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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I Need A Neuro-Diverse Perspective! |
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Posted: 29 Mar 2025, 6:04 am
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| Yes, this fits with his behaviour and everything. I think that is good advice. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I Need A Neuro-Diverse Perspective! |
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Posted: 28 Mar 2025, 10:18 am
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| Beyond his family, I'm not sure there is someone. But what you said sounds like a thing that might change his view, about 'my actions not needing to be reliant on his opinion,' so that's very helpful. I think he would be resistant to counselling/therapy. I think your thought about reassurance might ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I Need A Neuro-Diverse Perspective! |
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Posted: 27 Mar 2025, 5:03 pm
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| Thanks so much for your reply, Cyberdora. Flexibility: he seems relatively inflexible in terms of what work I don't take on. He would feel that I ought to take every bit of teaching going. But he is flexible when it comes to where I work. (I am a self-employed instrumental teacher.) Empathy: I would... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I Need A Neuro-Diverse Perspective! |
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Posted: 27 Mar 2025, 7:20 am
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| Thanks so much for your reply. I like the idea of expressing how much I would like to spend more time with him. This is true as well. I don't particularly struggle with bureaucracy in my job, but the cost of living crisis meant I almost lost my home, so I was living with extreme worry for a long tim... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I Need A Neuro-Diverse Perspective! |
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Posted: 26 Mar 2025, 2:21 pm
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| Dear All I am an NT woman happily in a relationship with a ND guy and we have been together almost 5 years. Recently, I have felt burnt out in my teaching job and need to cut down my work as it's affecting my mental health. When I say to my partner that I feel overworked, he flatly responds with &qu... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Post a love song |
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Posted: 27 Aug 2024, 5:30 pm
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What Would Help You? |
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Posted: 27 Aug 2024, 5:14 pm
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| Oh yes, I understand. I think it's an excellent idea. Gives processing time, too, I think. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What Would Help You? |
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Posted: 27 Aug 2024, 5:01 pm
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What Would Help You? |
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Posted: 27 Aug 2024, 4:54 pm
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| Thank you, IsabellaLinton and Raleigh, that's really helpful because it gives me insight in to how he might be feeling. I have to admit, I haven't asked him why he doesn't always respond verbally, although I feel sure that if I did, he wouldn't reply but would then look slightly apologetic. I would ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What Would Help You? |
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Posted: 27 Aug 2024, 3:52 pm
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| Dear All I really need your help. I am in love with a wonderful neurodiverse man (undiagnosed) who I have been with for 4 years. We are about to settle down and buy an apartment together. The situation is interesting in that we have a long distance relationship and he intends to keep his current pro... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Time together |
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Posted: 18 Nov 2012, 5:21 am
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| Silky, it really gives me so much insight in to how you must feel. Really good post. It's really sweet that you both make the effort for each other. Philosophical question: do you think that if you were just 100% yourself with him, without any niceties, and he loved you just the same anyway, do you ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Time together |
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Posted: 17 Nov 2012, 8:48 am
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| Kjas , thanks again for your thoughts on this. The re-diarying might be tricky as basically his 'set' nights for rehearsing with the bands he's in are Mon and Thurs, and often these bands have gigs on a weekend, which either tends to be a Sat or a Sun. That I can live with. What is hard on the NT p... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Time together |
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Posted: 17 Nov 2012, 4:51 am
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| Thanks so much for your thoughts. Kjas, you explained it really well, thank you. I think I have a lot of thinking to do. I think this may be a difficult relationship to sustain long-term for me if there can't be any compromise at all, as I feel lonely having to go constantly without him. I remember ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Time together |
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Posted: 16 Nov 2012, 5:34 pm
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| Hi everyone, I need some help and advice. I am deeply in love with an Aspie guy who I have sadly just split up with. We were only together 8 months, but felt so strongly for each other that we moved in together only 2 months ago. What has caused us to split up was the fact that every single weekend,... |
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