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 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Deal-breakers for men?

Posted: 07 Apr 2013, 5:30 pm 

Replies: 196
Views: 13,006


:lol: I'm not sure what to say, really, just that I wouldn't even think of some of those dealbreakers! I'm not sure if it's part of my AS but I tend to assume the best of everyone, until proven otherwise. And, of course, having spent years thinking that everyone else is 'normal' and I'm the weird on...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: what about pot smokers (dating one)

Posted: 06 Apr 2013, 5:33 am 

Replies: 44
Views: 6,145


I get mistaken for one too, due to slow tempo of speech and processing conversation, as well as being in my head a lot. Funnily, longest relationship I've ever had was with a pot smoker. Nothing against it and I can take it or leave it - the only problem was he couldn't! He'd start in the morning an...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: One Night Stand

Posted: 06 Apr 2013, 5:19 am 

Replies: 48
Views: 4,511


I've tried a one-night stand with a friend of a friend when I was younger, because a friend told me I should go for it (yeah, stupid reason, I know!). It was physically good, but that was all. Sex for me is very much about what's going on in my head and if that's not happening then it does seem like...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Dealbreakers for women?

Posted: 05 Apr 2013, 12:59 pm 

Replies: 30
Views: 3,475


Dealbreakers for me: - no ambition or greater goals in life - does illegal drugs - bad hygeine - severely overweight - irresponsible, especially with money - unintelligent , and herd-minded - is into gossip, drama, or other high school bullshit - is severely religious or has no morals, either extre...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Dealbreakers for women?

 Post subject: Dealbreakers for women?
Posted: 05 Apr 2013, 11:55 am 

Replies: 30
Views: 3,475


So, as a woman, reading posts on here, I'm surprised to find out that women don't like short, ugly, skinny, fat men with no money or power. Strangely, my track record seems to contain various men who could fit into those categories. So I got to thinking, what actually are women's dealbreakers? For m...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Why do women care so much about a mans height?

Posted: 05 Apr 2013, 11:32 am 

Replies: 255
Views: 29,924


Just the generalizations and presumptions people like to make without having no evidence for their claims, it's common around here. You are a newcomer here, you will learn soon enough. Thank you :lol: As for tall men, yes they do have advantages, but height isn't a dealbreaker for me. I do like to ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Any other guys "dropping out" of dating completely

Posted: 05 Apr 2013, 7:40 am 

Replies: 49
Views: 7,779


Maybe people just marry earlier in the UK? I'm not saying that that's the case, but it could affect the age-range of women who are available and not married or in long-term relationships! But, as I said, it was a tongue-in-cheek comment and I would hate to think that anyone thought I knew what I was...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: What the cluck do I do now?

Posted: 05 Apr 2013, 6:15 am 

Replies: 10
Views: 2,145


Well I've been talking to her about it and she has repeated that it's just the wrong time for her. So I, being the subtle Irish twit I am, Asked her directly if she wants to be just friends or are we just putting things on hold till things settle. She said she couldn't answer that right now. Quite ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Any other guys "dropping out" of dating completely

Posted: 05 Apr 2013, 5:57 am 

Replies: 49
Views: 7,779


I reckon that part of the problem might be your age! I am thinking of my female friends/colleagues and basically all the ones that you'd want a relationship with (and I'm talking personality and looks) are married off by their mid-late 20s. Then there's a gap of about 10/15 years and then there are ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Why do women care so much about a mans height?

Posted: 05 Apr 2013, 4:50 am 

Replies: 255
Views: 29,924


Is it just me, or is this one of those questions where it's not about women in general, just one woman in particular? Just because one woman thinks you're too short doesn't mean they all do! Seems like a nasty mindset to get into?

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: What the cluck do I do now?

Posted: 05 Apr 2013, 4:37 am 

Replies: 10
Views: 2,145


Really, it's up to you. She's made it clear what she wants, but what do you want? She might just need time to re-assess the situation or she might feel it's going too fast, or she might have lost interest. Sadly, none of that matters, as she has said what she wants and the ball is now in your court....

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: How do I get a guy with asperges to fall for me?

Posted: 02 Apr 2013, 3:13 pm 

Replies: 17
Views: 3,248


A little advice the father of a friend gave me years ago: before saying something, cook a bit the other person. For example: if you're gonna invite him to some ice-cream, saying it suddenly can shock him (yeap, not kidding, it's not that easy if you're not used to it. It's the last thing you expect...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: How do I get a guy with asperges to fall for me?

Posted: 02 Apr 2013, 2:12 pm 

Replies: 17
Views: 3,248


Been through this one fairly recently. And the two things that made me think that he liked me were that he was always wherever I was and he used to blush when I talked to him on his own. I ended up just staring at him across the room one day and he seemed to get the hint. But it was totally blatant ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: How to know you're loved?

Posted: 02 Apr 2013, 6:03 am 

Replies: 3
Views: 856


Interesting thoughts. My views on this have only recently changed. I used to want to label everything, to try to make sense of it - if I was a girlfriend then that came with a set of rules that made my life easier. However, I don't want to label my current relationship other than to say it is a rela...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Double Whammy: 30/divorced + AS. Anyone else the same?

Posted: 02 Apr 2013, 5:46 am 

Replies: 4
Views: 744


Keep trying, don't give up faith and sign up to local groups and social activities with a positive attitude. You need to seek actively and not just on dating websites but through other groups as well. Good advice! If online dating is not working for you, try elsewhere or different websites. Just on...
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