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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: Display your Artwork |
| Hermes9 |
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Posted: 08 Feb 2013, 11:57 am
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MakaylaTheAspie wrote: Ta da. 
respect! |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: Drawing vs Fine Motor Issues? |
| Hermes9 |
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Posted: 08 Feb 2013, 11:54 am
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,637
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| Curious... Does anyone else seem to face a big challenge learning to draw well due to what could be described as "fine motor issues", commonly associated with AS? I've always wanted to get good at drawing, but never quite had the fine-grained motor coordination to get there. Concentric shapes, strai... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Avoidant Personality Disorder |
| Hermes9 |
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Posted: 08 Feb 2013, 11:40 am
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Replies: 10
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| It's not really unusual for people with AS to develop symptoms/behavior patterns of AVPD. The key isn't drugs. The key is unlearning these patterns consciously. We tend to have negative social experiences, because we're awkward, socially inexperienced and our social brains work quite differently. Th... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to properly text with NTs |
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Posted: 08 Feb 2013, 11:31 am
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Replies: 24
Views: 2,149
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| Conversation, that's worth anything, should be a mutual interchange. If ideas and feelings aren't exchanged, mutually, whats the point? Not all "NTs" are any good at it. In fact, most aren't. Being NT doesn't mean you are good at conversation. In general, being "NT" doesn't automatically endear you ... |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: Macro Photography |
| Hermes9 |
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Posted: 01 Feb 2013, 2:36 pm
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Replies: 46
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| Wow, great shots! Thanks for sharing :) I really dig macro photography. Destroyed bike part http://i.imgur.com/L49xz.jpg [img][800:883]http://i.imgur.com/L49xz.jpg[/img] Another destroyed bike part http://i.imgur.com/Jovp4WU.jpg [img][800:516]http://i.imgur.com/Jovp4WU.jpg[/img] Part of a crystal ht... |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: How an electrical engineer does his christmas lights. |
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Posted: 01 Feb 2013, 2:16 pm
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Replies: 4
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My OK Cupid Profile- lots of women look, but do not messege |
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Posted: 10 Jan 2013, 10:39 am
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Replies: 32
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| but if you look at their profile (no matter if they've looked at yours or not) and YOU'RE interested then send them a message! If they're not interested, they're either going to send you a response telling you they're not interested or they won't send you anything at all. There you go, applying log... |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: what are you listening to THIS VERY SECOND? |
| Hermes9 |
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Posted: 10 Jan 2013, 1:49 am
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Replies: 63,865
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: beta blockers, i.e. propanolol for anxiety in dating |
| Hermes9 |
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Posted: 09 Jan 2013, 2:27 pm
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Replies: 26
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Great info, knives  TCM can be wonderful! Thanks for sharing. |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: "Salary range" stops me. |
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Posted: 09 Jan 2013, 12:33 pm
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Replies: 21
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| Leave the field blank or put "negotiable" or "fair market". If you work in a field that often involves intellectual property agreements ("NDAs") as in tech/engineering, just say your compensation agreement is covered by your current/former employer's NDA and you can't share that information. That's ... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Aspies of TX, AR, LA, and OK unite! |
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Posted: 09 Jan 2013, 12:21 pm
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Replies: 15
Views: 2,421
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Austin.. we keep it weird  |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Nobody Wants Me |
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Posted: 09 Jan 2013, 12:20 pm
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Replies: 13
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| Today I emailed all the professors back who have been ignoring me and I asked them to please at least tell me if they aren't interested, and most of them responded today positively. I've been waiting for nearly 2 months for one of these guys to respond. Maybe they are all autistic too and don't rea... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Have you ever had to pull the 'neurodiversity card'? |
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Posted: 09 Jan 2013, 12:15 pm
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Replies: 7
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| I don't have to pull the card, people know I'm "different" without me having to tell them... Just how it works out, and I'm OK with it. |
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Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports Topic: Very sensitive skin? |
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Posted: 09 Jan 2013, 12:14 pm
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Replies: 16
Views: 6,290
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| Have you changed your diet? If you have... It wasn't for the better. Staying Hydrated? Make sure you're getting plenty of water. Be very careful with commercially available skin products. Most do more damage than good, since they're loaded with artificial chemicals. Stick with the simple stuff. It o... |
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Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports Topic: Mental health benefits of exercise |
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Posted: 09 Jan 2013, 12:10 pm
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Replies: 8
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Increased energy level: Ups your metabolism
Heightened self-confidence: Because you feel better and look better
Reduced stress: Exercise naturally helps you unwind / blow off steam
Remember to mix cardio and strength training for best results |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Everyone else has done it: Rate me! |
| Hermes9 |
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Posted: 09 Jan 2013, 11:32 am
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Replies: 74
Views: 8,599
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| Appearance is totally not an issue for you... |
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