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 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: How do you know you are ready to date?

Posted: 29 Sep 2012, 8:52 am 

Replies: 3
Views: 705


Maeryln138 said Why do you even want to date if those are your feelings? Because it seems that being part of a couple is a prerequisite to being part of any group and i dont want to be completely alone once my mom is also not there. atdevel said: 33 is definitely ready! In my country women over 30 a...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: How do you know you are ready to date?

Posted: 29 Sep 2012, 2:08 am 

Replies: 3
Views: 705


I am 33 year old female. I have never dated or been with anyone. Once in a while i have liked something about someone, but i dont feel motivated to do anything about it. In past i could not figure out if someone was interested in me. Now i notice if someone is noticing me sometimes but i freak out w...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Withholding information

Posted: 11 Sep 2012, 11:26 pm 

Replies: 10
Views: 3,104


Honestly all people have something they are withholding some information. Even if they are nicest to you. They do so as they think it is rude to be very blunt. So my take would be, if you like doing some things with some one continue doing it with that person; so continue spending time. If you no lo...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Inability to argue

Posted: 11 Sep 2012, 10:53 pm 

Replies: 14
Views: 1,889


Crankbadger wrote: I have the exact same issue. The more difficult part for me is that fact that my verbalizing of the argument continues even after the NT has moved on. So i have this circular argument in my head wherein i am arguing with the person in my head. I am definitely better with written c...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Aspies crave relationships, but the reality is there's 90%

Posted: 01 Sep 2012, 8:28 am 

Replies: 18
Views: 3,082


I also want to add that marriage is a two way street. If we assume that an aspie is unsympathetic and non communicative and ______ (put in whatever is common), my question is why did his or her partner decide to marry in the first place. I dont buy the logic that the marriage failed due to the AS. T...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Aspie women should have no trouble with friendships

Posted: 31 Aug 2012, 4:41 pm 

Replies: 11
Views: 1,444


I dont agree. I am not diagnosed but i have always had a tough time making friends. Though i think here you are not really talking about platonic relationship. Having said that i dont think it is easy for women too, atleast not enough to make a general statement. I can say for myself, that i am 33 a...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Email

Posted: 31 Aug 2012, 4:34 pm 

Replies: 4
Views: 839


Hello. I am not sure what you want you are looking for, but when i feel like i want to interact with someone i generally just look at the different threads here and start replying. Why dont you just hang around and write to others on threads? It is more purposeful in that way. Or other thought would...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Am I a "High-Maintenance" Friend?

Posted: 29 Aug 2012, 8:21 pm 

Replies: 16
Views: 3,168


I actually prefer to reply immediately as otherwise i forget. So i personally would not take it as a bad thing to reply immediately. But then i have never really had any one reply to my emails immediately, other than my brother. So i dont know if anybody replies immediately. But no one has been as r...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: It's a miracle I didn't get bullied through school

Posted: 29 Aug 2012, 8:11 pm 

Replies: 10
Views: 1,684


Same here never got bullied in my school or college. At that time i was very passive, "mostly in my head" so i actually got protected by the guys in my class. I did not realised that but did not get bullied at all in school. Home was another thing all together. I actually did not get bullied by my b...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: How often do you speak to/hang out with friends?

Posted: 29 Aug 2012, 8:04 pm 

Replies: 7
Views: 3,987


To Fiona_G Mine is actually just like you. I have always been a recluse and am so even now. I currently in a Uni so i meet people in class and since i live in halls, i meet people there. I dont really hang out with people i.e. meet just to talk. In the whole year i've done it 3 times. Even the 3 tim...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Single ones: What's it gonna take for that someone to come?

Posted: 28 Aug 2012, 2:34 pm 

Replies: 35
Views: 13,278


bruinsy33 wrote I don't know why but it made me feel good when I read this. Same here, i felt good read this thread as i felt i was not the only one struggling. In all the other links, they are mostly of people who have atleast had 1 adult relationship or have been on dates and stuff. They are strug...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Single ones: What's it gonna take for that someone to come?

Posted: 27 Aug 2012, 8:15 am 

Replies: 35
Views: 13,278


Quote:
CrystalStars wrote:
zxy8 wrote:
I have no idea. If I knew, then they would already be in my life.

Very well-put.


Same here.

But i guess me being interested in looking at guys would really help the situation. However i dont know how much it would help.

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: People don't notice I'm stressed...

Posted: 26 Aug 2012, 1:17 pm 

Replies: 2
Views: 846


I am not sure what your question is. If it is does the same happen to others- then yes. I have the same issue. When i was working, i used to like to interact with people on an one on one basis but the moment they got together in a larger group like office parties, i just could not focus and got over...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Getting my picture taken...

Posted: 17 Aug 2012, 1:31 pm 

Replies: 8
Views: 853


JohnK said: I was actually dreading the picture more than the 50 question driving test which I aced, by the way. Ditto that. :-) The only pics of mine that come good are the ones where i dont know they are being taken and the person is someone i am really comfortable with. Others with whom my pics d...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: How do you deal with people saying you need to get out more?

Posted: 17 Aug 2012, 1:21 pm 

Replies: 11
Views: 2,049


Why is it so hard for them to understand that I'd rather be by myself than talk about something boring with someone who won't let me do the same? How do you handle people saying these things? I would tell them this exactly with examples. I did that with mine. My brother gets it as he knows what i l...
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