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Forum: The Haven Topic: friendship and their partners |
| catster32 |
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Posted: 05 Dec 2016, 8:15 am
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Views: 372
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| To answer the question why did I want to get to know him (thats all I ever wanted not to be close friends or anything) because as I said he comes to scouting events and things and it is a fairly close knit group in that sense sure if I never saw him different story. Also as I said there were 9 other... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: friendship and their partners |
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Posted: 04 Dec 2016, 1:03 am
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Replies: 4
Views: 372
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| I only added him as there were 9 others single (women) and married although yes mostly married on his fb all of whom I knew thru scouting as I said he isn't even really the type of person I would want to get to know in ordinary circumstances but given that scouting is a group kind of thing and he co... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I hate aspergers. |
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Posted: 02 Dec 2016, 8:03 am
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Replies: 66
Views: 35,956
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| I get where you are coming from for sure I am 36 and female aspie and I experience good and bad in ASD. Yes it does have some excellent good points but it also has many bad points I live alone,I don't have kids which was only partially a choice given im ASD and asexual and I find it hard to make fri... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: How can I get over a shameful past and forgive myself? |
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Posted: 02 Dec 2016, 7:55 am
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Replies: 43
Views: 2,868
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| We all make mistakes and yeah autism has a LOT to do with it we can have issues with understanding consequences of our actions even though we might know right from wrong. The best thing to do is realise you did make some mistakes and to try and improve on your life now but of course being aspie myse... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: friendship and their partners |
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Posted: 02 Dec 2016, 7:49 am
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Replies: 4
Views: 372
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| I have a friend and fellow scout leader who is also a friend in real life and a facebook friend too. I don't know her husband as well but I am making an effort to get to know him although I get the feeling he doesn't "get"me like his wife and my friend does. Anyway he has several mutual fr... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Very interesting |
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Posted: 26 Aug 2012, 8:39 pm
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Replies: 1
Views: 571
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Im sad ive lost my friend and at the same time relieved |
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Posted: 27 Jul 2012, 7:41 pm
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Replies: 5
Views: 947
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| It was so out of control I 100% agree on that and yes her moving out had its positives Tigger my cat is now 100% cared for to the best of my abilities I make sure he always has water etc. I was pressured into their activities and to me that was wrong yes I could have handled some things differently ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Im sad ive lost my friend and at the same time relieved |
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Posted: 26 Jul 2012, 6:14 am
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Replies: 5
Views: 947
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| Well she ditched him and I saw her recently but she didn't really seem in the mood to reconcile I was sad about that. She simplifys it by saying that my feelings for her would have caused the friendship problems eventually I don't 100% agree I think that had she kept her private life that then none ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: James Holmes may have Aspergers? |
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Posted: 26 Jul 2012, 1:52 am
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Replies: 334
Views: 88,401
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| Just because someone was called Joker as their username doesn't mean it was him. MY points about him and AS remain the same but there isn't any evidence he was ever on WP |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I attempted suicide |
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Posted: 26 Jul 2012, 1:06 am
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Replies: 31
Views: 4,726
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| Hugs hope you are ok I have thought about suicide many times but never tried to do it I can understand the isolation you are feeling sometimes AS can suck ey!! Just remember we rock in our own way. If you have a cat or other animal go give them a pat my boy Tigger hes a beautiful cat makes me very v... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Im sad ive lost my friend and at the same time relieved |
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Posted: 26 Jul 2012, 1:01 am
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Replies: 5
Views: 947
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| Prior to Chloe having a boyfriend things went really well we were getting along really well spending time together, having a lot of staying at each others houses, helping each other comforting each other etc. He and to a lesser extent she (after she has movd into my place) kept pressuring me into jo... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Am I a psychopath? |
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Posted: 26 Jul 2012, 12:56 am
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Replies: 25
Views: 3,865
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| Hope things are working out for you I know how hard it can be in that situation and no imagining things is one thing actually doing it another. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do you still have a toy you sleep with? |
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Posted: 26 Jul 2012, 12:45 am
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Replies: 80
Views: 23,973
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| I have a teddy cat! her name is Euphie I sleep with her every night and my real puss Tigger often joins me. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: James Holmes may have Aspergers? |
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Posted: 26 Jul 2012, 12:44 am
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Replies: 334
Views: 88,401
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| ill say this much (and yes i have been diagnosed with AS) when i was 17 after experiencing years upon years of peer induced hell in school from 1st grade on i finally snapped when i was 17 and nearly made a big mistake akin to columbine. thankfully things worked out the best they could and looking ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: James Holmes may have Aspergers? |
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Posted: 26 Jul 2012, 12:15 am
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Replies: 334
Views: 88,401
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| Its absolutely ridiculous people are getting so over the top about this I had a fellow aspie delete me off FB just for expressing an opinion he called me a "disgrace to aspies". No one including me would ever say this is right or he did the right thing regardless of his issues whatever they may be. ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: James Holmes may have Aspergers? |
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Posted: 25 Jul 2012, 9:31 pm
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Replies: 334
Views: 88,401
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| With Martin Bryant his mum recently did a 60 minutes episode where she confirmed he has AS of course people still say oh no he doesn't etc etc. I 100% agree with those who say AS doesn't equal killer but isolation bullying, lack of understanding etc can lead AS people who may also have other issues ... |
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