19 am
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| We have talked about the future together, every time we were together in person, and though she wanted to take things at a smooth pace which we've been doing, we both wanted the same things. For the immediate future she wants to stay there because all her family is down there and I'm more than willi... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Desperately need help with relationship advice! |
| thisischris |
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Posted: 02 Mar 2015, 10:32 am
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| Hey everyone. I'll try to be as concise as I can before going to bed. I work graveyard and need to be in bed soon lol. But I really need help as soon as possible. I've been in this long distance relationship with someone I met on eHarmony for almost a year. She lives in California and I live in Oreg... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: A question about looks and physical attraction |
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Posted: 18 Oct 2006, 6:15 pm
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Replies: 17 Views: 2,787
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| This has been an issue for me most of my life, but I only recently though to ask anyone with AS about it. I've been told different things by different people about physical attraction. If it's important or not. Some say yes and some say no. If you're with someone it's important to be attracted to th... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: A question about looks and physical attraction |
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Posted: 18 Oct 2006, 5:50 pm
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| This has been an issue for me most of my life, but I only recently though to ask anyone with AS about it. I've been told different things by different people about physical attraction. If it's important or not. Some say yes and some say no. If you're with someone it's important to be attracted to th... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: seeking opinion on situation |
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Posted: 05 Oct 2006, 7:38 pm
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Replies: 14 Views: 2,055
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| I appreciate everyone's input, and you guys have been great. It just stings a little you know. I kinda do want to ask her what she would have done had I brought it up in the first place, though seeing how she reacted, I doubt it would have been different. She's going through school now, about to gra... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: seeking opinion on situation |
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Posted: 05 Oct 2006, 7:28 pm
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Replies: 14 Views: 2,055
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| I appreciate everyone's input, and you guys have been great. It just stings a little you know. I kinda do want to ask her what she would have done had I brought it up in the first place, though seeing how she reacted, I doubt it would have been different. She's going through school now, about to gra... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: seeking opinion on situation |
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Posted: 05 Oct 2006, 6:54 pm
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Replies: 14 Views: 2,055
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| You guys are right, I just really don't know what to do now. She was great up until this point. I don't want to meet another girl who's great in the beginning and then finds out about the AS and runs. I'm not even sure if I should mention it anymore. I tried to explain to her that it's something I'm... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: seeking opinion on situation |
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Posted: 05 Oct 2006, 6:39 pm
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| Thanks guys. And what she told me right off the bat was, and I'll try to explain as clearly as possible so there's no misunderstanding. She's heterosexual, but before meeting me and signing up on eHarmony, she was with a girl for 6 years. And what she told me was she met this girl, and it just worke... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: seeking opinion on situation |
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Posted: 05 Oct 2006, 6:03 pm
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| I'll try and be as detailed as possible, but it'll be tough because I'm still smarting from this, because it happened yesterday. I have been talking with someone on eHarmony for a few weeks now. I felt we really hit it off from the beginning. She was up front about something that she was worried wou... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie needs advice on finding someone |
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Posted: 30 Aug 2006, 7:20 pm
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Replies: 15 Views: 3,308
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| This question is for the aspies who are in a relationship or have been in one. I've mentioned this in another post. I've had such bad luck with women my whole life. I can't seem to get past the asking out part. I've gotten rejected everytime and the answers vary little. Either they are with someone,... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Eligible Odd-Bods! - The Premier Aspergian Singles List |
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Posted: 29 Aug 2006, 7:08 pm
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Replies: 3,834 Views: 1,536,714
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| Hello to everyone. This seemed like a good idea and after everything I've tried, it seemed like 'what do I have to lose?'. So here goes: I am 27 years old and I live in Eugene, Oregon. I am 6 feet tall and weigh around 250 pounds. I have short dark brown hair and hazel eyes. I always have some kind ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Obsessions that lead to a broken heart |
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Posted: 28 Aug 2006, 6:37 pm
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Replies: 120 Views: 12,146
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| I felt the need to add my thoughts on this. I have dealt with this my whole life pretty much. There have been many girls in my life I've liked but only a few I go back to over and over. One I have had feelings for since my senior year in high school. During that time, I got up the nerve to tell her ... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: New member from Oregon |
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Posted: 24 Aug 2006, 6:51 pm
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Replies: 9 Views: 1,352
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| I lost what I was gonna post the first time, so let me try again. I want to thank everyone for the warm welcome. I really appreciate it. I would love to post some of my drawings. If someone could direct me to where I should post them, I will do so. But please be kind when commenting. LOL. I write sh... |
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