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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Letting go of romantic love. Giving up or being realistic? |
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Posted: 13 Jun 2016, 4:40 pm
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Replies: 48
Views: 5,925
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| I've given up. Most girl's potential romantic interest in me lasts somewhere between 10 seconds and 10 days. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Romantic loneliness in men |
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Posted: 04 May 2016, 4:39 pm
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Replies: 183
Views: 10,568
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| 29, permanently single. Am I lonely? Yes. Although seeing others relationships I could (easily) see how I could rapidly become suffocated. Still, in general having no life partner means my goals have largely been for myself and intellectual. It's not entirely satisfying because it's for one's self, ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Importance of driving/transport in a relationship? |
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Posted: 26 Mar 2016, 8:22 pm
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Replies: 108
Views: 4,813
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| Didn't he state he didn't have the right situational awareness? Is risking your life and the lives of other people for what is basically an option form of individual transport (and a wasteful and polluting one at that) simply because of the American cultural indoctrination where every individual nee... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: show yourself[pictures needed] |
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Posted: 08 Feb 2016, 4:37 am
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Replies: 413
Views: 26,353
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| https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/SuoxYg-ImULadhEJEdeWYCbOQnGPQ4SboHOGOJNZ6YBGgCHvIJ7BwpOZJVIWid--8J7mLt2T-ebtiincvlyM7TEu9cQslTb2YZ8dpqkEGSu1OK06BmuUFmqxXzauBgzj4Bv20GjgLi1-568GcgWV39dYNC0CVcie1XKDEjbjWlXM05fhHSjCbDgrlxDc1Tbpu74cvbTHVFUcX8MSL8v-2_EV8ziZc-rwX0Kn8iJwyHRhT_Tm6MJK9xZEjXL4cNK5gZjyaZxow... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Am I attractive? (Avatar is me). |
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Posted: 05 Feb 2016, 4:10 pm
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Replies: 89
Views: 4,280
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| Hard to tell from a single photo like that, though from that I'd say yes. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Opinions on back hair |
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Posted: 30 Jan 2016, 7:44 am
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Replies: 62
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The thing is though beyond urban metrosexuals it seems most body hair is tolerated or even liked Except on the back which seems to produce an almost universal disgust.
One line of my family, is I think somewhat distantly, Jewish which maybe explains this genetic predisposition. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Opinions on back hair |
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Posted: 29 Jan 2016, 10:53 am
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Replies: 62
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| I care because I am weird. It has little to do with society's expectations. I hate the way body hair feels. And I think body hair holds in bad smells. This most likely has to do with my tactile and olfactory sensitivities. Out of interest though, if someone did have body hair would you write them o... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Opinions on back hair |
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Posted: 29 Jan 2016, 12:51 am
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Replies: 62
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| Does anyone else think it's odd the way that society feels about how our bodies naturally look? We'd probably all feel very different about body hair if it weren't expected of everyone to remove so much of it. Plus it tends to change over time.. Such as beards being in style, then out of style and ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Opinions on back hair |
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Posted: 29 Jan 2016, 12:42 am
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Replies: 62
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| I wouldn't worry about it until you actually start dating someone. You're just going to dwell on it and feel bad about yourself. I guess you're right. It does seem kind of pointless unless I'm doing that. Truthfully it just feels like yet another task that has been added on a enormous checklist of ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Opinions on back hair |
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Posted: 29 Jan 2016, 12:34 am
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Replies: 62
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Yigeren wrote: Hmm...There ought to be someone willing to wax your back for you. Ask your mom to do it.
She would definitely not do it. And I'll be in a different country in a few weeks anyway. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Opinions on back hair |
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Posted: 29 Jan 2016, 12:14 am
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Replies: 62
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| I have to do it myself because I can't afford to get it done at a spa. I realise this, and whilst I am not underestimating the pain/effort involved, I would add that the back is not something you can just easily do yourself. It also seems kind of unfair comparison because it's not as if the majorit... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Opinions on back hair |
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Posted: 29 Jan 2016, 12:07 am
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Replies: 62
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| My friend lives in a different country and we aren't that close friends. There are waxing kits designed to do a woman's bikini line that are not expensive. The wax comes in a jar, which is then heated and then a stick is used to apply the wax. Cloth strips are put over the wax and it's yanked off. I... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Opinions on back hair |
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Posted: 28 Jan 2016, 11:53 pm
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Replies: 62
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| In regards to back hair and how I personally feel about it: I don't like it, but I do like chest hair. Not a big fan of ass hair, either. Women in the west have been dealing with removing body hair for decades now, it's not a big deal. It really is a matter of personal taste, and everyone is going ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Opinions on back hair |
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Posted: 28 Jan 2016, 11:47 pm
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Replies: 62
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| In regards to back hair and how I personally feel about it: I don't like it, but I do like chest hair. Not a big fan of ass hair, either. Women in the west have been dealing with removing body hair for decades now, it's not a big deal. It really is a matter of personal taste, and everyone is going ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Opinions on back hair |
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Posted: 28 Jan 2016, 11:26 pm
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Replies: 62
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| Well, I mentioned it because you had said that people probably wouldn't notice if they saw you at a pool. It's up to you what you want to do, of course. Thing is, what if someone was interested in you and saw that you had back hair and then was turned off by it? If you're self-conscious about it, I... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Opinions on back hair |
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Posted: 28 Jan 2016, 11:21 pm
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Replies: 62
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| I do want to say that I remember this one time when me and my Ma were outside at some function and this one guy was topless. He had A LOT of back hair and it was the first thing we noticed. My Ma just kept going on and on about how bad it looked. So I have to say that people do notice, but they jus... |
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