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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dated a Wonderful Girl With Asperger's |
| SomeRandomGuy1986 |
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Posted: 02 Jul 2014, 5:22 pm
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| Cheers to you both. Honestly, every word of advice has really helped me understand. We are still in touch and I've also seen her a few times since I was last online (not arranged meetings, it's simply because we work together). I also gave her a wee present as an apology for what I've said etc. Toda... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dated a Wonderful Girl With Asperger's |
| SomeRandomGuy1986 |
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Posted: 16 May 2014, 5:54 pm
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| Deuterium, you are a gem. What you explained there sounds exactly what's been happening with her. Normally in time she'll open up, but you're right, it takes time. She has also asked to be left alone once or twice and I get the short answers. Another twist in the tale - we're back in touch again! To... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dated a Wonderful Girl With Asperger's |
| SomeRandomGuy1986 |
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Posted: 13 May 2014, 9:08 am
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| Yeah I totally agree. When I read your posts it simply hits the nail right on the head for me. She is very unforgiving, I've managed to get her acceptance before a couple of times, but not this time. It is just so so frustrating! She'll tell me she wants to be friends but when I try to chat with her... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dated a Wonderful Girl With Asperger's |
| SomeRandomGuy1986 |
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Posted: 11 May 2014, 9:07 am
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| Thanks GregCav. I first met her about 3 years before we started texting and for me it was like love at first sight. I'm not the most confident guy in the world so I didn't have the courage to ask her out. It was a total coincidence because we were set up with each other when no-one knew how I felt a... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dated a Wonderful Girl With Asperger's |
| SomeRandomGuy1986 |
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Posted: 04 May 2014, 8:39 am
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| I totally agree with you GregCav. That was about 9 months ago I asked her to make a decision and not one day has gone past I haven't regretted it. I wish I could turn back time and it might even have helped if I knew about her AS at those stages. At the time I thought I was being messed around but i... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dated a Wonderful Girl With Asperger's |
| SomeRandomGuy1986 |
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Posted: 03 May 2014, 8:08 am
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Replies: 29
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| I'm so grateful for all your amazing responses, they have been so helpful and a lot of your experiences and ideas confirm some theories I had about our relationship. I did consider the idea that she knew she was hurting me, because I was silly enough to say how I felt about the way I was being treat... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dated a Wonderful Girl With Asperger's |
| SomeRandomGuy1986 |
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Posted: 02 May 2014, 11:23 am
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Replies: 29
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| I actually just found her number on my old phone and I'm thinking about texting her, talking about it on here makes me realise just how much I miss her, even as just friends. I'm worried she'll ignore me though as perhaps she's decided she's had enough of me. I also feel I'll just get stressed again... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dated a Wonderful Girl With Asperger's |
| SomeRandomGuy1986 |
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Posted: 02 May 2014, 9:07 am
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| To GregCav and Kiriae, I totally agree with your posts, I have definitely blown my chance with this girl, trying to accept it but I miss her loads. The more we argued the more cold she started being towards me, I say arguments but it was more a case of me saying something snappy because of how she m... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dated a Wonderful Girl With Asperger's |
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Posted: 30 Apr 2014, 6:54 pm
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| I kind of feel I will spend a long long time feeling she's the one who got away, perhaps maybe the rest of my life. I feel as if she got fed up with me because I got insecure about how she felt about me, but in my mind she gave me reasons for feeling that way. In my opinion I don't think she will ev... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dated a Wonderful Girl With Asperger's |
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Posted: 30 Apr 2014, 1:40 pm
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| She is definitely shy, in fact probably the shyest person I've ever met. She can be quite chatty in person though. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dated a Wonderful Girl With Asperger's |
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Posted: 30 Apr 2014, 1:33 pm
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| I have to admit I did tell her that I wouldn't be contacting her again after she started ignoring my texts. That colleague I mentioned who knew her for years told me many times I should move on as she doesn't seem to have much interest in anyone at all. She is very very close to her mum and she like... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Hi everyone |
| SomeRandomGuy1986 |
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Posted: 30 Apr 2014, 1:14 pm
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I'm an NT guy but I joined the site due to my experience dating and falling for a girl with AS. I've posted under the "Love and Dating" section so feel free to check it out  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dated a Wonderful Girl With Asperger's |
| SomeRandomGuy1986 |
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Posted: 30 Apr 2014, 12:59 pm
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| Thanks for your responses. It is 99% likely that I won't ever hear from her again. I do know that she doesn't care about being in contact with me anymore and yes, it hurts. It's the reason I'm pushing myself to move on but I'm wondering if I will ever get over her. I had never felt that strongly abo... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dated a Wonderful Girl With Asperger's |
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Posted: 30 Apr 2014, 11:13 am
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| One of her colleagues told me who had worked with her for 5/6 years. The same colleague had worked with adults with ASD's so she knew the signs and symptoms. I was also talking to one of my family members about her who is a nurse and she had previously suggested it. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dated a Wonderful Girl With Asperger's |
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Posted: 30 Apr 2014, 9:38 am
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| I'm a 27-year old NT guy and last year I briefly dated and totally fell for a girl with Asperger's. At the time I didn't know about her condition but I always noticed something "different" that had me wondering. Most of our relationship consisted of texting as we only hung out 3 times with a few bri... |
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