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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: How do you let go? |
| BenoitMtl |
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Posted: 19 Dec 2013, 12:30 pm
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Replies: 21
Views: 14,578
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| Hi: I was wondering how many of you in the past struggle with letting go of things that happened to you in the past next to coping with finding a healthy way to cope with letting go of those ugly circumstances that are long ago and far away. I understood that I had nothing to do with situations hap... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Night club, bars and Christmas parties |
| BenoitMtl |
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Posted: 19 Dec 2013, 9:06 am
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Replies: 2
Views: 815
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| Hi, I would like to know if I am the only one in this case ... I am not able to go to night clubs, bars, etc... Noise, lights are overstimulating and I feel like a rabbit on a road in front of a car ... Frozen. And worst, if it happens that I have no choice to go, I don't know how to interact with o... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: First business trip worries |
| BenoitMtl |
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Posted: 17 Dec 2013, 1:14 pm
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Replies: 2
Views: 438
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| You probably go to a place where all is inclusive .. . You will probably stay whole time in the resort without travel to the conference center, so it will more easy for you. Regarding conferences, I do not try to interact when I am attending but to get valuable info and knowledge for me and the comp... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Adjustments for interviews/work? |
| BenoitMtl |
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Posted: 17 Dec 2013, 11:33 am
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Replies: 4
Views: 636
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| I already have a disability but found out this year I have aspergers. I was wondering how people approach the topic of aspergers/autism with employers and what kinds of adjustments are involved with interviews and working. I really want to know because I'm realising I am at a disadvantage and have ... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Weeknight Bachelor party |
| BenoitMtl |
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Posted: 17 Dec 2013, 6:20 am
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Replies: 4
Views: 736
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| Hey guys I'm hoping to get your opinion on how I should proceed. A friend of mine is having a bachelor party tonight (Monday). I didn't get an invite until last night.....kinda short notice. I have to be at work the next morning and i'm not sure if it would be a good idea to attend. At the same tim... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: more isolated after dx? |
| BenoitMtl |
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Posted: 16 Dec 2013, 8:51 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 1,692
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| I got my dx recently, and it seems to me I've become more isolated since then. Anybody else have a similar experience? It happened to me too. I finally met one woman through Internet dating and we are happily married since more than 5 years now. She understands me and we complement each other perfe... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Need help coping with Changes |
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Posted: 16 Dec 2013, 8:48 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 1,865
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| Hi, I'm 40 and I understand what you mean by "do not like change". I will give you advise I followed. It was never natural for me and finally I enjoyed benefits from them... Perhaps it will work for you .. - Do baby step to adopt a new routine. Think about what you did with your parents, what you ca... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Coworker found out about my obsessional interest |
| BenoitMtl |
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Posted: 15 Dec 2013, 4:33 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 1,351
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| So I've been working at my current job for 4 1/2 years and I've managed to keep my obsessional interest in genealogy rather quiet, though not from everyone I work with. One coworker just found out however. I'm unsure how to proceed. He said today he was surprised to find out I was a "insert job tit... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: No friends |
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Posted: 15 Dec 2013, 3:57 pm
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Replies: 50
Views: 6,565
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| I have no friend ... and I don't know what is the worst ... to feel strange because "everybody has friends" or because I feel totally comfortable like this. The more difficult is the social pressure. I tried to build friendship but I felt myself like playing a role ... I did not know what to do, wha... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Hi from Montreal, Quebec, Canada |
| BenoitMtl |
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Posted: 15 Dec 2013, 3:36 pm
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Replies: 4
Views: 565
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| Hi, I am 40, from Montreal, Canada. I have been very recently diagnosed AS. I have discovered this forum reading about this topic over the Internet. I understood something was different for me since long time, but at least now, I have found professional who help me to find recipes for daily life. It... |
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