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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Are other Aspies Control-Freaks when it comes to sex? |
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Posted: 19 Nov 2016, 2:00 pm
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| Hi, I'm gay, and prefer other people on the spectrum rather than NT's. HOWEVER, I have noticed that my partners have always wanted EVERYTHING their way. As an example; 2 days ago I went round a friends home. He said he wanted me to come round as he wanted a cuddle with me. I went round because I do ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How do you feel after a meltdown? |
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Posted: 28 Jul 2016, 12:30 pm
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Replies: 39
Views: 2,342
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| After a melt-down I have to spend a day in bed, with my phone off. I do that as it enables me to return to a normal level the following day. It works because there is no external input . Yes, when I'm in bed for those 24 hours my brain is active, and I think about things such as "How do clouds ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: What they want |
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Posted: 24 Jul 2016, 5:02 pm
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Replies: 1
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| I am a person with ASD, however I do have empathy which means that I take other people into consideration, and so any decisions are mutual. I am fed up with other people I know with ASD wanting to order me about. "We are doing this". or "We are doing that". What I have also notic... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Do you get sad when people die? |
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Posted: 01 May 2016, 2:43 pm
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Replies: 21
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| I don't get that much sad when people die. In my experience I was very sad when my cat died a few years ago. Maybe it's because it is far easier to "Connect" with an animal as their behaviour is largely predictable. Human being are SO, SO complex. My experience is that most people have an ... |
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Forum: Off the Wall: Forum Games, Quizzes, Roleplaying, etc. Topic: Obscure facts ya know! |
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Posted: 01 May 2016, 2:34 pm
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Replies: 2,449
Views: 64,152
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| If a person has a cup of tea after having a liver dinner the tanine in the tea will prevent their body from absorbing most of the iron present in the liver they have eaten. |
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Forum: Off the Wall: Forum Games, Quizzes, Roleplaying, etc. Topic: Keep a word, drop a word... |
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Posted: 30 Apr 2016, 2:47 pm
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Replies: 45,185
Views: 443,932
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Forum: Off the Wall: Forum Games, Quizzes, Roleplaying, etc. Topic: word association game |
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Posted: 30 Apr 2016, 2:45 pm
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Replies: 76,480
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do you hate people saying hi to you? |
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Posted: 29 Apr 2016, 3:53 pm
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Replies: 37
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| I don't mind "hi" but I start to get anxious when people ask "How are you?" Hi SilentOne. If someone asks "How are you?" I just say it as it is. Like today someone asked me, and I replied "I feel bloody miserable". I then asked them how they were. If someone ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do you hate people saying hi to you? |
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Posted: 29 Apr 2016, 3:48 pm
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Replies: 37
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| Hi theAP, Some days I really like chatting to people & social interaction. Other days I just want to do my shopping, routine, ect. and quickly walk past people that I know that may want to chat. If I don't want to chat, I usually say "It was good to see you today, but I really need to get h... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Can't get erection when with someone else |
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Posted: 29 Apr 2016, 3:41 pm
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Replies: 12
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| Sildenafil/viagra can help with anxiety related problems like this. At least you could try it. Hi HauntedKnight. Viagra and others of that nature (including herbal ones) are for erectile dysfunction. Erectile dyfunction is when a man is unable to get an erection AT ANY TIME. In my case I can get a ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Can't get erection when with someone else |
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Posted: 29 Apr 2016, 3:38 pm
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Replies: 12
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| Next time you're hoping to get jiggy , watch some porn together , something you both fancy . Hi Zizu58. I tried that. Porn doesn't give me an erection. The other guy yes, but not me. After I posted my original post I had a dream when I was asleep. I dreamt of me and another guy clothed and cuddling... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Can't get erection when with someone else |
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Posted: 27 Apr 2016, 1:31 pm
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Replies: 12
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| I think your concentrating on the sex part when what you really want is the trust and intimacy part Thank you syzygyish, that makes A LOT of sense :D The reason I concentrate on the "sex part" is because the only people available want to just do that with me. It's not very nice really, as... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: What do you do if you have a erection with people around |
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Posted: 25 Apr 2016, 2:13 pm
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Replies: 19
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My advice is to NOT worry about it.
Males get erections. It is natural. Thay can happen at any moment. It's completely normal.
HOWEVER, erections shouldn't be shown to people unless that other person is OK with you doing so and that you are both over the age of 16. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Can't get erection when with someone else |
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Posted: 25 Apr 2016, 2:05 pm
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Replies: 12
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| Hi, I have a problem which is VERY frustrating: When I am on my own and masterbate I can easily get a hardon (erection). When I do that I would be thinking about doing sex stuff with an individual............. HOWEVER If the very same person who I got an erection about when having a wank gets in my ... |
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Forum: Off the Wall: Forum Games, Quizzes, Roleplaying, etc. Topic: Keep a word, drop a word... |
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Posted: 11 Mar 2016, 2:14 pm
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Replies: 45,185
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Does the flat affect scare NT"s |
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Posted: 11 Mar 2016, 2:08 pm
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Replies: 30
Views: 2,770
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| My advice is to try to fit into this world. That means emulating things that we don't do naturally. Observe people. Watch their expressions, and then when you are home in private try doing those expressions in the mirror. Try to copy them, and once you have then use those same expressions in the sor... |
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