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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do you get a girl to hang out with you? |
| baaaark |
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Posted: 29 Jan 2012, 11:42 am
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Replies: 26
Views: 9,801
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I asked if a girl I talked to wanted to go bowling with my friends. She said maybe, but never came so I never talked to her again?
Should I have asked her out twice? I feel like I'm being clingy if I talk too much. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do you find it hard to use the social skills you learn? |
| baaaark |
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Posted: 29 Jan 2012, 11:35 am
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Replies: 9
Views: 1,245
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Someone said smiling helps, but even though I know that I should, I still usually forget to. There are other things like that, too.
Does anyone else notice they do this? |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What part of ASD do you think is most caustic? |
| baaaark |
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Posted: 27 Jan 2012, 11:51 pm
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,499
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| Not being able to read people. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do you ever really get into the way things feel? |
| baaaark |
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Posted: 27 Jan 2012, 5:45 am
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Replies: 13
Views: 1,299
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| While learning more about this, one thing I read was Aspies have concerns with the feel of certain textures. So this made me wanna ask what, if any, of the issues everyone else has with certain feels. I listed some of mine to start. We got new work shirts and I was the only person out of about 30 to... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Are autistic people more likely to get violent? |
| baaaark |
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Posted: 26 Jan 2012, 6:36 am
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Replies: 20
Views: 4,571
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| I have to admit ive hurt myself by gouging my nails into my face until my forehead and cheeks bled. Ive slammed my head on many different things and pulled out my hair. I've never tried to hurt anyone, though. I'm embarrassed to write this, but it is true. :-( I cannot speak on behalf of anyone else. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Putting things behind you |
| baaaark |
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Posted: 26 Jan 2012, 6:21 am
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Replies: 35
Views: 3,259
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| I can't tell what people mean by what they say, so my insecurities push me into assuming the worst. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Socializing is so frustrating! |
| baaaark |
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Posted: 26 Jan 2012, 6:09 am
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Replies: 5
Views: 961
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I don't know how to help, but you're not alone. I feel like similar things happen to me so many times.
It sucks. Sorry.
Edit: Maybe this sort of thing happens to NTs as well? I don't know, that doesn't seem too illogical to believe... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What causes your meltdownn? |
| baaaark |
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Posted: 25 Jan 2012, 12:27 pm
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Replies: 26
Views: 2,880
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| Can you elaborate on what you mean by, "meltdown?" You don't have to be super-detailed, but is it fury or panic or what that you're feeling? |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do loud noises seem super intense to you? |
| baaaark |
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Posted: 25 Jan 2012, 12:01 pm
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Replies: 20
Views: 5,333
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| I just had two sirens go kind of close by my house, and now I'm freaked out and can't fall back asleep. It's been 20 minutes and my heart just now stopped thumping. This got me thinking about all the other sounds that are too intense for me, and how it seems like others handle it fine: vacuum cleane... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do you get a girl to hang out with you? |
| baaaark |
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Posted: 25 Jan 2012, 4:40 am
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Replies: 26
Views: 9,801
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| So I will try to go out and meet girls. I decided that the best thing to do was be my weird self, so if she likes me its actually me and not a facade. So sometimes I get lucky and they find me funny and we become friends on Facebook or something (I feel like a creep asking for a number). But when I... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do you get a girl to hang out with you? |
| baaaark |
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Posted: 24 Jan 2012, 8:55 pm
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Replies: 26
Views: 9,801
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| So I will try to go out and meet girls. I decided that the best thing to do was be my weird self, so if she likes me its actually me and not a facade. So sometimes I get lucky and they find me funny and we become friends on Facebook or something (I feel like a creep asking for a number). But when I ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How do you walk? |
| baaaark |
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Posted: 24 Jan 2012, 8:38 pm
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Replies: 70
Views: 13,879
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| I walk on my toes a lot. I don't know why. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Awkwardness of saying 'hi' and other things |
| baaaark |
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Posted: 24 Jan 2012, 8:35 pm
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,490
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| I always try and remember to say, "Hello," but its like I don't say it right. Like I'm putting a ton of emphasis on it but without wanting to. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: do new shoes bother you ? |
| baaaark |
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Posted: 24 Jan 2012, 8:18 pm
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Replies: 45
Views: 4,051
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I can never find the right pair. There is someth.ing wrong with all of them.
But I love new socks. I could wear a new pair of socks every day and be happy |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: First Post: Can anyone relate to this? |
| baaaark |
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Posted: 24 Jan 2012, 6:52 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 1,226
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mar00 wrote: baaaark wrote: Sorry to double-post, but someone mentioned a quiz. Where is that? I suggest using WP search on top right corner with 'aspie/asperger's quiz/test'
Thanks. There is a sticky too for "tests" but I was looking for a "quiz" and didn't see it, lol.
Did I mention I take things very literally? |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: First Post: Can anyone relate to this? |
| baaaark |
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Posted: 24 Jan 2012, 6:39 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 1,226
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| Sorry to double-post, but someone mentioned a quiz. Where is that? |
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