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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Find Me a Wife |
| CharmCityCrab |
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Posted: 18 Dec 2006, 7:27 pm
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| Hey man, stop trying to steal my thread. ;) Besides, don't you think your two criteria are a bit unrealistic and kind of besides the point (If you can't get along with something, who care how hot or rich she is?)? I'll take average looking, middle class, honest, loyal, and compassionate over hot, ri... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Find Me a Wife |
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Posted: 18 Dec 2006, 3:12 pm
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Replies: 13
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| Also would be willing to consider shorter-term relationships. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Find Me a Wife |
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Posted: 28 Nov 2006, 12:46 pm
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Replies: 13
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*CharmCityCrab subtlely bumps his thread back to the top of the forum*  |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: Ritualized Liberal Religion |
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Posted: 28 Nov 2006, 11:17 am
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Replies: 5
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| You might like Buddhism? It sounds a bit like what you're describing. As I mentioned, there are certain aspects of the theological aims of eastern religions which I disagree with. I admire and respect Buddhism and occasionally will find some form of meditation or looking at the wise sayings of the ... |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: Ritualized Liberal Religion |
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Posted: 28 Nov 2006, 11:12 am
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| You don't need to read some dusty, pointless book of metaphors to get joy from your sense of wonder. I kind of do. :) Well, more percisely, there is a certain element of religious experience, especially for westerners, that is tied into the concept of having some sort of scripture -- that's not to ... |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: Ritualized Liberal Religion |
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Posted: 27 Nov 2006, 11:40 am
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| I've always enjoyed very ritualized traditional liturgy (Order and nature of service). I love doing the same thing each week, with church seasons, a liturgical calendar, priests, bishops, robes, incense, and very ritualized gestures and responses, with old songs and so on and so forth. I even like t... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: NTs and Pressure |
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Posted: 26 Nov 2006, 11:26 pm
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Replies: 25
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| I'm just wondering at the accuracy of the test on your long-term memory. Proper spelling, grammar, sentence structure, and so on are something most people learn as children, and this resides within the long-term memory... as does most vocabulary, for the same reason. If you can remember these thing... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Find Me a Wife |
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Posted: 26 Nov 2006, 1:36 am
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| Thanks for writing. You begin by saying: In my opinion, (and I believe I am NT, married to a man with AS) your best bet for mutual happiness is to date a woman who is AS. I've never had a chance to date someone with AS, so I don't really have enough data to make a determination on whether I could be... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: NTs and Pressure |
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Posted: 25 Nov 2006, 10:31 am
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Replies: 25
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| How bad are your memory problems? You seem intelligent and articulate... would I be correct in assuming that the memory problems you mentioned involve the formation of new memories, rather than the recall of old memories (like when you learned language skills)? What severity are we talking about, h... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Find Me a Wife |
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Posted: 24 Nov 2006, 11:33 pm
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Replies: 13
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| In my case, in theory, I'd have no objection whatsoever to dating someone whom I met in person initially rather than having met online, it's just never worked out that way in matter of fact. I don't socialize much, and when I do it tends to be on a one to one basis, which doesn't leave much room for... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Find Me a Wife |
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Posted: 24 Nov 2006, 11:16 pm
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| Hi have you ever tried any of the dating sites? I'm looking for men too and have been since July. I found a few online. If I can't meet men in real life, I have to do it through the internet. I'm better at it online than in real life. Actually, I've initially made contact with everyone I've been in... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: NTs and Pressure |
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Posted: 24 Nov 2006, 12:53 pm
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Replies: 25
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| You can recognize someone's intelligence, but at the same time think that they're doing something stupid. I suppose that's true, but oftentimes in the cases I'm alluding to, I have come to a conclusion about an objective subject over the course of years. I'll elaborate a bit below. My own curiosity... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Holidays and Aspergers |
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Posted: 24 Nov 2006, 11:37 am
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Replies: 26
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| I used to hate holidays, because the always involved extended family gatherings. Now, my extended family is *huge*, with lots of young children, and, as one can imagine, it's nightmarish to deal with someone as the point on the Asperger's spectrum that I'm on. What I realized as I got older, though,... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Freaky Councellors |
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Posted: 24 Nov 2006, 11:09 am
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Replies: 81
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| I had a counselor like that once years ago. I lasted until I think the second session. :) I remember I was there specifically to get help in terms of knowing how to best be a good boyfriend to my first girlfriend, who had experienced some trama a bit earlier in her life and seemed to have some issue... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The parents are being worrying |
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Posted: 24 Nov 2006, 10:48 am
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Replies: 13
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| If you're a legal adult, it doesn't really matter what your parents think. Just do what you want to do and ignore them as best you can. :) I'm not saying that you shouldn't respect their opinion, but ultimately you have to decide what's best for you, and if you have considered their imput and reject... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I seem to suffer from a complete and utter inability to... |
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Posted: 24 Nov 2006, 12:03 am
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Replies: 5
Views: 1,549
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| What are your reasons for wanting to date? Knowing that might help someone figure out a possible solution that might work for you. |
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