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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Interested in your thoughts please |
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Posted: 06 Jan 2016, 9:20 am
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| My first impression is that she is insecure with herself and has low self esteem. People with low self esteem have a hard time making friends and being in relationships because they are always questioning and putting themselves down. Example- This guy doesn't really like me. What's to like? I'm no g... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie/Neurotypical relationships |
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Posted: 06 Jan 2016, 8:49 am
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| In my opinion, the most important thing to have in any relationship is a common interest. A "common interest" will always be a grounding point. When a couple gets into an argument and you are asking yourself "what am I doing with this ***?", your mind will drift back to rememberi... |
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Forum: Off the Wall: Forum Games, Quizzes, Roleplaying, etc. Topic: A-Z of Acronyms |
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Posted: 15 Dec 2015, 9:04 am
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Replies: 56 Views: 931
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| Wx = Short for weather for Pilot weather reports |
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Forum: Off the Wall: Forum Games, Quizzes, Roleplaying, etc. Topic: A-Z of Acronyms |
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Posted: 08 Dec 2015, 10:27 pm
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Hi-fi (High Fidelity stereo) Oh ya these were the days!  |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: How to Get Family to Stop Normalizing Me? |
| NoGyroApproach |
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Posted: 29 Nov 2015, 5:48 pm
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| Hi I will be blunt but truthful. Reading this thread so far, I am guessing that BECAUSE you will be graduating in December (next month) and HAVE a big loan to payoff and DO NOT have a job lined up, your parents are trying to get you to put video games aside and make getting a job #1. They probably w... |
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Forum: WrongPlanet.net discussion Topic: Signature not appearing? |
| NoGyroApproach |
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Posted: 26 Apr 2015, 10:20 am
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| Two things to try: 1) Go to My Account > Edit Signature (or just click this link -- same page). and verify your signature is there. If it's not, make sure you click the "Submit" button when you create one. It's in an odd spot, at the bottom-left of the page, with preview and reset. When I... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How can you get a girlfriend if you have aspergers syndrome? |
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Posted: 26 Apr 2015, 9:47 am
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Replies: 184 Views: 39,545
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| Women are attracted to men with healthy self-esteem. Sadly, this automatically eliminates a lot of aspie males. If you truly are interested in attracting women, you have to show them that you respect yourself. You don't have to look like Brad Pitt, but it helps to invest in your own well-being. It'... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How can you get a girlfriend if you have aspergers syndrome? |
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Posted: 26 Apr 2015, 9:32 am
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| I just don't see any decent looking woman being interested in me due to me not having anything in common with anybody else and due to my dysfunctions in emotional expression in speach and body language. "decent looking woman"?? That is a sad start. I would suggest "don't judge the bo... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: aspergers boyfriend |
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Posted: 20 Apr 2015, 7:43 am
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Replies: 12 Views: 2,782
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| I think he needs to put his house in order before dating you or any other person for that matter. He needs to start doing it, not saying it if he truly wants a relationship as part of his life. He needs to start doing it because he chooses too. It will not work if he does it for you. His choices are... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Has anyone else lost interest in your SI when dating? |
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Posted: 19 Apr 2015, 6:19 pm
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Replies: 11 Views: 1,395
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| I haven't experienced losing interest in my SI or obsession when I have been in love. As for being anyone's SI, personally I wouldn't wish to be so; I'd be uncomfortable with that level of attention and focus on me, because I know just how much thoughts and focus goes into a SI or obsession. I was ... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Has anyone else lost interest in your SI when dating? |
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Posted: 19 Apr 2015, 6:12 pm
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| Dating IS my special interest! :lol: Well, one special interest out of a few. Music is the BIG one. I've dumped girls and been dumped because they couldn't handle the fact that writing music and performing comes first, or at least before them. What is somewhat difficult for others to understand is ... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Were you glad to get off disability and why? |
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Posted: 19 Apr 2015, 4:10 pm
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| Do you really get $730 a month? So 730 x 12 months is 8760. 8760/52 weeks is 168.46. 168.46/40 hour work week is 4.21 an hour. According to the math you would be better off financially with a 40 hour a week minimum wage job. Most minimum wage jobs are no brainer and no stress. With time, you would m... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: aspergers boyfriend |
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Posted: 19 Apr 2015, 9:55 am
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| First thing is you and your feelings. You need to take care of you first. (This is true for every person.) No matter if he has aspergers or not, if his behaviors and addictions do not work for you to the point that you are making decisions to stay with him based on pity, that will not work. With tim... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: The Hot Aspies Pictures and Chat Room |
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Posted: 18 Apr 2015, 10:37 am
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Sokoro wrote: Why is your left eye looking to different direction than your right one?
Google "strabismus"  |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: "yeah you can pull the AUTISTIC ones. you can have them." |
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Posted: 18 Apr 2015, 10:17 am
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I had to look "pulling" up in the urban dictionary. I love the different uses of American English vs British English. I think your boyfriend's friend is a w*ker  |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Understanding other autistic people |
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Posted: 18 Apr 2015, 9:30 am
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Replies: 20 Views: 1,435
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| I attend an adult asperger group twice a month. It is a group of mostly high functioning adults. Some are college students and most of the others are employed and living independently. There is a main core of about 6 of us that have been going to the meetings regularly for the past few years. We are... |
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