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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Need help to figure out if a girl likes me |
| Palindrome5 |
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Posted: 01 Oct 2012, 1:11 pm
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Replies: 25 Views: 2,704
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Quote: Doesn't do this to other guys.
Yep, she probably likes you. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Figuring out a girl I've met recently |
| Palindrome5 |
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Posted: 28 Sep 2012, 5:39 am
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Replies: 129 Views: 11,447
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| You're getting your *** friendzoned into oblivion. As I've said 8905438970209 times, you must make it clear you have a romantic interest in her. And even if she says no, she's so connected with you that she'll genuinely want to remain close friends anyway. The notion that you have nothing to lose co... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Figuring out a girl I've met recently |
| Palindrome5 |
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Posted: 27 Sep 2012, 2:36 pm
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Replies: 129 Views: 11,447
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| I'm confused as to how you can text her w/o her number. and I also fear I am on the verge of actually falling in love with her (...) NO NO NO NO NO That is not love, that is idolization. Your feelings are almost purely based on her (possible) attraction to you. If you took any random hottie out ther... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: where should i walk my dog? |
| Palindrome5 |
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Posted: 27 Sep 2012, 2:30 pm
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Replies: 46 Views: 3,686
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| If you have to use a dog to form relationships, you have bigger problems to worry about. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Figuring out a girl I've met recently |
| Palindrome5 |
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Posted: 27 Sep 2012, 12:25 pm
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Replies: 129 Views: 11,447
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| My problem, as paradox as it is, I actually fear more being rejected by her via text than in person (...) This is your mind playing tricks on you. Ask her out by any medium, in person, cell phone, skype, msn, e-mail, courrier, smoke signals, who cares. For the love of everything that is holy and sa... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How is this even possible |
| Palindrome5 |
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Posted: 27 Sep 2012, 8:05 am
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Replies: 14 Views: 2,159
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Quote: There's definitely a reason for Autistic people!
Yeah, scientific and technological advancement  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Figuring out a girl I've met recently |
| Palindrome5 |
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Posted: 27 Sep 2012, 7:08 am
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Replies: 129 Views: 11,447
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| Remind me why you couldn't get her number from e-mail? Hell, you could say something like, "I won't have access to my computer for the next few days, feel free to text me at xxx-xxx-xxxx if you want to stay in touch." I'd find it really weird if she didn't want to give her number to you no matter ho... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Figuring out a girl I've met recently |
| Palindrome5 |
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Posted: 27 Sep 2012, 6:13 am
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Replies: 129 Views: 11,447
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| I don't know what to tell you about conquering the fear of rejection. What helped me a lot is "cold approaching", ie being able to walk up to a random girl in the street, throw her a compliment and get into a conversation with her until you (hopefully) have her number and can set up a date in the ne... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: 20 and still no boyfriend. What is the problem? |
| Palindrome5 |
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Posted: 27 Sep 2012, 5:47 am
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Replies: 147 Views: 18,509
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Lol 8 pages and you still haven't figured it out? What are you doing, throwing darts at the guys who show you interest?
But seriously, you are probably completely overthinking this. That's what aspies are best at  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I can't believe im almost 23 |
| Palindrome5 |
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Posted: 27 Sep 2012, 5:44 am
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Replies: 38 Views: 3,932
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| LOL @ paying hundreds of dollars for a hooker or an escort. In this economy, that just ain't gonna happen. Only rich people have that luxury. LOL @ a 1-time escort being something only a rich person can afford. If you can afford a computer, a TV, an ipod, and whatever other basic luxuries you have ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What the girl did, kind of set an imbalance. Flirting? |
| Palindrome5 |
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Posted: 27 Sep 2012, 1:11 am
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Replies: 13 Views: 1,751
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| She sounds like the perfect F-buddy. You should aim for a casual relationship with her unless you're steadfastly desiring a monogamous relationship. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I can't believe im almost 23 |
| Palindrome5 |
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Posted: 27 Sep 2012, 1:06 am
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Replies: 38 Views: 3,932
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| Ugh at these topics that are just people circle jerking about their self-pity. I mean, if you're a 30 year old virgin and are not suppressed by puritanical beliefs, then all you need to do is pay for an escort. Wear a condom and you won't get a disease. Save up a few hundred dollars and you can easi... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: AS Dating |
| Palindrome5 |
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Posted: 27 Sep 2012, 12:51 am
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Replies: 32 Views: 4,126
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| So if you plan to try it, be prepared to dig in, send a lot of messages, and accept that a 1:100 reply rate is a good rate. No it's not! I a get 1:5 reply rate, and I suck hairy gonads at online dating. 1:100 means you're doing something horrifically wrong like not having a picture or having an inc... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Figuring out a girl I've met recently |
| Palindrome5 |
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Posted: 27 Sep 2012, 12:44 am
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Replies: 129 Views: 11,447
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| How come you haven't called her yet? This is what you need to do. And make sure you're clear about your intentions. You still haven't risked anything, in fact you're being so passive you actually apologized for messaging her (do you have any idea how unattractive that is???). FOR CHRISSAKE, GO FOR I... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do you feel the need to quit trying? |
| Palindrome5 |
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Posted: 26 Sep 2012, 3:21 am
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Replies: 26 Views: 2,647
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| Perhaps instead of trying "harder", aspies here need to try more "intelligently". Hard work does not necessarily lead to productivity (in this case finding dates or wtv). One could spend all day hand-writing a bunch of accounting data that could instead be automated by excel in a matter of minutes. ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: AS Dating |
| Palindrome5 |
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Posted: 26 Sep 2012, 3:16 am
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Replies: 32 Views: 4,126
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| Why would aspies want to date fellow aspies? There is the off-chance that 2 aspies meet and completely understand each other because they think the same way. OTOH, having all those intolerant, rigid, obsessive traits and quirks from both parties surely results nightmare relationships. |
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