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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Women are not attracted to me because I'm not 'masculine'? |
| Ravenfeather1 |
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Posted: 29 Mar 2013, 5:18 pm
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Replies: 267
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Mishra2012 wrote: I'm mainly attracted to slightly feminine straight males. I like them slim to chubby. "Manly men" remind me of chimps and gorillas most of the time. I would tolerate a masculine guy if he was a GREAT otherwise.
Yeah me too. I i really don't like facial hair or chest hair. I dunno why. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My husbands treats me like an employee |
| Ravenfeather1 |
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Posted: 29 Mar 2013, 5:13 pm
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Replies: 13
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| What if you start pre-empting his micromanaging ways by texting him in advance to let him know that abc & xyz are all taken care of and everything's going smoothly at home and with the kids? Maybe he texts and micromanages you like that because he's anxious and worried about these things being ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Rejection |
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Posted: 29 Mar 2013, 4:38 pm
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Replies: 12
Views: 2,113
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You are not defective. 
When its confession time, you never really know how someone will react. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do women like it when men french kiss on the first date? |
| Ravenfeather1 |
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Posted: 29 Mar 2013, 4:34 pm
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Replies: 32
Views: 23,749
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| So do you know how to ask without talking? For example, if you move in for a kiss and she doesnt turn her head, on the mouth is ok. So you lightly brush her lips with yours. She doesnt pull away. She may even open her mouth slightly, you lick her lips. She opens her mouth, its a go. If at any time s... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Boyfriend with asperger, difficult.. |
| Ravenfeather1 |
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Posted: 29 Mar 2013, 4:26 pm
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Replies: 12
Views: 2,652
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| Sometiimes i throw my hand up and say my turn. And sometimes i tell him it isnt about him. Right then and there. I dont wait for it to fester. Speak clearly and concisely. My husband is very smart, but small words work best in the moment you are feeling left out. I dont yell. I state it calmly. This... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My husbands treats me like an employee |
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Posted: 29 Mar 2013, 4:20 pm
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Replies: 13
Views: 12,688
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| @camo..no, in the beginning we both had jobs. Then i couldnt have him, house and three kids, one with bi polar disorder. So the job had to go. @januaryman...he doesnt think counseling will help. I just want to be able to respond appropriately. I have learned it is about the response i provide to his... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why is it impossible for an ugly man to be desired? |
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Posted: 29 Mar 2013, 4:10 pm
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Replies: 83
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| Ok, now i like LOOKING at tall men with chiseled abs and jaw, but i talk to everyone. I mean i have conversations. I like people. Scientifically speaking, we are coded to hunt for the best physical features for reproduction. The hard part is that not everyone is intelligent, even if they are pretty.... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My husbands treats me like an employee |
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Posted: 29 Mar 2013, 3:45 pm
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Replies: 13
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| He responds to me like he is treated at work, which doesnt really relate to home life. He wants the house clean, the yard mowed, the cars serviced, the bills taken care of and he wants no part of any of that. If i need him to sign something, talk to someone on the phone if it is something in his nam... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Trying to maintain relationships outside of my marriage |
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Posted: 17 Dec 2012, 4:31 pm
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Replies: 5
Views: 2,132
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| Perhaps you could also search online for an AS support group where you could meet other parents or spouses in the same situation. I hope you find someone to talk to, in the meantime you can talk to us, if you think that will help Though i did. I have typed in question after question in different se... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Hi |
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Posted: 17 Dec 2012, 4:24 pm
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Replies: 2
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Feeling unloved? Vent it here. |
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Posted: 17 Dec 2012, 1:18 pm
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Replies: 34
Views: 9,783
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Ok peoples, hugs for everybody. 
Everyone is worthy. You cant always have what you want. Some people just dont get it. Ya cant change them. But you yourself are special. You have a talent that no one else has. And i bet that talent is pretty cool. |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Easier being friends with males than females. |
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Posted: 17 Dec 2012, 12:13 pm
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Replies: 68
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| I find that women are more catty then men and the more time i spend with my husband and son who have aspergers its harder for me to interact with females. So i end up feeling out of place. I feel like i have forgotten how to "play the game" that i hated to begin with. So my friends are male. I serio... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: guys: what does it take to get yours up? |
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Posted: 17 Dec 2012, 12:07 pm
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Replies: 54
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| For my husband, its the thought that another man wants me. He says if there is no competition he doesnt want it. But then he doesnt get the cues that another man is flirting with me. Very frustrating. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Trying to maintain relationships outside of my marriage |
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Posted: 17 Dec 2012, 11:17 am
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Replies: 5
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| @minervx--i can only change me. He sees the problem as me and therefore in his mind i need to change and make things work for him and make him acceptable. @abyssquick--i dont take him everywhere anymore. Ive just noticed that i dont fit in anymore even when i go alone. I keep replaying all the thing... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Trying to maintain relationships outside of my marriage |
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Posted: 17 Dec 2012, 10:42 am
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Replies: 5
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| My husband and son have aspergers. My husband has cost me two jobs and my son one job. I am not angry about this, i love being a stay at home mom. But sometimes i need adult time. I could make friends easily, earlier in our marriage, and then when we would hang out, my husband would say something, c... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Hi |
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Posted: 17 Dec 2012, 10:25 am
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Replies: 2
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| My name is Susanna My husband has asperger's I have three children Middle son also has asperger's Love to read and write Love sci fi, dark fantasy, historical fiction, historical romance Aspirations at this moment, getting my son through high school. :) We have been married for 16 years. Life is a r... |
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