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 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: When you're not interested in the conversation

thelostdesign
Posted: 26 Apr 2013, 6:59 am 

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Biscuitman wrote:
She coughs and at the same time mumbles the word 'aspie' which cracks me up! :lol:

You're lucky to have her with you, she's a great woman :)

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: When you're not interested in the conversation

thelostdesign
Posted: 26 Apr 2013, 6:00 am 

Replies: 18
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I think the expression on your face might also have something or a lot to do with it. Yes, quite a lot to do with it. You need to make "I'm interested, tell me more!" face. It takes practice, but achievable. The tone of your voice is equally important. And your posture. And what your hands are doin...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Just Diagnosed, yet somewhat Skeptical (Long)

thelostdesign
Posted: 26 Apr 2013, 12:42 am 

Replies: 27
Views: 3,596
My AS diagnosis (along with Adjustment Disorder) provides answers to some of these questions. I still need to search for an answer to the final question ("How can I find peace for the remainder of my life?"). Thank you. I'm not properly diagnosed, but I'm a bit like you. I score high in "recognisin...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: When you're not interested in the conversation

thelostdesign
Posted: 25 Apr 2013, 10:47 pm 

Replies: 18
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I deal with it by simply accepting the accusations of being an aloof, stuck-up snob. I was like that at one point, but you don't call that "dealing with it". It's just leaving it as it is and not doing anything about it. There are worse things to be, after all--like a nattering idiot. I Agree. But ...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: When you're not interested in the conversation

thelostdesign
Posted: 25 Apr 2013, 10:16 pm 

Replies: 18
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The hardest part is to figure out what the social requirement is in that situation. Cutting off a conversation in a bar is different than in a funeral home, to pick two completely different examples. Yes, you're right, it's very hard. I've put in a lot of time and effort learning it by observation ...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: When you're not interested in the conversation

thelostdesign
Posted: 25 Apr 2013, 9:43 pm 

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I have often been accused of being aloof/stuck-up/snobbish/cold because I didn't look engaged or contribute to the conversation. I know the "social code" dictates that in such situations one should fake interest, look enthusiastic and say something to encourage the speaker to talk more, but gosh, th...

 Forum: Getting to know each other   Topic: I think I have mild AS...

thelostdesign
Posted: 22 Apr 2013, 9:26 am 

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> So just... how were you when you were younger ? I didn't have imaginary friends, but spent a lot of time daydreaming. I was bullied at elementary school (age 6 to 12) partly because I spoke like grown-ups and didn't fit in. Other kids would say something like "She's doing the 'genius talk' again, ...

 Forum: Getting to know each other   Topic: I think I have mild AS...

thelostdesign
 Post subject: I think I have mild AS...
Posted: 22 Apr 2013, 4:42 am 

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Hi there, The jury's still out on whether I have Aspergers or not. The clinical psychologist I used to see (about relationship problems) told me I don't have autism, but I think I have AS. I don't feel the need to be officially diagnosed by a professional, but would like to get to know other people ...
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