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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I can't take being alone anymore. |
| MissingSei |
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Posted: 18 Mar 2012, 6:38 pm
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Replies: 19
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RW665 wrote: Well, thanks for all the advice. I'm just going to move on.
Best of luck to you.
It gets tiring being alone.  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: "I want a girlfriend" posts |
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Posted: 18 Mar 2012, 1:17 am
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Replies: 17
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| This topic wasn't about Nick. He does talk about being lonely a lot, but he also posts enough for people to get some indication of his personality, and he does state what he would offer in a relationship. This is about people who only have a few posts and thus have given no way for people to gauge ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I "met" an aspie guy.....I need help understanding |
| MissingSei |
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Posted: 18 Mar 2012, 1:10 am
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Replies: 38
Views: 4,120
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| You'd have to trust your gut on this one probably. But the phrase "I want to ask you something." or something similar seems quite peculiar. I never fully understand why a girl would wait to tell me something and it sometimes will send me into a panic and/or feeling of "what could it be?". In your c... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: "I want a girlfriend" posts |
| MissingSei |
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Posted: 18 Mar 2012, 12:19 am
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Replies: 17
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| This topic wasn't about Nick. He does talk about being lonely a lot, but he also posts enough for people to get some indication of his personality, and he does state what he would offer in a relationship. This is about people who only have a few posts and thus have given no way for people to gauge ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I "met" an aspie guy.....I need help understanding |
| MissingSei |
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Posted: 18 Mar 2012, 12:17 am
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Replies: 38
Views: 4,120
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| ****UPDATE**** Well, unfortunate news. Prepare for wall of texts... Things went very unexpected today. I had sent him a message asking if we could talk later because I had a few things I wanted to ask him. He didn't reply for hours and this sickness I've been feeling intensified greatly. So I told h... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: "I want a girlfriend" posts |
| MissingSei |
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Posted: 17 Mar 2012, 9:54 pm
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Replies: 17
Views: 2,537
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| This topic wasn't about Nick. He does talk about being lonely a lot, but he also posts enough for people to get some indication of his personality, and he does state what he would offer in a relationship. This is about people who only have a few posts and thus have given no way for people to gauge ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I "met" an aspie guy.....I need help understanding |
| MissingSei |
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Posted: 17 Mar 2012, 8:10 pm
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Replies: 38
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| Yeah, :(. What's it mean then? It means that someone is treating you in an unfair, troubling, hurtful and/or annoying way by changing their mind a lot, being unreliable or not doing what they said they would. Ah, he kind of does that. Doesn't respond to texts well, doesn't really initiate them, etc... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I "met" an aspie guy.....I need help understanding |
| MissingSei |
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Posted: 17 Mar 2012, 6:45 pm
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Replies: 38
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| Most likely yes, but like you and the other posters have said, you gotta go against your senses and explicitly state what you desire. This is the main thing. You have got to be very clear - and expect clarity in return. If he's not being clear, it's not going to work. Don't let him mess you about. ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I "met" an aspie guy.....I need help understanding |
| MissingSei |
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Posted: 17 Mar 2012, 6:45 pm
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Replies: 38
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| Most likely yes, but like you and the other posters have said, you gotta go against your senses and explicitly state what you desire. This is the main thing. You have got to be very clear - and expect clarity in return. If he's not being clear, it's not going to work. Don't let him mess you about. ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I "met" an aspie guy.....I need help understanding |
| MissingSei |
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Posted: 17 Mar 2012, 6:23 pm
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Replies: 38
Views: 4,120
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| Most likely yes, but like you and the other posters have said, you gotta go against your senses and explicitly state what you desire. This is the main thing. You have got to be very clear - and expect clarity in return. If he's not being clear, it's not going to work. Don't let him mess you about. ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How many of you are on OKcupid? |
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Posted: 17 Mar 2012, 6:15 pm
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Replies: 603
Views: 66,341
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| I've been on there a few months. Its a waste of time like all online dating. Its just an extravagant way of being ignored by lesser minded people who happen to have bouncy things on their chests and think that you are unworthy of them. I am Bealdor on there. I have given up though as a quick read o... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I "met" an aspie guy.....I need help understanding |
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Posted: 17 Mar 2012, 5:31 pm
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Replies: 38
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| Random question: If this goes down the relationship path is it possible I'll see good results in him giving me the things I desire? I'm very giving, which is why I'm trying to understand him more so that I can alter my behavior the best way for this whole thing. Most likely yes, but like you and th... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I "met" an aspie guy.....I need help understanding |
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Posted: 17 Mar 2012, 5:15 pm
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Replies: 38
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| Sounds like you really care for this guy. :) He's lucky! I think a thoughtful mate such as yourself would be great for him. So just take it slowly, spell things out where needed... and the best thing of all: You can invent the relationship unique to the two of you. There are no "rules", only meetin... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I "met" an aspie guy.....I need help understanding |
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Posted: 17 Mar 2012, 2:56 pm
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Replies: 38
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| Sounds like you really care for this guy. :) He's lucky! I think a thoughtful mate such as yourself would be great for him. So just take it slowly, spell things out where needed... and the best thing of all: You can invent the relationship unique to the two of you. There are no "rules", only meetin... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I "met" an aspie guy.....I need help understanding |
| MissingSei |
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Posted: 17 Mar 2012, 2:46 pm
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Replies: 38
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| Are you sure you're not an aspie too? This post is about as long as an aspie post! TLDR No. This is called a 'female NT'. :lol: But I'm sure if I had to write that it would have probably ended up 4 pages longer and it would have been misinterpreted... :oops: And I completely agree with Tsproggy. "I... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I "met" an aspie guy.....I need help understanding |
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Posted: 17 Mar 2012, 2:43 pm
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Replies: 38
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| Hang on, I've just had a thought. Can you talk to him like he's a computer or a machine? This sounds very impersonal, but it might work. What do you require? And then give multiple-choice questions. Does this make sense? Hmm, I could but this again goes against my personality. It will make me less ... |
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