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Forum: The Haven Topic: Need help! I lost a friend and I don't know what happened! |
| MDWebster |
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Posted: 11 Jun 2012, 6:11 pm
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| I don't think you did anything wrong - you were honest and respectful. As a girl who also has the tendency to hibernate and shut off in the event of nonreciprocal attraction, I think your friend could have handled the situation with more care. The fact that she didn't is why you should forget about... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Need help! I lost a friend and I don't know what happened! |
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Posted: 05 Jun 2012, 3:59 pm
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| Okay im just going to give my thoughts on the original post :) First of all you need to prepare yourself, for the possibility that you will have to move on, Im NOT saying its the only option but making it an option would make things easier for you, if she have decided to end everything for good. I ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Need help! I lost a friend and I don't know what happened! |
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Posted: 04 Jun 2012, 8:41 pm
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| You did come on too strong, but you explained your autism and so she had more than enough information to make an informed choice. It was through a text message that I sent to her saying that I couldn't take my Driver's test because of my Asperger's and have to go through a bunch of paper work or so... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Need help! I lost a friend and I don't know what happened! |
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Posted: 03 Jun 2012, 11:21 pm
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| The thing about relationships is that they sometimes do NOT work. Attraction is a 2-way bond that is not that easy to come by. Maybe she really does not see you that way. Maybe she tried, or found someone else etc. I must say though... you tried too much. But I don't want a relationship with her af... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Need help! I lost a friend and I don't know what happened! |
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Posted: 03 Jun 2012, 9:35 pm
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| Among our many "failures", us spectrumites, is our ability to leave well enough alone. We have to probe and dig and analyze and dissect our special interests. Whatever is our focus we simply have to see it through to some kind of conclusion. If we're focused on writing a book or a song or a thesis ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Need help! I lost a friend and I don't know what happened! |
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Posted: 03 Jun 2012, 4:19 am
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| I'm not attracted to her anymore, I've moved on. I just miss her friendship. I didn't mean to come off as too strong. I told her I have never been in a relationship before and I didn't know what to do, and my autism makes things complicated. But why'd she have to cut me off like this and put me in a... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Need help! I lost a friend and I don't know what happened! |
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Posted: 03 Jun 2012, 3:08 am
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| Couldn't this post have been abbreviated SOME KIND OF WAY??! ! :lol: my bad. If you read the entire thing, you sir (Or madam) deserve a cookie. Alright. Basically I had an autistic meltdown when I got rejected, thought she was mad at me, talked to her friends on what to do, made things worse uninte... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Need help! I lost a friend and I don't know what happened! |
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Posted: 03 Jun 2012, 2:30 am
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| *Scroll down to my second reply for the short version. This long version is here just so everybody knows the exact details.* My first semester of college started back in September and I made a great friend named Erica. She was geeky, a little quirky like me, and I started to become attracted to her... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Hello! I think this is the right planet, right? |
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Posted: 02 Jun 2012, 9:29 pm
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Replies: 5
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| Thanks for the welcomes ^_^ I think I'll fit in here just nicely. By the way, how do I change my user title above my avatar? When I click "Edit Custom Rank" it just takes me to my avatar to change it. |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Hello! I think this is the right planet, right? |
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Posted: 31 May 2012, 10:38 pm
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| Hello, my name's Matt. Not too terribly good at doing this but I suppose I should start off saying something about myself? Well, I'm nearly 19 year old college student and I'm in the process of being diagnosed with an autism spectrum disorder. I have an obsession with dinosaurs ever since I came out... |
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