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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: NT/AS How to approach my boyfriend/exboyfriend |
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Posted: 24 Jan 2013, 3:04 pm
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| Listen to @aspiemike. I came here to talk to someone about my own breakup that just happened, and found your thread. I know that you're going through some difficult things, but what he said is true: You need to be met halfway to make this work. I am the NT in the relationship, and even though I took... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Women always ignore me if they call/text while I'm asleep? |
| daikoncattish |
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Posted: 21 Jan 2013, 3:12 am
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| I think the problem is that her anxiety is not soothed until she gets the message from you that says, "Oh hey, sorry I was asleep." During those 3 hours she didn't hear back, her imagination could have been running wild with all sorts of explanations, none of which were as predictable as being aslee... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to talk to Asian girls? |
| daikoncattish |
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Posted: 15 Jan 2013, 12:10 am
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| @1000Knives I'm willing to bet you're a bit friendlier than I am to people. :D I think you're right to point out the introverted factor, too. That definitely applies to me! And I don't know how to do anything with daikon either, but I think they're neat. Honestly, I just needed to make up a username... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to talk to Asian girls? |
| daikoncattish |
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Posted: 13 Jan 2013, 9:31 pm
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| Hi, Asian woman here checking in. I haven't read all of the replies to this thread yet, so forgive me if I'm repeating something that's already been said, but here goes... I am so tired of guys trying to come onto me by saying something in any Asian language. I don't know how to say anything, so you... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Please help me (NT woman) understand. All advice welcome. |
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Posted: 04 Jan 2013, 1:40 am
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Replies: 52 Views: 9,068
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| Explanation for: Me: I am exhausted from work, feel sick to my stomach, and in general feel like I'm losing it. I am so upset. Him: Why are you upset? The reason this was so difficult was because from my point of view, it was obvious to see how I could be upset (I was physically and emotionally drai... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Please help me (NT woman) understand. All advice welcome. |
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Posted: 27 Dec 2012, 12:07 pm
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Replies: 52 Views: 9,068
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| why I thought asperger's... - extremely intelligent (high IQ at a young age) - preoccupation with a few interests (and will tell you all about them even if you don't understand!) - has trouble with hypothetical situations (will respond to minor details about hypothetical situation that have little t... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Please help me (NT woman) understand. All advice welcome. |
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Posted: 27 Dec 2012, 6:42 am
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Replies: 52 Views: 9,068
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| I got busy and didn't get a chance to really look at this until now and all I can say is thank you. Everyone saw the situation from a really difference angle, but it was so helpful to see it all spelled out. Nearly all of it rings true, and well, I just can't say thank you enough for your help. To a... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Please help me (NT woman) understand. All advice welcome. |
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Posted: 26 Dec 2012, 6:13 pm
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Replies: 52 Views: 9,068
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| Recently, my AS bf and I got into a fight. I was stressed out and extremely angry, so I told him that I needed to cool off, but I would talk to him in two days when I could think more clearly. After two days, we shared a little chit chat, nothing serious, and agreed to talk about the fight the next ... |
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