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 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Mouthing or whispering

 Post subject: Mouthing or whispering
Posted: 25 Jun 2013, 7:59 pm 

Replies: 9
Views: 1,915

I've been told that sometimes I mouth words or whisper quietly under my breath and I've realized that this happens when I'm lost in thought. The almost constant stream of imagined conversations or compositions that pass through my consciousness get subvocalized and sometimes this becomes almost audi...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Did you experience strict parenting?

Posted: 25 Jun 2013, 7:23 pm 

Replies: 33
Views: 3,143

I didn't only have my parents around, I also had three surviving grandparents living in the same street and an adult sister, and all of whom saw it as their calling to discipline me. I also had problems with disliking certain types of food and having a poor appetite, and it felt like every mealtime ...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Does part of you feel like a fake?

Posted: 01 May 2013, 5:27 am 

Replies: 12
Views: 1,722

I'm high functioning AS, but was in deep denial for a very long time, as my family are (still). It was only when two different, and knowledgeable, people I trust pointed certain things out in the kindest possible way after I'd had some workplace trouble that I sought to find out more about this cond...

 Forum: Work and finding a Job   Topic: Misinterpreting interview questions

Posted: 29 Apr 2013, 8:27 am 

Replies: 13
Views: 2,419

What I hate is when they ask a question but don't give enough time for me to finish the whole answer I was going to give. Perhaps this ties in with the question of not knowing how much of an elaborate answer is expected? What happened a couple of times that I can remember was the interviewer asking ...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: UK: Reasonable Adjustments autistics R entitled 2 BY LAW

Posted: 24 Apr 2013, 6:55 am 

Replies: 12
Views: 930

One of the people I work for wrote in an evaluation form "Miss Moneypenny is not the most social of people..." The main area of adjustment I would wish to see is not to be evaluated on how "social" I am perceived to be. While I find this remark discriminatory, it is a grey area because only HR and a...

 Forum: Work and finding a Job   Topic: Is the workplace going to become MORE challenging for AS?

Posted: 24 Apr 2013, 6:39 am 

Replies: 26
Views: 9,492

In a word - yes. I have our firm's support staff appraisal form right here and the categories against which staff are evaluated are: - Client service - Job knowledge - Technical skills - Organisational skills and initiative - Quality of work - Adaptability and flexibility - Communication skills - Te...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: what kind of problems did you have in the workplace?

Posted: 23 Apr 2013, 6:36 am 

Replies: 33
Views: 3,349

Interruptions, and never being left alone to focus on the current task. When people will insist on trying to explain the next task when I'm currently in the middle of something, I find it hard to switch gears in my head fast enough to absorb those instructions. I either have to write down what they'...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: If only they knew more about Aspergers back in the 70's...

Posted: 22 Apr 2013, 10:53 am 

Replies: 15
Views: 2,241

It would have made certain things so much easier. I was born in the late sixties. They knew that "something" was different about me at school, and twice I was pulled out for testing. The educational psychology service only seemed able or willing to test for learning difficulties, and when it was pro...

 Forum: Work and finding a Job   Topic: I don't really want to work

Posted: 19 Mar 2013, 8:53 am 

Replies: 34
Views: 6,373

I hated school - it was boring and I was bullied terribly and I left as soon as possible. I couldn't stand having to get up at an unnatural hour to be somewhere I didn't want to be, doing things I didn't want to do and with people I didn't want to be with. Work is just the same. Yes, you can argue t...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: How can a autistic person go undiagnosed till adulthood?

Posted: 13 Mar 2013, 6:39 am 

Replies: 57
Views: 18,264

Yeah, I feel the same about myself, too. How could my parents not have suspected some disorder in my brain? Not that my parents are neglectful or anything. I couldn't ask for better parents actually. I guess it could be that they didn't want to admit something was wrong with me or they weren't even...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Pushed around by total strangers?

Posted: 12 Mar 2013, 2:13 pm 

Replies: 6
Views: 733

I had a really weird experience on the way home from work involving some people I've never seen in my life before. I needed to use the cash machine. A man was already using it, and I went and stood at the edge of the privacy box behind him to wait my turn. Three women had been hovering around talkin...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: UK - NHS ASC Failures: Please tell me your stories

Posted: 12 Mar 2013, 7:15 am 

Replies: 37
Views: 2,754

I had no problems with the GP, he was lovely and very understanding. I had taken along a lot of test data to show him - the Aspie quiz, another online test I had done, various personality tests and my WAIS-IV that a career advice psychologist had done etc. The GP agreed to refer me straight away and...

 Forum: Work and finding a Job   Topic: Skills downplayed, "interpersonal" side overblown

Posted: 12 Mar 2013, 5:05 am 

Replies: 21
Views: 2,653

Thanks, Yellowbanana. I just hope that the OH people realise that it's not counselling I need (I'm quite comfortable in my own skin thank you), I just need a quiet place to sit and work where I'm not distracted/interrupted constantly, and to be appreciated for my skills and knowledge instead of havi...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: AS or physical damage from meningitis?

Posted: 11 Mar 2013, 9:49 am 

Replies: 7
Views: 2,799

I told my elderly mother about my recent AS diagnosis and she is still in denial, even though she acknowledges that my behaviour and symptoms fit the profile of AS. She wanted to know if the psych had read my medical notes before diagnosing me, and whether I had mentioned this in the interview. I sa...

 Forum: Work and finding a Job   Topic: Skills downplayed, "interpersonal" side overblown

Posted: 11 Mar 2013, 9:02 am 

Replies: 21
Views: 2,653

Unfortunately, other jobs all want the same "Personality Factor X". Unless I can find a way into some other type of work completely where being Mrs. Data isn't a big deal, I'll just end up getting more of the same at another organization. And where I won't have the modicum of protection I have here ...
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