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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Not all virgins are ugly misogynist clueless idiots. |
| dobyfm |
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Posted: 05 Jan 2016, 6:58 pm
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Replies: 79
Views: 5,960
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sly279 wrote: What about 28 or 38 or 48 year old virgins
I will not think they are losers. Why would I? I am in my 20's and still one. Nothing wrong with being a virgin, nothing wrong with not being one. Age is irrelevant. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I only enjoy the "honeymoon phase"? |
| dobyfm |
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Posted: 05 Jan 2016, 6:56 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 1,313
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| Yes, I was emotionally and sexually abused by my first boyfriend when I was 15, and my father also left when I was little because of commitment issues he had. I've actually read that issues like that can be inherited genetically from the father. It's most commonly men who inherit the "promiscu... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I am losing faith in women |
| dobyfm |
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Posted: 05 Jan 2016, 6:37 pm
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Replies: 54
Views: 4,726
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| Yes, it scares them and for some reason. The above "MUST" implies the following 3 MUST: 1. "If you dare to reject me, I will show you my anger, despise you and become an even worse misogyinist." You MUST not reject me. 2. I will be very controlling and jealous in the relationshi... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Getting over the past |
| dobyfm |
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Posted: 05 Jan 2016, 6:30 pm
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Replies: 29
Views: 2,012
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| Never happened to me. I still view most of my strong crushes as wonderful people, and I certainly don't laugh about it. They are still part of my best memories, and probably will be forever. The only exception is a girl I met through a contact-ad. She got the "I hate you" treatment, and t... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Finding someone when you're shy? |
| dobyfm |
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Posted: 05 Jan 2016, 8:28 am
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Replies: 15
Views: 1,794
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| Shyness can be such a barrier at times, but don't feel horrible about it. If you get into a relationship, then good. If you don't, then it is still okay. It is getting harder and harder to find a meaningful relationship each year. :\ |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is anyone else an aspie magnet? |
| dobyfm |
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Posted: 05 Jan 2016, 8:21 am
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Replies: 30
Views: 3,524
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| People are generally attracted to me based on my looks, and my ability to articulate my intelligence in a way those find it enjoyable? Despite being an Aspie, I don't portray myself for one to ever guess that I am. People like that s**t when someone is really different than the norm, yet never boas... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Help please. I made a terrible error |
| dobyfm |
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Posted: 05 Jan 2016, 8:13 am
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Replies: 16
Views: 1,295
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| He is probably conflicted over how he feels about you. He feels like he can't trust you after what you did. Give him his space. With time he may or may not come back to talk to you. I hope you work things out. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I am losing faith in women |
| dobyfm |
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Posted: 05 Jan 2016, 8:03 am
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Replies: 54
Views: 4,726
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| My goal is to have someone, get married and have children. I will fail if I not reaching that goal. I never wanted to live in a monk life. This is no choice. This choice MUST occur because I said so. Maybe you are trying too hard to find someone? Sometimes when we appear too eager in front of someo... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Getting over the past |
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Posted: 05 Jan 2016, 6:09 am
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Replies: 29
Views: 2,012
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| The only solution is to move on and never look back. With time you'll get over this person. In the future you will probably look back at this situation and laugh, which is a good thing. You will wonder what you saw in this person and realize you could probably do better in terms of finding someone m... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: If you felt your life didn't turn out the way you expected |
| dobyfm |
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Posted: 05 Jan 2016, 6:05 am
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Replies: 10
Views: 673
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| I am actually really good at Big O Analysis. That story of your Four Horsemen class sounds funny though. Good thing you got through. My university has yet to teach us C. . . I mean, our computer science department is already a joke so I don't expect to learn it anytime soon. . . The chair is also la... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: If you felt your life didn't turn out the way you expected |
| dobyfm |
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Posted: 04 Jan 2016, 8:27 pm
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Replies: 10
Views: 673
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I took an architecture course where we learned assembly language. Sad knowing we won't be using that anytime in the future. Data structures was the course that taught me a lot.
Thank you so much! |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Aspie Girls: More Nerdy than NT Girls? |
| dobyfm |
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Posted: 04 Jan 2016, 7:05 am
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Replies: 20
Views: 2,916
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| I love Lord of the Rings, Game of Thrones, and medieval fantasy in general. I also enjoy studying math and reading about history. |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Do you ever say (or think to yourself) *sigh* "Men...." |
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Posted: 04 Jan 2016, 7:03 am
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Replies: 23
Views: 1,781
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Maybe when I'm admiring a handsome guy I do that along with a smile on my face.  |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: "that time of the month" |
| dobyfm |
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Posted: 04 Jan 2016, 7:02 am
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Replies: 26
Views: 1,894
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| I don't really get that many inconveniences during my cycle. I do get really bad cramps at night though. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Being rejected when they find out your autistic |
| dobyfm |
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Posted: 04 Jan 2016, 6:48 am
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Replies: 48
Views: 6,538
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| If a woman rejects you because you are autistic then she is not the one for you nor is she worth your time. I hope you find a woman who likes you for you. In response to what someone wrote above: Females with autism also get rejected. Especially the older we get, the harder it is to find a partner b... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I only enjoy the "honeymoon phase"? |
| dobyfm |
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Posted: 04 Jan 2016, 6:42 am
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Replies: 9
Views: 1,313
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| Maybe you have been badly hurt in the past that you find it hard to be with someone for so long. Was there ever a time in your past when someone broke your trust completely? I read somewhere that can cause commitment issues in people. |
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