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 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Smiling

MissT
Posted: 05 Mar 2013, 3:32 am 

Replies: 4
Views: 1,867
As an NT...all I can say is that if you don't want to smile don't...if you do want to smile then take comfort in the fact that most people are more open and friendly with people who smile...its not up to you to determine how the other takes your smile...if they think OH MY GOD that guy likes me...th...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: How does NT protect themselves from AS meltdown?

MissT
Posted: 05 Mar 2013, 3:21 am 

Replies: 29
Views: 2,802
So basically its like a train coming down the tracks..there is no way to derail it...if he's going heading toward a melt down then just get out of the way...ok...it seems sad..wish I could help him more...like distract him somehow...but alas, I just need to learn to get the hell out of the way. I wi...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Does an aspergers have chance of dating normal person?

MissT
Posted: 05 Mar 2013, 12:57 am 

Replies: 21
Views: 8,454
Imagine someone coming up to you and saying "your fat!"...it may be a fact...but it would turn most people off. Most people would think...wow, that person doesn't like me. If you are "direct", "frank"..lack emotion it is taken by NT's as not caring. This is something that can be worked on by finding...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Can't connect with anyone / maybe just plain crazy

MissT
Posted: 05 Mar 2013, 12:47 am 

Replies: 18
Views: 3,641
As an NT, and not fluent yet (I'm just learning) in AS...would it be wrong if I said..try to listen to the other person, ask questions, try to find a common interest. People love to talk about themselves. The more you listen and nod your head the more validated they feel. Also, mimicking their body ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: How does NT protect themselves from AS meltdown?

MissT
Posted: 05 Mar 2013, 12:30 am 

Replies: 29
Views: 2,802
Thank you all for your responses...as an NT I wish I knew how to help him (and therefore help me) to divert him from his meltdown. He is not violent or anything he just gets extreamly critical of me and seems to see me as the "enemy". My instinct is to try to talk it out, ask him what's wrong, try t...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: How does NT protect themselves from AS meltdown?

MissT
Posted: 04 Mar 2013, 10:03 pm 

Replies: 29
Views: 2,802
The problem is that he doesn't recognize that he's heading towards a meltdown...I do. What can I do to help him avoid the explosion?

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: How does NT protect themselves from AS meltdown?

MissT
Posted: 04 Mar 2013, 9:52 pm 

Replies: 29
Views: 2,802
Ive been dating an AS for 7 years. Now that I know more about AS I was wondering if anyone can explain to me how to avoid the meltdown...do I leave or do I stay? Do I stay quiet or do try to calmly talk to him....any help or advice would be appreciated. BTW...he is in denial.
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